Sex and the City: The Movie (R, 2008)

common sense media says

Just as fun, sexy, and label heavy as the series.


parents & educators say
  • 31% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this comedy is based on HBO's hugely popular series Sex and the City TV series, which has garnered quite a following among teens thanks to DVDs and edited reruns in syndication. The movie is very similar to the unedited version of the show -- meaning that while it's warm and endearing (for the most part), it's also quite raunchy. There's plenty of frank talk about sex, sometimes in front of a child (though the characters use a euphemism to shield her from their usual saucy banter). There's also a fair amount of partial nudity (both female and male, including breasts and butts), a brief male frontal shot (or, rather, a glimpse of the front from the side), and characters shown in various sexual positions. Also expect lots of salty language, a good bit of drinking, and piles of high-end brand names and products. But, all of that said, just like the series, the sex and shopping aren't really the point here -- the women's friendships are.

Positive messages: Although threre's plenty of iffy behavior, the movie has a very warm heart beating at its center (in the form of the foursome's enduring friendship), and the characters' misdeeds aren't borne out of malice but are the result of human frailty. In the end, everyone is supportive of each other and, above all else, honest.
Positive role models: Men cheat and jilt, women lie to their friends (and shop, shop, shop),
both sexes waffle at commitment -- but it all sounds worse than it is. Overall, the characters care about each other and their relationships very much.
Violence: A woman hits a man over the head with a bouquet. Otherwise, just lots of emotional sparring.
Sex: The title doesn't lie: There's tons of sex in the movie. Sex in the shower, sex on beds, even a threesome. Nudity includes several shots of breasts (often heaving in passion), butts, and a quick glimpse of male genitalia. There's also an attempted seduction on a dining table (with sushi used to conceal sensitive bits). Some scenes are explicit and up close, while others are quick cuts.
Language: As with the HBO series, colorful and uncensored, including everything from "bitch," "a--hole," and "dick" to "bulls--t" and "f--k." But not as frequent as in some other R-rated comedies.
Consumerism: Hello, product placement. Rather than ask what was included, better to consider what wasn't. Expect a parade of Louis Vuitton purses, Manolo Blahnik shoes, Chanel dresses, Tiffany boxes, a Vivienne Westwood wedding dress, Skyy vodka, Vitamin Water, and more -- the name-dropping and label-flashing stops for no one.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Frequent social drinking and some smoking (cigars, outside a bar after a celebration). One of the characters slides into a funk after suffering a major heartbreak and self-medicates with alcohol.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how the movie presents sex. Is it all just for fun, or are there consequences? If so, what are those consequences? 
  • What messages are teens likely to take away from the movie about relationships?
  • Does the movie deal with the same issues as the series? Is the quest for love still the central theme? If so, what kind of love? In the end, does a woman need a relationship to be whole?
  • What's the glue that binds these characters together? What role do friends have in your life? Do they sometimes take the place of family? Why? 

What's the story?

What's the story?
When last we saw SEX AND THE CITY's fashionable foursome, they were off to their respective happily-ever-afters. But, as narrator Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) would likely put it, what does it all mean to live happily ever after? Four years later, Carrie and her beloved Big (Chris Noth) -- now given a proper name, John James Preston -- are still going strong. But when they decide to get married, what begins as a simple affair quickly gets complicated, threatening to overwhelm everything (much like Carrie's fantastical Vivienne Westwood wedding dress). Meanwhile, Brooklyn-based Miranda (Cynthia Nixon) and Steve (David Eigenberg) are stuck in a rut that gets a much-needed -- if painful -- jolt, and Samantha (Kim Cattrall), still with golden boy Smith (Jason Lewis), bristles under the constraints of an established relationship. Only Charlotte (Kristin Davis) seems perfectly happy (she's even pregnant!), but that itself gives her reason to pause, if only because she worries when the proverbial other shoe will drop.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
When the series hit the scene years ago, it was groundbreaking, not only because it served up so much sex (the word is in the title, after all) -- and from a woman's point of view, at that -- but also because it fearlessly examined women's relationships with the men in their lives and, more importantly, with each other. Although the movie doesn't blaze any new trails (the dialogue, though offering handfuls of barbs, seems to have been written with a pencil less sharp than usual), fans will still likely walk away satisfied, since it serves up plenty of what made devotees watch in the first place: Friendship, romance, and drama in the big city.

