"Birthday Sex" (CD single) (by Jeremih, R&B/Pop)

common sense media says

A very frank proposal for the guest of honor's special day.

parents & educators say

57% say sexual content is an issue
29% say there are positive role models

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this song is ALL about sex. Jeremih sings about how he treats a woman on her birthday and it's a far cry from cake and ice cream. The sexy talk isn't misogynistic, instead focusing on catering to a female companion's every desire. Not kid-appropriate, but not insulting either.

Positive messages: Not applicable.

Violence: Not applicable.

Sex: The song is sprinkled with innuendo about sexual positions and oral sex with direct references to sexual pleasure.

Language: Although there's no profanity, the explicit sexual content is enough to make this song inappropriate for young ears.

Consumerism: Not applicable.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids

Families can talk about why sex sells. Do you think this song would be as popular as it is if it was about a tamer subject? What do you think when you hear the song played on the radio? Is it the type of song you want to listen to with a group of friends? If so, does the frank sex talk make the subject matter acceptable?

What's the story?

Newcomer Jeremih has one thing on his mind with his debut single, BIRTHDAY SEX. The song, supposedly inspired by a real-life experience for the singer, discusses treating a woman to a sensual (and sexual) birthday experience with lyrics like: "Birthday sex...Birthday sex/ (It feels good feels good lemme hit that g-spot g-spot, girl)."

Is it any good?

Birthdays generally make you think of nicely wrapped presents, cake, and getting older. But apparently Jeremih has other ideas about how to celebrate. This song's easy hooks and off-the-wall concept make it actually kind of sweet. The lyrics are dirty, to be sure, but the relationship described is loving and consensual. "You close your eyes as I improv between your legs" is about the worst of it. Jeremih looks to be on his way to cornering the sexy singer niche.

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Music Details

Released on: April 7, 2009
Label: Def Jam
Genre: R&B/Pop

This review was written by Jacqueline Rupp

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What parents & educators say

Based on 7 parent & educator reviews:

57% say sexual content is an issue
29% say there are positive role models
29% say there are positive messages

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jacquie15
parent of and 6 , 13 , 16 , 17 year old

Totaly bad message in genral

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"Birthday Sex" (CD single) (by Jeremih, R&B/Pop)

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Catchy But Not Great

boring

All Ages!!!

Nice song

BAD

bad for kids, too much sex

The best.

EEWWWW

spud

INNAPROPRIATE 100%.....4 me that is!

gross!

Inappropriate Message, Junky

I HATE THIS SONG!

SEX SEX SEX

no

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