To Save a Life (PG-13, 2010)

common sense media says

Message-heavy teen drama with iffy behavior, dark themes.


parents & educators say
  • 80% say there are positive messages
  • 47% say there are positive role models

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that although this Christian-themed drama has tons of heart, it gets a little heavy-handed. Teens engage in all sorts of stereotypically “troubled” behavior -- including drinking, drug use, premarital sex, bullying, and cutting. But the movie's ultimate message -- that this behavior is negative and has consequences -- comes through loud and clear. While it's not particularly graphic, there's one disturbing scene in which an important character brings a firearm to school and then uses it on himself. Production company New Song Pictures is a division of New Song Community Church in Vista, Calif.

Positive messages: Despite some pretty iffy behavior by some of the characters, the movie ultimately makes the point that no one's perfect, and everyone experiences moments to be proud of and not so proud of. Teens will also take away the message that striving to be a better person and encouraging others to do the same are noble goals that should be supported by others.
Positive role models: Although main character Jake isn't perfect -- he parties too much, passively witnesses others get bullied (a popular jock invites a kid to a party for the sole purpose of making
fun of him and later ridicules a student because he’s
exploring his faith, etc.), shuns a lifelong friend, and doesn’t seem to have focus -- he's clearly searching for answers and meaning. A Christian youth group leader helps guide his way, and, at some point, Jake decides his pastimes are no longer much fun. But the metamorphosis doesn’t easily stick, and Jake sometimes lashes out at others.
Violence: A student smuggles a gun into school, fires warning shots, and then kills himself with it. Two characters punch each other. One character deals with the pressures of growing up by cutting himself.
Sex: A teen couple is seen pawing each other in the dark. Sex is hinted at: A guy is shown pulling up his pants while a girl zips up her dress. A teen gets pregnant and agonizes over what to do about it.
Language: "Damn" is about it.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Kids pass around a joint outside school. A house full of underage teens drink -- downing shots and guzzling what appear to be alcoholic beverages out of red plastic cups. At one party, two guys play beer pong, drinking in excess. A man drinks alone after his wife leaves him because he’s unfaithful. A kid attempts to kill himself with pills.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about what drives Jake to change. Why did he dump his friendship with Roger in the first place? What was the payoff? And why does Roger’s death trigger his soul-searching?
  • Is this a message movie? If so, how does it deliver that message?
  • Parents, talk with your teens about the real-life consequences of behavior like underage drinking and sex. What do the characters in the movie learn about these topics? Are they realistic lessons?

What's the story?

What's the story?
After his childhood best friend, Roger (Robert Bailey, Jr.) -- who once saved his life and whom he abandoned in pursuit of popularity -- kills himself at school, Jake (Randy Wayne) grows listless and unfocused. A popular high school senior, he no longer finds joy in the partying that has occupied his social life. He wants to understand Roger’s motivation and longs for some peace. But getting that isn’t easy: His friends and girlfriend don’t understand why he’s so tortured and won’t drink anymore and why he’s drawn to the church. But embracing a Christian life doesn’t come easily, either.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

A youth pastor pleads for his flock not to be judgmental in one pivotal scene, but TO SAVE A LIFE is smothered by heavy-handedness. It means well, but it tries too hard to drive home its message, making for an awkwardly told tale. Solutions to teen angst are simplistic, like when high-schoolers decide to get opposing groups together by sitting in the school yard and inviting everyone to join. In another scene, a neighbor invites a senior to stop in for cookies (!) after he helps her with her groceries. The film heaps problem after problem on the shoulders of troubled characters as if they’re being punished for their supposedly rudderless lives. Plus, the ending’s pat. And the villains? They’re bad to the (stereotypical) bone.

But some moments ring with authenticity -- Jake’s struggle to make sense of Roger’s devastating act, for one, and his reunion with Roger’s mother after a long estrangement. One boy’s sweetly dorky way of asking a girl out comes across as charming. And a pastor’s explanation of how God and faith figure in one’s life is refreshingly complex, tinted with a few shades of gray. Still, the film never quite rises above its afterschool-special vibe.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: New Song Pictures
Director: Brian Baugh
Cast: Deja Kreutzberg, Randy Wayne, Sean Michael
Genre: Drama
Run time: 120 minutes
Theatrical release: January 22, 2010
DVD release: August 2, 2010
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: mature thematic elements involving teen suicide, teen drinking, some drug content, disturbing images and sexuality

This review was written by S. Jhoanna Robledo
 
 

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Based on 30 parent & educator reviews:
  • 80% say there are positive messages
  • 47% say there are positive role models

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Appalling and dangerous
This movie is appallingly bad, a series of afterschool special cliches that are crowded together as an excuse to proselytize for the purportedly redemptive power of Christianity. There were only about 3 other people in the theatre when I saw it and quite frankly I would have walked out halfway through but I wanted to see if it would actually maintain its lack of quality. I was shocked: it actually got worse as the film went on. Most disturbing is the message that young people with dreams should willingly give up their dreams rather than *gasp* considering having an abortion. And of course the promulgation of the lie that even one episode of unprotected sex will lead to pregnancy. Conveniently, the main characters end up not having to give up their dreams thanks to the "miracle" of an open adoption--but that fairy tale ending doesn't come about until after we're hit over the head with the message that NOTHING, bar nothing, is more important than throwing away your future so you can be teenage, unwed parents. This message is irresponsible beyond belief. Overall, I think it's highly disturbing this movie was made, let alone that it found distributors. I'm exceedingly glad it's being pulled from theatre in my city after only 1 week of release.