The women themselves, while older, are none the worse for wear. It's so refreshing to see them celebrate themselves as they are, not pining for a youth that was so much better, bolder, and brighter than the present. The men, too, seem to have gotten better with age, especially Big, who -- though still confused -- exudes a warmth rarely seen in the series. That said, we get far too little of Stanford (Willie Garson) and Anthony (Mario Cantone). And while it's true that SATC was built on glamour, the vast array of branded products is just too much. The movie actually gets better once it dispenses with the fabulosity and gets down to the business of drama. Of the four storylines, Carrie's and Miranda's hold the most depth, but Samantha gets all the best lines, if no longer all the great sex (surprise, surprise). Charlotte, who was most transformed in the series, deserves more complexity, as does Jennifer Hudson as Carrie's assistant. But even though the movie isn't perfect, there are stand-out moments that remind us of the show's singular ability to tap into authenticity amid all the frivolity. And that's when we want to embrace SATC like a long-lost friend.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: New Line
Director: Michael Patrick King
Cast: Cynthia Nixon, Kim Cattrall, Kristin Davis, Sarah Jessica Parker
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 148 minutes
Theatrical release: May 29, 2008
DVD release: September 22, 2008
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: strong sexual content, graphic nudity and language
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Based on 16 parent & educator reviews:
  • 31% say sexual content is an issue

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kid, 12 years old
 
i think i recommend this movie for ages 11 and up! but even from 5-10 iffy how mature but they have to get a parent orsomeadults
is it good like that


teen, 14 years old
 
i think i recommend this movie for ages 11 and up! but even from 5-10 iffy how mature but they have to get a parent orsomeadults
is it good like that


kid, 11 years old
 
i think i recommend this movie for ages 11 and up! but even from 5-10 iffy how mature but they have to get a parent orsomeadults
is it good like that

laralu22
teen, 15 years old
 
talk beforehand
Im 13 and saw this movie last summer at age 12. Honestly, everyone knows everything in that movie by age 12 and but some parents would be uncomfortable, and my mom even covered my eyes at some parts, and ive always been very mature for my age.

 
Definite NO for any one under the age of 18 and I am not inclined at 42 2C
I am really appauled at what people will take their children to see in this day and age how ever there are some issues that are variable due to the parents agenda "what are they trying to convey?" Some lessons can be learn with controversial situations in movies however this should only be allowed in the presence of a RESPONSIBLE ADULT!!!!! That I feel cannot be expressed enough. I feel that parental guidance is the worse crime commited in our country tday its not necessarily the content although that should be a great consideration but also that we are NOT GUIDING our children. And we cant point fingers we must simply bear the burden of guilt and do it. Guide that is. I know some parents are trying and some struggle with this but that is all the more reason to make guidance a point in oour parenting. For those who are really doing it. KUDOS to you!!!!! do not give up the struggle.

Scream
kid, 12 years old
 
It could've gotten NC-17 if it was a little more explicit. Real dumb.
Very brief full male nuity+ top frontal femaly nudity (also very brief) and graphic sex throughout. Strong language. (mostly sex-related) However, I've seen worse. (example:"Not Another Teen Movie")

Quartz
kid, 12 years old
 
Iffy...
Adults don't think that kids don't know what sex is! XD

Moviesgurls
kid, 13 years old
 
I saw it with my mom. It sucked.

richadc
parent of 3 and 6 year old
 
Too Raunchy sex scenes blanket the movie
There was just no need to have such explicit sex scenes in this movie. The bland and generic values that the movie is trying to convey is completely lost in the incredibly graphic and tasteless sex scenes. I am shocked and sad that any parent would think it would be appropriate for their children to watch this!

Pit bull loverr
kid, 12 years old
 
Not the greatest for kids....
Ok... i love it but there were some parts that were not good for me....but it is a very funny....but over all watch it with a parent.....(i saw it with my mom and it blew our laugh boxes) lol!

LuvMilCyrus
teen, 14 years old
 
HORRIBLE
if you're under 18 do NOT watch it

cutiebear142
kid, 11 years old
 
amazing
i loved this movie but... it had bad language, nude scenes and more. but it has a great message.

 
NOT appropriate for any teens
Teens should not see a movie like this...this is for adults ONLY. I would never allow my 16 year old to see a movie like this.

 
Laughed till I cried!
Parts of this movie are absolutely hilarious! I think that many of the scenes are very endearing and show wonderful examples of the best parts of women friendships- the support and encouragement. However, the title does not lie. The sex scenes are graphic and the language is at times "colorful." I had a great time seeing this with girlfriends. I would absolutely not let my daughters see it- very inappropriate for children. And husbands :)

cooooooooco
parent of 15 year old
 
ok

Marinewife1024
parent of 8 and 10 year old
 
Why do you think the word "sex" is in the name?
Yeah, they drink alittle! Yeah the talk is grown up but it's the many sex scenes that kids under 17 shouldn't be watching. If you plan on taking your child or teen to see it, this can make for some awkward moments in the theater.

antoineisthebest
teen, 15 years old
 
NOT FOR KIDS
I had to go see this movie with my mom I wasn't aload to stay home,so this movie talk about sex and even frontal nudity,I was like 10 or 11 at the time,this movie could be a very light PORNO,There's sex none stop in THIS MOVIE or sex talk and the tory is ok

Candykid32
teen, 16 years old
 
I personally liked this movie and I'm only 14. Nothing bad was really in...but i watched the TV version...

CaoimheMorana
parent of 10 and 13 year old
 
16 (or mature 14/15) and up
I love this movie, the second one and the TV series, but i would never allow any child under 16 (or a mature 14/15) to watch it. It's a great adult/older teen comedy.


kid, 12 years old
 
SHOULD BE 15-18 (not 16-18)

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