I Don't Want You Back

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Common Sense Media says

Bad singing, obscene lyrics, nothing redeeming.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Eamon is a woman-hater, and an inarticulate one at that. The edited version of this CD is nearly impossible to find, so don't count on your teens ever hearing it.

  • This CD advocates double-standard thinking and violence against women.
  • There are a couple of violent images in the lyrics.
  • Explicitly sexual throughout.

What's the story?

Eamon apparently wants us all to know that he is a sex-obsessed, misogynist, bullying moron, and proud of it! On I DON'T WANT YOU BACK, Eamon enthusiastically embraces an idiotic double-standard when it comes to the "Ho," a concept with which he is obsessed. He loves them, but when his girlfriend acts like one it breaks his heart. He can screw around, but she can't. And though the music is somewhat good, with classic-sounding soul arrangements, Eamon is a terrible singer. He has a thin, squeaky voice that tends to stray off-key and seems most comfortable when settled into a boring monotone. And then there are the songs themselves, musically derivative and bland at best. But all of that would be forgivable if there were anything redeeming about the lyrics. There isn't.


Is it any good?

 

Musically, the CD is actually a little bit interesting. Strong rhythm tracks are the backbone of soul arrangements that would work beautifully if the front man could sing, or had anything of value to say. Unfortunately, the songs are clumsily written, blatantly misogynistic, and lacking any redeeming cleverness or artistry. This would be a good CD to skip.


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This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
Educator and Parent of 11 year old
July 29, 2009
 

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Teen, 15 years old
April 9, 2008
 
How's the World record for the most cuss words in a song sound?
With 27 cuss words in one song (f--k it), it earned the Guiness Book Of World Records most cuss words in a song.

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Parent of 2, 11, 14, and 18 year old
January 6, 2011
 
No. Just no.
This was one crappy excuse for a rap album. This is one of the occasions where I agree with CSM. You know what... it's so bad I can't take the time to write a review, because I'll miss something. Just avoid even if your life depends on this. Because, trust me you'd rather die than listen to this.

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Adult
April 7, 2010
 
not really as bad as you think
There is no violence in the song 'I Don't want you back' lots of swears, doesn't imply that men can have sex with whoever and woman can't

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Parent of 13 and 14 year old
June 26, 2009
 
Unsuitable for all ages and a bad song anyway.
IT's a bad song and it holds the world record for most cussing in one song! Yeah, let's let all of our kids listen to it!

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Kid, 13 years old
August 14, 2011
 
wrong
YOU ALL ARE WRONG MOST CUSS WORDS IN A SONG= REAL N------GA ROLL CALL

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This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
Artist:Eamon
Release date:February 9, 2004
Label:Jive Records
Genre:Hip-hop
Parental advisory:Yes
Edited version available:Yes

This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
 

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