Love Me All Summer, Hate Me All Winter

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Common Sense Media says

Melodic music but full of explicit, sexist stuff.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Dream's lyrics include four-letter words and sexual content, along with some sexist expressions of infatuation ("I Luv Your Girl" apologizes to a friend for stealing his girlfriend as though she were a piece of property with no say in the matter). The songs, sung in soulful falsetto over lush R&B tracks, sound a lot sweeter than they actually are.

  • Women are described and treated as men's property, and described as "bitch," "ho," and "shawty." Racist and sexist language is used constantly.
  • Not applicable.
  • Explicit references to certain body parts and activities ("she's on my dick" and "hard as a rock when she touched me," for example).
  • Very explicit; "s--t," "f--k," and the "N" word are used freely.
  • Product placement is obvious: car, clothing, and liquor brands make some of the lyrics sound like commercials.
  • Drinking and smoking weed are mentioned several times.

What's the story?

Veteran producer Terius Nash (think Britney Spears/Madonna collaboration and Rihanna's hit "Umbrella") steps up to the mic on his debut CD, LOVE ME ALL SUMMER, HATE ME ALL WINTER, as "The Dream."


Is it any good?

 

And dreamy it is, as you let the sounds wash over you: gorgeous harmonies, exquisite falsetto lead vocals, and lush R&B production rule the day on a dozen honey-smooth ballads about -- well -- there's the problem. Women are described as property, bitches, and worse in songs like "I Luv Your Girl," an apology of sorts to a friend whose sweetheart is "on my d--k" now. Sexual fantasies are described in gratuitously graphic detail; drinking and smoking weed are a given; and there's enough product placement (clothing, car, and liquor brands) to make some of the songs sound almost like commercials. Still, The Dream delivers some sexy, dramatic, and beautiful music. Just don't listen to the words.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about the difference between appreciating someone's attractiveness and thinking of the person you like as your personal property. The Dream delivers very explicit content in a gorgeous, smooth vocal style. Do four-letter words come across differently when they are sweetly and softly sung -- or said?


This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
Parent of 3 and 10 year old
September 2, 2011
 
no

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Kid, 12 years old
April 9, 2008
 

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Teen, 14 years old
September 26, 2010
 
Love this album. Love The Dream. Although I'm sure my parents wouldn't approve of me listening to this, I love it. Wayy sexist and sexual, lots of language...yeah.

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This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
Artist:The Dream
Release date:December 11, 2007
Label:Def Jam
Genre:R&B
Parental advisory:Yes

This review was written by Kathi Kamen Goldmark
 

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