"Birthday Sex" (CD single)

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Common Sense Media says

A very frank proposal for the guest of honor's special day.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this song is ALL about sex. Jeremih sings about how he treats a woman on her birthday and it's a far cry from cake and ice cream. The sexy talk isn't misogynistic, instead focusing on catering to a female companion's every desire. Not kid-appropriate, but not insulting either.

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  • The song is sprinkled with innuendo about sexual positions and oral sex with direct references to sexual pleasure.

What's the story?

Newcomer Jeremih has one thing on his mind with his debut single, BIRTHDAY SEX. The song, supposedly inspired by a real-life experience for the singer, discusses treating a woman to a sensual (and sexual) birthday experience with lyrics like: "Birthday sex...Birthday sex/ (It feels good feels good lemme hit that g-spot g-spot, girl)."


Is it any good?

 

Birthdays generally make you think of nicely wrapped presents, cake, and getting older. But apparently Jeremih has other ideas about how to celebrate. This song's easy hooks and off-the-wall concept make it actually kind of sweet. The lyrics are dirty, to be sure, but the relationship described is loving and consensual. "You close your eyes as I improv between your legs" is about the worst of it. Jeremih looks to be on his way to cornering the sexy singer niche.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about why sex sells. Do you think this song would be as popular as it is if it was about a tamer subject? What do you think when you hear the song played on the radio? Is it the type of song you want to listen to with a group of friends? If so, does the frank sex talk make the subject matter acceptable?


This review was written by Jacqueline Rupp
Parent of 6, 13, 16, and 17 year old
March 2, 2010
 
Totaly bad message in genral

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Adult
December 10, 2009
 
love it

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Teen, 18 years old
July 22, 2009
 
Catchy But Not Great
Innaproprite, but catchy the whole song is about sex

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Teen, 15 years old
July 4, 2009
 
boring
its rubish.A really boring track

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Adult
June 28, 2009
 
All Ages!!!
lolz

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Parent of 14 year old
July 16, 2009
 

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Teen, 16 years old
July 14, 2009
 
... I woke up to the sound of this by accident and trust me SHOOPID!

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Parent of 15 year old
August 13, 2010
 
disgusting

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Teen, 15 years old
March 9, 2010
 
Nice song
its ur birthday so i noe u want 2 riiiide out, even if were only goin 2 myyyy hoouuuusee. sip mo-eezzy as we sit upon myyyy couch. feeels good, but i noe u want 2 cryyy out. <333

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Teen, 16 years old
August 24, 2009
 
BAD
This song has anything and everything sexual in it. The whole song is about sex. A VERY catchy song, but not appropriate at all.

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This review was written by Jacqueline Rupp
Artist:Jeremih
Release date:April 7, 2009
Label:Def Jam
Genre:R&B/Pop
Parental advisory:No

This review was written by Jacqueline Rupp
 

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