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"Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)" (CD single) (by All Time Low, Punk Rock)

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Edgy title, mild lyrics make this tune all bark and no bite.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this is a pretty tame song, aside from the "police scene, chalk line" analogy to feeling hurt by the object of your affections -- and the reference to drinking tequila shots as a way to cushion the blow.

Positive messages: Not applicable.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Not applicable.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: One reference to tequila shots.

More on "Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)" (CD single)

What to talk about

Talk to your kids

Families can talk about how drinking to try to numb painful feelings never truly succeeds. Since alcohol is ultimately a depressant, is it a good thing to try when you’re already feeling down? What are five other ways to try to make yourself feel better besides drinking?

What's the story?

What's the story?

This summer, thousands of teens around the country will hit the Vans Warped Tour, a festival-style collection of various punk-oriented bands including All Time Low -- a group of four guys whose single DAMNED IF I DO YA (DAMNED IF I DON'T) is climbing the charts. Though the song contains an eyebrow-raising title and a few lyrics about crime scenes and tequila shots, it's largely punk-lite, avoiding any seriously deranged messages in favor of a recurring young adult theme: the inability to end an unhealthy romantic relationship. Despite the touchy subject, the band steers clear of slander in describing the ups-and-downs of this theme: "How was I supposed to know / That you were oh, oh, over me? / I think that I should go / Something's telling me to leave, but I won't / 'Cause I'm damned if I do ya, damned if I don't."

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Lyrically and musically, this track is much less hardcore than traditional punk, with a pop-friendly tone that gives it a more broad-based appeal. It offers some catchy hooks, including a fun "oh-oh-oh" refrain and a combined drum-clap vein throughout, that should make for an entertaining live performance on the Vans Tour this summer. Yet as the summer dies down, so, too, should this fairly run-of-the-mill song's popularity.

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Released on: July 7, 2009
Genre: Punk Rock

This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
 
 

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Miranda Bieber
teen, 14 years old
 
Awesome song!
Seriously? Kids under 14 shouldn't listen to this song because it has one reference to tequila shots? HA. That's so stupid. I love All Time Low and this song!!

keiona moore
teen, 16 years old
 
good for 15 and up
My thingy only says im 14 but im 15 lol and i think its appropriate for my age i have a little bro whos 11 i get edgy when he listens to it so 15 and up lol

bonesxprt13
teen, 16 years old
 
Great for all kids older than eleven!
Crazy awesome! i heard this song on iTunes and loved it the first time i heard it! I still love all time low`~

Sk8rgirl
teen, 13 years old
 
Great song
Its a great song!!!!! sure, it has a couple of a references that u wouldnt want ur kids to listen to. "D**n" is repeated a lot in the song (Da**ed if i do ya, da**ed if i dont), and theres a reference to tequila (Tequila shots in the dark scene of the crime. A little bit of sexual references (Da**ed if i 'do ya'"), and thats it. There are words worse than "Da*N", but kids will wanna listen to this album cuz of All time Lows catchy tempo. Forget the bad words, let em listen 2 it

taymomsenfan
teen, 17 years old
 
FAV BAND EVER! :DD

martinrocks
teen, 15 years old
 
Awesome song
I really enjoy this song.

 
great song, catchy. Weightless and Stella are among the better tracks on the "Nothing Personal" album
wow, you gotta be a fan to know what the song is about, lol how can you rec. this to a child? they will be singing it and not even know what it means, damned if i do ya, (damned if i dont) refers to Alex wanting to have sex with a certain person but knows that he really shouldnt but is going to do it anyway and accept the consequences. dont believe me? read his interview in AP when ATL won band of the year.

cobra21adam
teen, 18 years old
 
Great song, bad message
Wow. isn't anyone smart enough to realize this song is straight up about sex. the band even said that is an interview.

atltmmpftskhcr ...
teen, 16 years old
 
Love it All Time Low is my favorite band but i dont think you should be exposing 10 year olds to their music cause the rest of it is worse than this. And the music video is iffy for 11 year old too

ink
teen, 15 years old
 
Bad.

bradley4846
teen, 17 years old
 
Nothing really bad in this song, the use of D*mn many times. The title could also mean something sexual. The Music Video is a lot worse then the song and i think it should get a 14+ up or even 15+

vampire child
teen, 16 years old
 
Not for kids
why in tha world would u put tht as a title wut if kids listen to it cuz it would make them start singin it

teamjacobgirl2.0
teen, 17 years old
 
Love All Time Low!
I just love All Time Low and their album, Nothing Personal. This is one of the best songs off the album along with Weightless. And I don't see anything for parents to fret about. Its just punk rock at its best.

ThreeDaysGrace ...
teen, 15 years old
 
... And the author decides to give THIS On for 14+. ...Wow...

Spongebob Fan
kid, 13 years old
 
Unplugged Edition is the best
I liked it better on MTV Unplugged, but that was my opnion. "Damned if I do ya, Damned if I don't" just sounds like a bad song let alone, sexual meaning, sexual references, tequila reference, and overall bad role model and message from the song makes it catchy, but innapropriate. 11 and up is iffy, about mature 12 or 13 and definitely 14 ok, I guess....

Wand3r3r
teen, 16 years old
 
Some iffy stuff
"Damned if I do ya" is all I gotta say to make you re-think on the sexual stuff...

bluekangaroo13
teen, 13 years old
 
Best Song ever by All Time Low
I think this is the best song by All Time Low and I absolutly love it!!! I listen to this song all the time and never get sick of it. All Time Low is one of the best bands ever!!!!!!

kayoh9
teen, 16 years old
 
This song is good for kids of age 12 and up.
The language in this song isn't kid friendly. I wouldn't want my kid walking around singing "Damned if i do ya, damned if i don't." Firstly they don't understand what the song means and they are just singing it, but they don't know the message that it brings. This is only good for 12 year olds and up to listen to. That's also a little bit iffy.

commonsenseteen
teen, 16 years old
 
Not for kids under 14
Not appropriate for kids under 14.

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