"If I Were a Boy" (CD Single)

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Common Sense Media says

Beyonce wears the pants in this soulful ballad.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
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may not be right for some kids.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this contemplative, somewhat cynical ballad is the first single from Beyonce's album scheduled for release in November 2008. The song references stereotypical "guy" behavior, and there are some references to cheating and infidelity (and one reference to beer), but overall the lyrics are age-appropriate for kids.

  • The song is about stepping into another person's shoes to see things from their side, but it could also promote some gender stereotypes.
  • Not applicable.
  • References to flirting and being unfaithful, but nothing explicit.

What's the story?

IF I WERE A BOY is a departure from Beyonce's typical big, sassy sound. She's in a contemplative, wistful mood as she considers all the things she'd get up to if she were a guy -- like rolling out of bed and throwing on any old thing, drinking beer with the dudes, flirting, pulling the "my cell phone wasn't working" excuse. Then she muses about the fact that she'd make a better man because she's been on the other side and knows how it feels to be hurt.


Is it any good?

 

Beyonce fans more into booty-shaking dance floor tracks might find this a little delicate; there's a hint of cynicism and bitterness here. But it's good to see the Queen Bee doing something different, even if "If I Were a Boy" seems a tad bland as a stand-alone single. It's sweet, the vocals are strong, and it might be a perfect foil for some of the other stuff on the new album.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about the issue at the heart of the song. If you could put yourself in a guy or girl's shoes for a day, do you think you'd treat members of the opposite sex differently? Do you think the song promotes gender stereotypes? Are boys that different than girls when it comes to relationships? Families can also talk about how this song is different from Beyonce's other music. Does this understated song seem like an unusual choice for an album's first single?


This review was written by Denise Duval
Teen, 15 years old
January 4, 2010
 
Perfect for tweens and teens
Beyonce has a very big voice and this song is very nice. Me and my mother likes this song! My brothers does not like the song but me and sister does.

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Kid, 13 years old
November 6, 2009
 
I love it when Beyonce sings that 75% if boys arent that great. She explains that some boys are bad and crazy. I love it. (This video will show you boys how to act).

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Kid, 11 years old
March 18, 2010
 
Beonce'

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Teen, 17 years old
March 3, 2009
 
beyonce "If i were a boy"
i think that she is a very good actress and singer and i admire her

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Kid, 12 years old
October 3, 2009
 
NICE
i love this song i sing it all the time as for beyonce i think you are awesome and keep rocking :)

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Teen, 14 years old
August 8, 2009
 
Near the ending of the video the man says It's not like I'm sleeping with a girl and Beyonce says It's not like I'm sleeping with a guy. But that was the only thing I found semi-innaproppriate. Beyonce is amazing. This song is very good.

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Kid, 13 years old
March 30, 2011
 
If I Were a Boy...
It's all about seeing things from a new perspective, and I can relate to Beyonce' here because, being a tomboy, I sometimes wonder what it's like to be part of the opposite gender. The beer part is a little innappropriate, though. I wonder if boys wonder about how it would be if they were girls?

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Teen, 16 years old
September 7, 2009
 
LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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Kid, 13 years old
October 24, 2009
 
Although Younger Kids Won't Care About Listening, Tweens And Up Fine.
Beyonce is a good role model, so I'll just start by saying that. Now, let's get to the song. Younger kids (eight and younger) won't care about hearing it, it goes way too slow. Tweens and up would think it's fine, as in would they listen to it, but when it comes to what's actually in the song, anybody could listen. The only "concern" is a small beer reference "drink beer with the guys". Other than that reference it doesn't matter. Not my favorite song, but it's fine.

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Teen, 17 years old
September 15, 2009
 
Lovely Voice
Beyonce's huge voice lightens up what would be a rather dull song.

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This review was written by Denise Duval
Artist:Beyonce Knowles
Release date:October 9, 2008
Genre:R&B/Pop
Parental advisory:No

This review was written by Denise Duval
 

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