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How to Save a Life (by The Fray, Indie Rock)

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Sweet, sentimental, and similar-sounding songs.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that there are no offensive lyrics here -- just a collection of sweet and ever-so-slightly monotonous love songs, with one or two very subtle references to suicide.

Positive messages: A very subtle message of taking responsibility for oneself and taking care of friends.
Violence: One or two subtle references to suicide.
Sex: Not applicable.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.

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Families can talk about what it means to have a "sound" -- is it more important to have an identifiable musical MO that's recognizable or more important to take risks and dare to be different? Can you think of any groups that do both?

What's the story?

What's the story?
HOW TO SAVE A LIFE is the full-length debut of The Fray, a Denver quartet deeply committed to medium-tempo, melodic pop songs about love, loss, and that all-important occasional glimmer of hope. Serious and emotional, the songs are well-crafted and well-played, though there really isn't a stick-in-your-head standout among them. Articulate on the subject of the complexities of love and relationships while covering no new ground, The Fray express themselves well with lyrics that are direct and honest. "Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend/Somewhere along in the bitterness/And I would have stayed up with you all night/Had I known how to save a life" ("How to Save A Life") is a good example of The Fray's songwriting. Competent and expressive, their greatest flaw is an absolute lack of humor or irony.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
Isaac Slade (vocals, piano), Joe King (guitar, vocals), Ben Wysocki (drums), and Dave Welsh (guitar) deliver fine performances all the way around, with an extra nod to Slade's piano playing and impressively emotive high notes. But some of his singing verges on whiny, and the songs (mostly credited to Slade and King) become monotonous after the first few tracks. If you love one, you'll love 'em all. If you don't, then wait awhile until the members of The Fray have had a chance to grow into their own unique sound... and their record-label press-kit hype.

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Released on: September 13, 2005
Label: Sony Music
Genre: Indie Rock

This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
 
 

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bookworm123
teen, 18 years old
 
The "Grey's Anatomy" Song
I LOVE "How to Save a Life"! IT'S CATCHY AND MAKES YOU WANT TO WATCH "Grey's Anatomy"! YOU JUST WANT IT TO COME ON THE RADIO ALL THE TIME! IT'S THAT GOOD!

catdog5555
teen, 18 years old
 
I Love this CD
i love the fray and i love their first two singles cable car/over my head and how to save a life they are both great songs and the fray is a good group not having a lot of bad stuff in their songs

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adult
 
Not that great
This is a pretty boring cd. Nothing for parents to worry about, but it just isnt that good. All of the songs sound pretty much the same, and even though the two hit singles are good the first few times you hear them, they get old pretty fast. The only good song on here that doesnt get old after a few listens is all at once. The Fray sound a lot like John Mayer, w/piano instead of acoustic guitar. Dispite what you may have heard, they are NOTHING like Coldplay. The Fray dont have half of Coldplay's creativity, and the lyrics arent nearly as insightful.

TheImmortalOne
teen, 15 years old
 
A CD with great redeeming qualities, 2 thumbs up.
I got this CD for Christmas and it's wonderful. All of the songs are generally calm and have a quality meaning. No language, sex, drugs or alcohol are mentioned in the CD, so you could say it's for all ages. Not only those things, but Isaac Slade's piano playing is breathtakingly wonderful and is a fabulous touch to the songs. Bottom line: 5 stars, 2 thumbs up. Just plain fabulous.

 
Amazing
The Fray is my favorite band. I am connected to all the guys in SO many ways. Two of them graduated from my highschool - they were all born and raised in pure suburbia where I live. They are good, cleancut boys, and their music shows it. Every song has a positive message, and their music is perfect for a mellow day. I never miss a concert of theirs and never get tired of listening to them.

HOLLISTERshortty
teen, 17 years old
 
The Fray.
The Fray has been my very favortie band ever since "Over My Head--Cable Car" came on the radio. EVERY single one of their songs is fabulous and they all have very good meanings. 2 thumbs up. 5 stars. Definetly the most talentist [[not even a word]] band ever. --oh and yes. They do sing "that song" on Grey's Anatomy. [[:

CSM Screen ...
teen, 15 years old
 
Great cd
i love the fray. their music is nice and kind of peaceful. its soft and relaxing. i love it.

geckogirl
teen, 16 years old
 
Love it!
Love it! Very good cd for ANY age!

Belac77
teen, 15 years old
 
OK Cd for 11+
Bad stuff: none Great CD!!! Fav song: Hundred

Eragonfan
teen, 17 years old
 
Great Band
If you haven't yet, listen to this band, great songs and fit for all ages.

fray_fan
teen, 16 years old
 
I loved it!
This is my favorite CD! Actually, the only time they mention suicide is in the song "Little House" and these are the exact lyrics: Narrow line, she can't decide/Everything short of suicide so really there's NOTHING bad. The Fray is my favorite band and actually they are Christian, even though they don't do that type of music.

book_lover411
teen, 15 years old
 
i like the song
i never heard the hole album but i love how to save a life

FezesAreCool
kid, 12 years old
 
I only know one song so don't judge the rest of the album on this, 12+
I really like the song How To Save A Life. Positive lyrics like "Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend, somewhere in the biterness and I would have stayed up with you all night had I known, how to save a life."

ThenewWelxhGirl09
kid, 10 years old
 
APPROPIATE FOR ALL AGES! :)
I LOVE THIS SONG! I LISTEN TO IT ON DAD'S iPOD! Good messages are....."Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend, somewhere along, in the bitterness sand". and "I stayed up with you all night...you go left..and I stay right......did I know, How to Save a Life"? It's about wanting his friend back and wanting to save him/her very bad.:)

xOAnim3Fr3akOx
teen, 14 years old
 
<3 cd
my fave band. (period) 5 stars, ppl

Poison Ivey
teen, 17 years old
 
very good!
If I feel like listening to it i'll slide in the disk and blast the radio!very good music really nothing bad that you can catch easily.

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