wow, you gotta be a fan to know what the song is about, lol how can you rec. this to a child? they will be singing it and not even know what it means, damned if i do ya, (damned if i dont) refers to Alex wanting to have sex with a certain person but knows that he really shouldnt but is going to do it anyway and accept the consequences. dont believe me? read his interview in AP when ATL won band of the year.