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"3" (CD single) (by Britney Spears, Pop)

common sense media says

Lyrics' double meaning expresses yearning for threesome.


parents & educators say
  • 64% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that they should listen closely to these lyrics: the words themselves are harmless enough, but strung together, they tell a story about having sex with multiple partners at once.

Positive messages: Takes a casual stance on what could be risky sexual behavior.
Positive role models: Though she's recently managed to get her life somewhat back on track, Spears' long-term turmoil and not-so-innocent songs don't make her a great role model.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: The entire song is about three people having sex together.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.

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What to talk about

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  • What are the potential pitfalls associated with having multiple sexual partners?

  • What are the advantages of being in a monogamous relationship?

What's the story?

What's the story?

After a successful comeback concert tour, bubblegum-pop princess Britney Spears is looking to keep up the momentum with "3," a new single from her second greatest hits album. Though the song's title seems innocent enough, the track's premise is anything but: the entire tune is about having a threesome (three people engaging in sex together at once). There's no foul language or graphic descriptions of this, but the message is pervasive and unmistakable; for example, "Three is a charm, two is not the same / I don't see the harm, so are you game? / Lets' make a team, make 'em say my name / Lovin' the extreme, now are you game? / Are you in, livin' in sin is the new thing."

 

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Britney Spears has never been known for having exceptionally strong vocals, and "3" is no exception. To help mask her lack of chops, the song employs just about every production trick in the book, courtesy of producer Max Martin -- the same guy who produced Katy Perry's "I Kissed a Girl." Though the end result sounds way over-produced, it also carries a slick beat that will undoubtedly make the song a club favorite.

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Released on: October 6, 2009
Label: Jive Records
Genre: Pop

This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 11 parent & educator reviews:
  • 64% say sexual content is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

dede12345
kid, 11 years old
 
hate it!

greenactress
teen, 15 years old
 
Oh come on ppl!
What eve people- look this is a great up beat song. We warm up and dance to it in dance class ALL THE TIME- because it's a great song. Yes if you actually listen to the lyrics closely the double meaning isn't exactly appropriate, but really ppl, do you think that if your child listens to this song they are gonna go off and do what the song is sayin? Uh, no. Cuz kids rnt stupid, its a catchy song, and kids, tweens, teens, who ever like to listen to fast beat songs, so get over it, and why don't you over protective parents listen to it for a sec, it's just a fun dance song, you might find yourself tappin your toe.

kobukgirl96
teen, 16 years old
 
so I say that it is inapproprate for anyone under 15 because it is about a three some and that is not okay for a 11 year old to listen to

MarilynMansonFan
teen, 17 years old
 
I couldn't care less about the promiscuity: It's just plain bad
Now, in the grand scheme of things, I don't really care about the lyrical content as long as its creative and has meaning. It almost goes wihout saying that Britney (or her producer/manager) never had, does not have, or never will have, a single shred of creativity. This song is a testament to that claim: A third-grade vocabulary; whiny, annoying vocals; and painfully overdone themes that lack any coherent message or even entertainment for that matter. Sometimes it is fun to sit back and listen to an extravagantly silly song (Psychostick, for example) but it even fails to do that simply be taking itself seriously. How can anyone honestly take this seriously? It just goes to show that the public doesn't care about music anymore, not that it ever has within the past 30 or so years. Music has become a side-activity, something to listen to in the car on the way to school or work, or a backing beat to dance to. All in all, it's sickening to think that this banal, trite song overshadows real artistry. Skip out on this one.

Weather900
kid, 9 years old
 
OK FOR TEENS
If you are Little You wont Understand. If you are 6 Or up that is a different Story.

super movie ...
teen, 15 years old
 
song is ok but the music video....
i like this song although at first i didnt know whast it was about and the song didn't really very clearly what it is about (which is good of course) which makes THE SONG ok for younger kids but the music video.... That's another story. The music video has britney and a bunch of other girls dressed very sexy and inapropreatly pretending to have sex in a graphic way.

Christian gurl
teen, 15 years old
 
NO
just say no. a big waste of time

 
Grow Up!
Like your kids are even gonna realize what this song is about! I didn't realize until after the first time I heard it and I am a grown adult. It is redeculious that you would not let your children listen to this catchy song because of what it's actuially saying.

lexalolu
teen, 14 years old
 
Catchy and fun
I really, really, like this song. Britney's back, and with good music!!!! It's a fun, super-catchy dance song that will leave you bobbing your head and scrambling to download it on iTunes. However, thhe lyrics are muddled and hard to understand, and when you do discover them, they're rather stupid and innapropriate. But all in all, this is a fun pop song that is sure to become a hit, so I might as well go with it and stop being a lyric snob :)

MOVIE13
teen, 14 years old
 
i love the song

shop till i drop
teen, 14 years old
 
good song that younger kids wont understand.
OK i have to admit i love this song but im not a fan of what its about. I mean what person writes a song just about threee people haveing sex together it's GROSS....... but yet the song doesent scream that is what it is about. Its very vauge useing lines like "Getting down and repeate." "What we do is inesent. Just for fun and nothing ment." even thoughyounger kids wont fully understand what its talking about its best to save this song until they get a little older.

lilly117
teen, 16 years old
 
Racy, Nasty, Not Worth Your Time
You may have enjoyed going through the years with Britney, but this "hit," is one to cover tween ears for. 3 is explicit, and displays the bad message of cheating while shining the spotlight on sex. Discription is not detailed, but is also not hinted. Keep your distances.

just_keepin_it ...
teen, 14 years old
 
BAD FOR TEENS AND CHILDREN
i can't believe i downloaded this :( now sense i know what its about, EWWWWWWWWW IT GIVES TEENS A BAD IDEA NO WAY!

sweet4ng3L
teen, 15 years old
 
ONE TWO THREE, NOT ONLY YOU N ME, GOT ONE-EIGHTY DEGREES AND I'M CAUGHT IN BETWEEN. dammitt i am seriously caught in a tangle myself.

ParamoreFan09
teen, 15 years old
 
Ugh oh I just bought this...
oh god I just bought this song I didn't know it was about that! I hear it every day in P.E. and I go to a Catholic school where we have chapel twice a week! Also, check out my review on Tik Tok by Ke$ha. Today my friend's mom was singing to this in the car with us! I highly prefer Paramore.

timmycuddlebea ...
kid, 12 years old
 
the hole song is about having sex together

Evan182
teen, 17 years old
 
3
Most kids and preteens won't understand the references. But it's still too sexual for anyone under 13.

jannn421
teen, 14 years old
 
Eh, when I was like IDK 10 I didn't even know what this song meant! But it's catchy.

canadiangurl72
teen, 14 years old
 
There is absolutely nothing graphic. There's just some constant innuendo that younger kids won't get, and if they do get it, then they're old enough to know what a threesome is, so who cares?!

DivaGal450
parent of 15 year old
 
18 and older !
HOW CAN THIS SONG STILL BE FOR KIDS BUT ANY OTHER "RAP" SONG ISN'T FOR KIDS WHATSOEVER ? THE SONG IS OPENLY TALKING ABOUT THREESOMES AND I RATHER HAVE MY CHILD RAPPING TO JAY-Z OR DRAKE THEN SINGING " 1 2 3 PETER PAUL AND MARY GETTING DOWN WITH THREE PEEPS, " ...i dont understand how they rate this but i feel as though race and rap stereotypes play a huge part in this.

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