Emanick
adult
 
Perfect in its imperfections
I saw this movie last night. I didn't think it was heavy-handed at all - it was honest, brutally honest, despite the negative themes and the happy ending. Its portrayal of high schools and youth groups was spot-on - it shows how even though people can be well-meaning overall, simple neglect on their part can still destroy lives. It's not a corny movie. It's realistic, with a realistic message. Teens deal with the "negative" elements of this movie in real life all the time - I should know, I am one! More than anything else, the movie shows how hiding from the REAL problems around you can be downright destructive. The negative elements are there because they are there in real life, not because they're being glorified. Incidentally, I wouldn't recommend this movie for kids under 11 unless they're exceptionally mature. It has an extremely important message that no one should miss, but it's presented in a mature way... so klicea, I wouldn't recommend taking an 8-year-old to it. :P

 
Shallow and not much of a real point...
For a Christian movie, it had better acting than usual. Yet, for a christian movie, it was awfully shallow and not very different from some secular movies. I mean? How many people DON'T already know that they're supposed to love each other and be GOOD? Plus, as the movie shows, even Christians fail at being perfect. So, what's the point? Jesus isn't the point of this movie, that's for sure. And He's the only one that can truly save a life. Seriously, you can act all good and stuff, but if you're not going to tell people about the truth also, you may as well not even be a Christian.

 
Take Responsibilty
To Save A Life is a Good movie for teen entering high school as it gives a fairly realistic overview of the pitfalls they will face. Depression, suicide, bullying, loneliness, sex, drugs, pregnancy, confusion and pain all went to my high school. And yours? The film is a conversation-starter at least and, at best, guide to finding help. "Good" movies, faith films, and family movies can't win because if they show the problems people really face, then they're too worldly. If they suggest or encourage a morality determined by God, they appear to offer pat, unrealistic answers. The characters in the film make mistakes and deal with the consequences. God doesn't appear at the end and make it all better. Roger isn't resurrected and Amy's pregnancy test is still positive. The best part of the film is that character have to face their mistakes, find the answers, and take responsibility. That's a Good movie.

 
The church must stop hiding and confront the culture
First of all, this was an excellent movie that the whole family can enjoy. I would not venture to say that many of the characters are “good role models” despite making better choices toward the end, they do not set an overly great example. It’s ironic that some of you think the film does not invoke the name of Christ enough while others accuse it of overtly proselytizing. The fact of the matter is, “To Save a Life” is the story of a young adult coming to understand who Jesus is, therefore you can’t expect him to accept Jesus then run right out and start preaching. Movies like those are the reason so many people hate Christian movies, they’re not true to life. In response to the previous abortion comments, it is tremendously selfish to say that one should not even take into consideration the life of an unborn child when the child becomes an obstacle to you achieving your goals. The title “To Save a Life” is multi-faceted in this film. Friend to friend, stranger to stranger, Holy God to sinful man, and even parent to child. It is also great that it does show how Christians are human, and therefore imperfect too, further illustrating the truth that Jesus doesn’t demand perfection but accepts the sinner who will turn to Him. Ultimately, in your face reality melded with the forgiveness and hope of Jesus Christ.

taylorswift2122
teen, 14 years old
 
perfect for late middle school students
this movie is really good for older mature teens. the book was good also. make's you realize it's not always easy to change your way's.

Asfmlycnr
parent of 16 year old
 
Great Conversation Starter
Loved this movie. I'm a parent, and yes, it makes me uncomfortable to see the scenes depicting sex, drinking and drug use. But let's face it, this isn't the only place our kids are going to see these things, and it probably itsn't the first time they will be seeing these things. Middle and high school students are exposed to so much by their classmates. So as parents we squirm a little in our seats, but gain an opportunity to talk to our teens about these things and reinforce our values.

