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"Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)" (CD single)

  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 13; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Edgy title, mild lyrics make this tune all bark and no bite.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 14 and Up

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Not an issue.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Not an issue.
  • Sex:

    Not an issue.
  • Language:

    Not an issue.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    One reference to tequila shots.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About "Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)" (CD single)

Parents need to know that this is a pretty tame song, aside from the "police scene, chalk line" analogy to feeling hurt by the object of your affections -- and the reference to drinking tequila shots as a way to cushion the blow.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how drinking to try to numb painful feelings never truly succeeds. Since alcohol is ultimately a depressant, is it a good thing to try when you’re already feeling down? What are five other ways to try to make yourself feel better besides drinking?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. I rate this title iffy for age 11 and give it 3.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    Unplugged Edition is the best

    I liked it better on MTV Unplugged, but that was my opnion. "Damned if I do ya, Damned if I don't" just sounds like a bad song let alone, sexual meaning, sexual references, tequila reference, and overall bad role model and message from the song makes it catchy, but innapropriate. 11 and up is iffy, about mature 12 or 13 and definitely 14 ok, I guess....

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    Nothing really bad in this song, the use of D*mn many times. The title could also mean something sexual. The Music Video is a lot worse then the song and i think it should get a 14+ up or even 15+

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Some iffy stuff

    "Damned if I do ya" is all I gotta say to make you re-think on the sexual stuff...

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in Ohio
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

    Great song, bad message

    Wow. isn't anyone smart enough to realize this song is straight up about sex. the band even said that is an interview.

  5. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Minnesota
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    Good song, but...

    This is a very good song, except it does mention a tequila shot and judging by the title, there definitley is bad language that I think children shouldn't be exposed to because of the d word.

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