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The Wrestler

(2008, Rated R, Drama, Starring Mickey Rourke, Marisa Tomei, Evan Rachel Wood)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 17, age appropriate for kids over 18; suggested age 17.
  • Is it any good?

    5.0
  • Common Sense says

    Brilliant drama about rough redemption is for adults only.

Themes in this movie include:   loss
updated 10.02.09

Why We Rated This not for kids

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    The movie thematically looks at the appeal of wrestling and violent entertainment, as well as adult "entertainment" like stripping.
  • Role models :

    Most parents would not want their kids to be like anyone in the movie.  A wrestling character, "The Ayatollah," is a racist caricature. A nude female dancer is mocked due to her age. The main character cluelessly theorizes that his daughter is a lesbian. On the plus side, the lead character makes an effort to reach out to his estranged daughter.
  • Violence:

    Repeated, extensive and graphic "fake" wrestling action violence, which nonetheless involves real pain and blood. Characters use concealed razors to create bloody wounds for show in the ring; a lead character is battered, pummelled, slapped, struck with furniture, beaten with a window, and even assaulted with a staple gun (with staples punched into his flesh) in the ring. The lead character also inflicts abuse on others in the ring, striking an opponent with a table, a crutch wrapped with barbed wire, and more. The consequences of this violence are depicted in extensive detail, in terms of both long-term physical trauma and immediate suffering. Some fighting and scuffling outside of the ring. A character suffers a heart attack and must have a bypass; surgical scars are seen. A character rams his thumb into a meat slicer.
  • Sex:

    Extensive female full-frontal nudity, with many scenes set at a strip club; the club is presented in a fiercely realistic way, without much glamor or gloss. There's a sex scene between two consenting adults who are under the influence of drugs. Male buttocks are seen as a character injects steroids.
  • Language:

    Extensive strong language, including "godammit," "f--k," "s--t," "p---y," "ass," "t--s," and much more.
  • Consumerism:

    Some brands are visible or mentioned on screen, including Nintendo, Call of Duty 4, Polaroid, bands like RATT and Poison, and more. Some real-world brands are briefly glimpsed in a grocery store.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Characters smoke, drink beer and hard liquor, and abuse drugs like cocaine and steroids, as well as painkillers. References to marijuana and amphetamines; prescription drug abuse. There are clear negative health effects from the main character's misuse of alcohol, steroids, and other drugs.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The Wrestler

Parents need to know that this critically acclaimed indie drama is a strong, brilliant, fierce film -- for adults only. The acting, direction, and writing are of Oscar caliber, but there's extensive nudity, unflinching violence, drinking, drug use/abuse, and swearing. The film is also moody and complex, depicting the physical and moral consequences of the characters' work as "professionals" in the economy of entertainment.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk aboutthe nature of the "fake" violence depicted in the wrestling matches -- is it really "fake" if people are bleeding?
  • What's the appeal of professional wrestling to begin with? What makes it compelling entertainment?
  • Is it as popular now as it was in the '80s? Why or why not?
  • Discuss the similarities between Randy and Cassidy, who both make low pay selling their bodies (he wrestles, she strips). What effect does that have on their self-esteem? Their relationships with others?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Iowa
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence

    e.g. Perfect for older kids, but not for tweens

    i too violet secnce with a staple gun other than that fine for 13+

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Utah
    I rate this title off for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence

    The Wrestler is one of the best of '08

    The Wrestler is faded actor Mickey Rourke's comeback role as Randy the ram robinson and it is his best work the movie is very gritty explaining what he has gone through and what he is going through presently. Marisa Tomei also stars as a stripper named Cassidy who has some feeling for Randy but also feels bad for him. The movie is an example of two performers who perform for money or the people who actually care and need. The Wrestler deals with weighty issues and should be seen by a mature audience.

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

    Outstanding and depressing

    Outstanding perfomances by Rourke and Tomei. Very nasty at times but also realistic. Let my 15 year old watch and 20 minutes in the movie he got up and said booring.It was well done but DEFINATLY not for kids.

  4. Parent Reviewer
    Lives in Pennsylvania
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 4.0

    The Wrestler

    One thing Common Sense Media failed to mention in their review under the "sex" category is that there is also a scene where The Ram walks into his bosses office without warning and catches him watching a pornographic movie. This is a very well-made movie - gripping, realistic and perfectly acted-out (especially by Rourke). However, while I can appreciate how masterfully this film was crafted, I can also say I wouldn't watch it again. It is extremely depressing.

  5. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Kentucky
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 2.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

    Waste of time. Its really bloody and disgusting. And sexual content is way too much for any teen. And drugs are apart of this movie.

  6. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

    Don't go to this.

    This is boring. Extremely disturbing.

  7. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title iffy for age 15 and give it 5.0

    I LOVED IT SO MUCH I WILL SEE IT SO MANY TIMES

    this movie is so great. it dose have nudity and sex that are graphic and many sence at a strip club witch you might not want your kids to see. there also is blood blood and more blood. they use staple guns in a wrestlering match witch i thought was creepy. Also there is some bad words and randy the ram uses drugs. SEE THIS MOVIE IF YOU ARE 15 AND UP. I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0

    "The Wrestler" Crackles With Realism And Emotional Poewer

    A powerful film that grabs you with its poetry and intensity, especially with its graphic violence, Darren Aronofsky achieves his zenith with "The Wrestler". A beaten-down '80's professional wrestler seeks former glory in the new century amidst familial turmoil. One of the best films of 2008, "The Wrestler" features the excellent performance of Mickey Rourke as wrestler Randy "The Ram" and the courage and strength of Marisa Tomei's acting as Cassidy, a nightclub stripper and single mother. Evan Rachel Wood is bracing in a small role as Randy's daughter. The film's authenticity is its best asset. The film isn't for young teens, with its occasionally graphic violence and sexual content (topless women and highly suggestive dancing) with 17 as the cut-off point, "The Wrestler", an emotionally compelling film, is for adults, even as the film's title may lure those much younger than 17. The film isn't about wrestlers at all; only about adults who wrestle themselves in the sport called life. http://www.popcornreel.com/htm/wrestlerrev.htm

  9. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Pennsylvania
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 5.0

    Outstanding

    This film was amazing. I know that common sense said NO Kids for this movie but if you can handle breif nudity and cursing it is not that bad I recomend it to everyone ages 14 and up

  10. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0

    dont ever let kids under 17 see it

    my dad saw it he said it had strong sexuality laguange such as f*** and S*** and it is very violent

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