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Tyler Perry's I Can Do Bad All by Myself

(2009, Rated PG-13, Drama, Starring Taraji P. Henson, Tyler Perry, Adam Rodriguez)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 14; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Sometimes-gritty dramedy has some moving moments.

Themes in this movie include:   emotional abuse, family relationships, growing up, loss, physical abuse

Why We Rated This on for Ages 14 and Up

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Perry’s messages of faith and hope shine through, which many viewers may find inspiring. But his chauvinism does, too: Main character April can’t seem to be saved without a man, and though she’s a strong character, a not-so-subtle undercurrent leaves the impression that a woman needs a “good man” to make her way through this world intact.
  • Role models:

    The main character spends much of the movie being cold and selfish, even heartless (and her boyfriend is even nastier) -- but she ultimately experiences a huge sea change/epiphany. The supporting characters are actually far more appealing, with big hearts and obvious (to the point of being nearly one-dimensional) goodness.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    A married man makes inappropriate, aggressive advances toward a teenager -- to the point of almost raping her. Two men end up in a bloody fight. A woman nearly kills a man by electrocuting him. Two comic characters jokingly threaten to dispense corporal punishment to set kids straight.
  • Sex:

    A woman messes around with a married man, but the audience doesn’t really see anything except them in bed under the covers. In another scene, a man and a woman share a gentle kiss.
  • Language:

    Mild swearing, including one use of "s--t" and several instances of words like "ass," “hell,” "damn," and “shut up.” Also "oh my God."
  • Consumerism:

    While characters are seen dressed to the nines, there’s little mention of brands -- though the Heineken label gets screen time.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    A woman practically chain smokes her way through the movie; she also drinks so much that her friend calls her on it. A joint is mentioned but never seen on screen.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Tyler Perry's I Can Do Bad All by Myself

Parent need to know that this dramedy based on a play by Tyler Perry is both gritty and righteous. Although, like Perry's other films, it ends on a decidedly optimistic (if unsurprising) note, the main character is an iffy role model throughout much of the movie -- she smokes, drinks, and shows no compassion toward her sister’s young children, who all need her help. The movie also examines the tragic toll of child abuse and includes a scene of near-sexual assault on a teenage girl.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about April. Is she meant to be considered a role model? What prevents her from embracing those who need her and/or care for her? Why does she have so many vices?
  • What message do you think the movie is ultimately sending? Is Perry saying that you need to have a partner by your side to take on life’s challenges? Is that par for the course for more mainstream Hollywood movies?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    perfect all teens and pre-teens.....

    i love this movie cause it describes everyday life....and i love taraji...

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    perfect all teens and pre-teens.....

    i love this movie cause it describes everyday life....and i love taraji...

  3. I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative role models

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Loosing grip with today's issues.

    Sends a terrible message to others that a woman has to have a good man, drugs, drinking, and attitude of Madea just makes this very questionable from other works he has done in the past.

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Alabama
    I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    I personally like it. But it was a lot more intense then the other Madea movies. I would of given it five stars but not enough Madea in the movie so it wasn't as funny as others.

  5. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    omg

    i love this movie

  6. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Nice Movie. ;)

    I saw this when it first came out. It has a very good message because it brings you into the church. It shows that God can help.

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