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The Time Traveler's Wife

(2009, Rated PG-13, Drama, Starring Eric Bana, Rachel McAdams, Ron Livingston)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 15; suggested age 15.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Uneven book-based tearjerker is romantic but gloomy.

Themes in this movie include:   dating/crushes, family relationships, loss

Why We Rated This on for Ages 15 and Up

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Though parts of the film are quite gloomy, there’s an overall sense that life is full of meaning and love. Clare adores Henry as he is and not as she imagines him to be, which is admirable.
  • Role models:

    Clare and Henry are devoted to each other, despite the huge challenges they face. They do quarrel and pull away from each other at times, but inevitably, love wins out. Henry commits some petty crimes (stealing, breaking and entering, cheating) out of necessity due to his condition -- he doesn't shy away from doing these things, but it's clear that he wishes he didn't have to. You could argue that Henry manipulates Clare's life unfairly, but for the most part she doesn't seem to mind.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Early in the movie, there are some perilous/fiery scenes of an intense car accident. There's also some fistfighting (with some injuries), and a man is shot and is shown bleeding. Characters hunt with rifles. A woman bleeds heavily during a miscarriage. A man gets slapped after speaking harshly to a woman.
  • Sex:

    A couple gets in bed a few times and is shown passionately kissing and caressing each other; they later appear below the sheets with their shoulders bared -- when she gets out of bed, you see her naked from the rear (including buttocks). Several shots of Henry naked from behind/sideways, but the only sensitive body part shown is his buttocks. One scene shows Clare in the bath, but only her stomach and extremities are visible.
  • Language:

    Language includes "s--t" (several times, often as a reaction to seeing Henry disappear for the first time...), "a--hole," "damn," "hell," "goddamn," "son of a bitch," and  "oh my God."
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Two characters are chided for drinking too much, though both seem to recover/give it up. Some social drinking (wine, beer, etc.) by adults.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The Time Traveler's Wife

Parents need to know that this tearjerker, though romantic, may prove too gloomy for tweens and younger teens. The central couple shares a powerful love, but their relationship is constantly tested, sometimes to the breaking point, and there are few moments of levity. Expect some nudity (though primarily in a non-sexual context), swearing ("s--t" is the strongest word used), and a few bloody, though not gory, scenes. There’s also discussion of heavy topics like free will, miscarriage, death, and losing a parent.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about what keeps Clare and Henry connected despite all of their difficulties. Is their life together believable? Would Clare really stay with Henry when he's so unpredictable? How does their relationship compare to other movie pairings you've seen?
  • Does the film handle the topic of time travel believably (as much as is possible, that is)? Does it seem like a benefit or a curse?
  • If you've read the book, how do you think the movie compares? What are some of your favorite books-turned-movies?

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  1. Parent Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 4.0

    Good novel adaptation- toned down drinking & sex

    As an adult, this is one of my favorite books. I wasn't really considering taking my kids to see it, knowing how often sex, drinking & tough situations come up in the story. But the movie is a good adaptation-- the sex & violence aren't nearly as graphic as they are in the book. The miscarriages are emotionally brutal though, as is (spoiler alert) Henry's death.

  2. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Ohio
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Loved It

    I loved this movie!!! it was sad at the end though...

  3. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    perfect for most age groups that can tell that it's just a movie and not to do anything in it.

    I think it is a great movie and a great book My daughter has read the book adn then i took her to see the movie but the movie in comparson to the book is nothing the book say f--k all the time has descriptive sex and refers to it as f--king so the movie is great for kids over 11 or so unless you want to keep your child hidden from the world whitch isn't a good idea on your part.

  4. I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    A bit confusing, but definitely a must see for anyone 13+

    It was kind of confusing at the beginning, but you get into it eventually. VERY sad, I bought kleenex at walmart first, and it's a good thing I did! My friend and I went to see it, and loved it. Definitely for romantics. You do see the back of a naked man, and two people are implied having sex (lying in a bed, but covered by sheets). A pregnant woman is in the bathtub, but you just see from the neck up, and her belly above the water. A man has a vasectomy. Really, not too bad. I mean, there has been worse. Henry and Clare are great role models, it definitely shows how love can work if people make it. The two would definitely do anything for each other. There is blood, as she miscarries, but there's eventually a beautiful little baby, and it's all good. Oh, until Henry gets shot in the side and you see his bleeding body a couple of times. Frostbitten black foot. Some scenes might be a bit scary for younger kids (like my little sister would think it was gross when he gets shot and everything). Definitely for anyone 13+. Part of the issue: I'm not sure anyone under 13 could follow the plot well enough. I had a little trouble, even. And I'm usually good about that type of thing.

  5. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Colorado
    I rate this title iffy for age 10 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    good

    i loved this movie! Very good, some nudity when he travels and some blood. BUT VERY GOOD!

  6. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0

    AWESOME !

    I think this is the best movie I have seen in a long time. It realistically deals with the problems a couple with this affliction might actually encounter. Its ending is unpredictable, the story line flows, and it never gets 'bizarre' by being too unbelievable. I came away with the feeling that somewhere out in the world, this could really exist, be possible. Very enjoyable movie. My hat off to Brad Pitt, who produced this movie.

  7. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Connecticut
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    AMAZING!!!

    I absolutely loved this movie. i saw it last nite and thought it was just fantastic. there is some language, but not much. some nudity, but mainly its jsut when Henry is time traveling. Not good for younger teens, but a must see for older teens and adults. just AMAZING!!!

  8. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title iffy for age 15 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models

    love it \j ;) :) =) ") :) ;0--_0_--gtjf87554596622122036652245541444.???///

  9. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0

    Loved it!

    I loved this movie it was SO great! I saw it with my best friend, it was a little sad but over all a really good movie! A few scenes that are sexual but they don't go into detail. A definite must see!!

  10. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Great movie.

    GREAT MOVIE! Tear jerking but good. Some partial nudity, but nothing to worry about. The time traveler and his wife share a few passionate kissing scenes involving them laying on a bed but not much more than that. A movie you must see!

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