Stand by Me

  • Review Date: August 15, 2005
  • R
  • Genre: Drama
  • 1986
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Common Sense Media says

Edgy coming-of-age story not for young kids.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that despite its preteen stars, this should by no means be considered a children's movie. Aside from the abundance of profanity, implied and displayed violence, and sexually suggestive material, the predominance of adult-oriented themes dealing with the disillusionment of adolescence requires a mature, adult-outlook. There is plenty of sexual innuendo and alcohol and cigarette consumption by kids. A dead body is shown. Acts of violence are both alluded to and shown on film. Stories about parental physical and emotional abuse are not shown but are mentioned frequently and are integral to the story.

  • The messages are pretty bleak; it shows growing up to be an often painful process.
  • Although they are not perfect and engage in dangerous pursuits, at heart the boys are good kids and loyal friends.
  • A dead body is shown.
  • Sexual innuendo. The boys are curious about the opposite sex, and discuss girls in a crude but age-appropriate way.

What's the story?

STAND BY ME (based on Stephen King's novella) revolves around four small-town 12-year-old boys who set out on a trek to find a dead body. The team overcomes oncoming trains, a disgusting bout with leeches, and the rival advances of a competing "gang" to collect the prize of seeing a dead body.


Is it any good?

 

The movie accurately depicts the painful process of maturation that has plagued both teens and preteens for ages. In many ways, the conclusion of the quest signifies the end of innocence (or at least childhood) for the principles, as the four boys are never quite the same after making their gruesome discovery.

The film's brilliance ultimately lies in its all-embracing adherence to the immutable rules of reality. Stand by Me goes to considerable lengths to identify the issues and accurately portray the pressures that lead to the disenchantment of teens everywhere. The boys' unyielding sense of camaraderie and irrepressible spirit of youth sees them through towering adversity that is ultimately admired, and at the same time abhorred.


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What families can talk about

  • Families can talk about the motives that compel the characters (adolescent children) to seek refuge in reckless behavior.

  • Discuss death -- whether it be a sibling or a stranger, and its effect on family members.


This review was written by Jelani Harper
Kid, 13 years old
February 7, 2011
 
It is a great movie but has alot of bad words.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
My favorite film of all time, period
I have seen over 500 films in my lifetime, and this has been my favorite for 3 years (yes I saw it when I was nine, get over it!) I instantly fell in love with this film, and you will too!!!!! I really can't waste anymore time writing this review, I'm getting ready to watch for the 14th time. So, see this inspirational film about friendship (if you're over 12 of course, the language is pretty harsh.)

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Kid, 13 years old
August 8, 2010
 
Heartwarming.
This movie was amazing! Me and my best friend watched it together yesterday and it was hillarious! It was also very touching, and has the message of supporting your friends. In terms of language, there was f words, s words, a words, and pretty much every word you can think of, but (agreeing with an entry below) if your kid's going to be shocked by that, the'd be better off not going outside for the rest of their childhood, because that's exactly what the're going to hear. overall, it was a wonderful movie of growing up, and getting through the tough times in their life together. ps. saw it with our 7 and 8 year old siblings, not to mature for them.

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Kid, 13 years old
November 26, 2010
 
It was a good movie my sister saw it even though she was not supposed to the sexual induendo will fly over little kids heads.You just have to watch out for the very strong language . Great movie all and all though

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Teen, 16 years old
May 22, 2010
 
OH . MY . GOD . Pardon my French
There are many things I look forward to as a parent-but don't think I don't cherish my childhood, bc I do!. Like...okay, not many things. But one especially: After tending to and putting up with the young ones for a whole day, and they finally go to bed. I'll turn all the lights off...except that one, dim lamp by my bed. Turn it on, and read, or watch TV,or...I don't know. Just try to imagine how good the peace and quiet will be after the chaos of the previous 17 hours. I mean that just sounds heavenly! But one thing I never thought I'd be happy about was that one stage where your kids can't wait till they grow up and make their own rules. Stay up late, eat ice cream before 8:00 p.m., and watch whatever movies they want to. Ha, ha, ha...the innocence of youth. But when they DO hit that stage, depending on how mature they are and how old they are, I will LOVE to pop this DVD in and watch this all-time classic with them. Stand By Me is based on the short story "The Body" by Stephen King. "The Master of Horror." It has morals of cherishing your childhood, the value of friendship, and the adventures of growing up. But, unfortunately, it is also filled with a certain four letter word(f*ck) and a bunch more. It also shows a mutilated dead body and a gun is fired by youths(nobody is harmed). Other minor negative choices are shown to be negative or go without consequences. But all-in-all it is an amazingly deep(as I say "Morgan Freeman Deep") story about four troubled youths going on an adventure to do one last thing together...as friends...As a team. I HIGHLY recommend it.

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Teen, 14 years old
February 13, 2011
 
Rated R, but okay for teens.
This was an amazing movie. Lots of drama with a touch of comedy mixed in.

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Parent of 12 year old
August 7, 2010
 
edgy is good.
edgy is good. the world is edgy. I'd rather my daughter watch this than the disney princess crap. If your children are going to be shocked by the f-word maybe you should keep them sheltered for as long as you can. talk to your kids. ~k

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Teen, 15 years old
August 18, 2010
 
A VERY GOOD MOVIE BUT NOT FOR YOUNGER KIDS
EVERYBODY SHOULD SEE THIS MOVIE!

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Teen, 15 years old
July 18, 2010
 
Good Messages, Bad Language
Yes, this movie is R-rated. However, the messages are very good, and it teaches the meaning of friendship, trust, and appreciation of your family. The language is strong and constant, I will say that, but if you don't like the language, watch it on TV, where they will most likely edit the strongest of words (I first saw it on TV, cause at the time, I wasn't old enough to see the uncut version). There are some very brief sexual references, and it's not something you need to worry about, unless you're really uncomfortable with it. As for violence, the only bad thing is that you see a dead body ONCE for only a few seconds (it's not horribly graphic, it may disturb some viewers, though). The main characters (the kids) smoke cigarettes a lot, but it's definitely not something you should worry about (unless you don't like that sort of stuff). Again, the messages of trust & friendship are obviously there, and it's actually rather uplifting towards the end.

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Teen, 14 years old
November 25, 2010
 
great movie but definetely not for young kids
Stand by me is my new favorite movie because it has a great cast, it teaches you lessons of life and it has great depictions of friendship. But unfortunately your kids under 13 and 14 will have to wait because there is loads of language but mild for an r rated movie, there's a gruesome shot of the dead kid ray brower and the smoking drinking of young kids. There is also mature themes like child abuse which might upset your young ones so just wait for your kids to turn 13 or 14 for this movie

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This review was written by Jelani Harper
Studio:Sony Pictures
Director:Rob Reiner
Cast:Jerry O'Connell, River Phoenix, Wil Wheaton
Genre:Drama
Run time:88 minutes
Theatrical release date:January 1, 1986
DVD release date:March 22, 2005
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:language

This review was written by Jelani Harper
 

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