"Don't Trust Me" (CD single)

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Common Sense Media says

Eccentric hip-hop duo lashes out at women in R-rated tune.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this track earns its parental advisory label, with the group giving a pretty caustic account of a guy who's upset that his girl refuses his desires. The edited version of the song isn't much different, simply bleeping out f--k but retaining all the references to hos, cigarettes, and the like.


  • Refers to women as "hos."
  • Not applicable.
  • An offensive reference to Helen Keller when describing a sex act: "I said shush girl, shut your lips / Do the Helen Keller and talk with your hips."

What's the story?

The uniquely named hip-hop duo 3OH!3 (pronounced "three oh three") is unconventional in more ways than one. For example, frenetic members Sean Foreman and Nathaniel Motte frequently don theme-park-style costumes (think a giant Winnie the Pooh) and perform skits during their shows. However, the lyrics of the group's breakout single, DON'T TRUST ME, reveal the same relationship insecurities experienced by many other young adults. These lyrics lash out at the object of the jilted singer's affections, painting an unflattering portrait of a girl whom we find out has rejected the guy singing about her: "Don't trust a ho, never trust a ho / Won't trust a ho, 'cause the ho won't trust me."


Is it any good?

 

Though 3OH!3's music is often classified as hip-hop, this is not your typical hip-hop song. The guys deliver their lines in a half-rap, half-singing style over a backdrop that's closer to electronic pop than hip-hop. The end result -- which is reminiscent of the Black Eyed Peas' rap-singing combo -- is somewhat catchy, if not truly groundbreaking.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about the impact that lyrics may have in the real world. Does hearing a male artist refer to a girl in his song as a "ho" make fans of the tune feel they can do the same in their own lives? On the flip side, are artists who advocate mutual respect among people effectively encouraging similar attitudes in their fans? Learn how to decode music and lyrics.


This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
Teen, 14 years old
December 23, 2009
 
Give These Guys A Break!
Please!!! Give 3OH!3 a break!!! Once ur kids are in 5th grade (Im in 6th) they will have already heard all off this. If one of ur kids friends has an ipod or mp3 player they may hear it with out u knowing, but oh well

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Teen, 18 years old
June 20, 2010
 
It is very inappropriate, but is also purely for fun. It shouldn't influence anyone's opinions on anything.

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Kid, 12 years old
February 27, 2011
 
Don't Trust This Song For Your Kids
I have a love-hate relationship with this song. The song emphasizes how men manipulate women, but also makes an effective and clever case about not gaining trust in women like that and to take possession of a deascent relationship with deascent person.

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Kid, 12 years old
July 2, 2010
 
Good Song
A really good song. All that i found bad about it is 1 f-bomb.

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Kid, 13 years old
June 15, 2010
 
worst song in the world
30!3 is a good band but this song went 2222 far i say startruck was better

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Teen, 17 years old
January 22, 2010
 
The Helen Keller line is offensive. There's also the issue of the f-bomb at the beginning, but we hear that stuff every day at school so its not anything new. I love this band myself!

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Teen, 15 years old
January 12, 2011
 
I love 3OH!3. I met them in concert last year on Warped Tour, and it made me so happy!!!!!

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Teen, 14 years old
April 6, 2010
 

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Kid, 13 years old
December 20, 2010
 
Good song but highly inappropriate i,e "do the Helen Keller and shut your lips" and "I ain't F***ing scared of him'.Definitely 14+

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Kid, 13 years old
October 24, 2009
 
Inappropriate (But Catchy) Tune
I like it, but not only is it inappropriate, it's disrespectful. However, this song has a good beat and is VERY catchy, just keep away from younger children, unless you get the clean version which, of course, still has parts going over children's heads, but you may be a little shocked. Pre-listen, maybe, or don't let them listen at all. Then make a decision.

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This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
Artist:3OH!3
Release date:July 8, 2008
Genre:Hip-hop
Parental advisory:Yes
Edited version available:Yes

This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
 

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