 
Best Christian Film Yet
At the end of this film, I was left with misty eyes. True, it lags some in the middle, but the messages ring true, helped by a very aptly acted lead (Randy Wayne as Jake Taylor). Though some say the end is stereotypical, I found it summed up the whole film beautifully. Watch it. You'll leave wondering what you can do 'to save a life'.

laceynoelle970
teen, 15 years old
 
Powerful movie about important teen issues.
This movie was a m a z i n g my favorite... ever. I disagree with the common sense ratings on it, It's nothing too intense, and I'm EXTREMELY squeamish. It is however very mature, dealing souly with teen suicide, but it's a VERY POWERFUL movie. The main character, Jake is an amazing role model in that he made some really big mistakes, but he turned his life around. Also, there's another version of the movie that you can buy that is for churches to show that takes out some of the cussing and sex and self mutilation , you just have to google it. This movie was great and powerful, and i don't think it's too intense for anyone over 13 or 14. I mean.. think about it.. self injury and suicide, even sex DOES GO ON IN MIDDLE SCHOOLS. This movie just portrays these issues in a powerful and meaningful way. Truly my favorite.

insert name here
teen, 15 years old
 
I saw this movie with my church and it really made me think a lot and I enjoyed the feelgood ending that made me smile :)

WebCriticGirl76
teen, 18 years old
 
One of The Best!!!
I loved this movie, and it is not inappropriate since it is a Christian movie. Amy and Jake have sex at the beginning, she wears a shirt that reveals her breasts a lot. They smoke and get drunk at a party. There is violence, a fight, a bomb, a kid shoots himself. They use mild language, too. But they all end up as great role models (Amy, Jake, etc.) This movie teaches a valuable lesson about Christianity. To bring someone to God is to save their life.

Jadenp
teen, 15 years old
 
Great, emotionally intense movie. Iffy stuff throughout.
Suggested MPAA Rating: PG-13 for mature thematic elements involving teen suicide, teen drinking/partying, drug use, disturbing images, sexuality, and language. Great movie, with great messages, but not appropriate for anyone under 14

spike12
teen, 15 years old
 
AMAZEING!!!
I LOVE THIS MOVIE!! its a really good movie!!!

bcirone
parent of 13 year old
 
Great movie about consequences of bullying
I'm thinking of having my girl scout troop (12/13 year olds - 7th graders) watch this movie as a group and sent a note to the moms to see if they think it's appropriate. I know my 12 year wouldn't have a problem watching it. I feel middle schoolers are not naive and that knowledge is power. The scene where the main character and his girlfriend are in bed is done tastefully. It is implied, there are no naked bodies. The scene where the gun is used in the school may be a little scary, but it can open up the discussion, "what would you do in this situation". Unfortunately, in this day and age, everyone needs to be aware of the situation around them.

joejoeboy
kid, 12 years old
 
great for teens
this movie is great for teens i love it after the first 15 minutes it isnt innapropiate there are some mild langauge

 
Good for teens and older
I was a bit hesitant to go and watch this film. I had seen a few other Christian films before and the acting was not impressive, resulting in a big distraction from the actual story. This was not the case in To Save a Life. The acting was not at the same level of movies with A-List actors, but not bad enough to create a distraction. As I already mentioned, because the acting was up to par, I was able to concentrate on the story and what exactly was going on. The story was excellent. I applaud everyone in and involved with the film because of how daring they were with portraying a lifestyle that is so prevalent in today’s society, but never portrayed or talked about by churches. As a child, I was raised going to church every Sunday and Wednesday and I was never told about that kind of lifestyle. I just knew that whatever it was, it was frowned upon. Now that To Save a Life surfaced, I believe that people will now be able to see what that lifestyle is about and the destruction it can cause along with how, if managed correctly, it can be a good way to relax by just hanging out with friends and not worrying about anything. The “relatability” is fantastic. They showcase so many different characters in which anyone can find a person they can relate to. It was a great film, and I will and have suggested it to all my friends and family.

CucumberInTheS ...
teen, 18 years old
 
ABSOLUTE MUST SEE FOR ALL TEENS
This movie EYE-OPENING. Beyond GREAT message. It can change the your view on how you treat others, and how our peers are treated around us. How it is so much for than 'just fun' and how what seems like "innocent fun" can physically, spiritually, mentally, emotional hurt and kill us and those around us. This movie is a REFRESHING CHANGE amongst all the sex/drug promoting movies. Families watch it with your teens, have their friends over...try suggesting some discussion afterwards. When my family and some other teens saw it at the theatre, automatic and immediate discussion followed... I can't emphasize or say enough POSITIVE things about this movie.

heymonday101
teen, 15 years old
 
WONDERFUL! FIVE STARS! Inspiring movie and an even better book
Amazing movie! I know I've put some bad things on here, but this movie brought me to Christ. I have no idea how CSM could give this two stars. This is a wonderful, inspiring, sob-your-eyes-out movie. The book is even better. I strongly recommend this. I cry evert time I see/read it again.

Chinagirl123
teen, 13 years old
 
best movie ever!!!!SAve a life!!!!!!!!
I LUV THIS MOVIE. My favorite character in the movie was Jonny, because i can relate to him. This movie helped me and many of my friends. Honestly if the whole world saw this mabey teen suicides would go down. There was nothing in the sex scene, THE DIDNT SHOW ANYTHING. And it brought me closer to my faith so this is overall my favorite movie and one of the best movies ive seen i just watched it today for the 20th time or more probely. Like TO Save A Life sas a movie cant chang a worl but the people who whatch it can. So whatch it you might end up saving a life.

andrewjensen
teen, 17 years old
 
i never seee it

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