Parents need to know that while this single describes exactly the type of romantic relationship that teens (and adults) should avoid, the CD it's on (All I Ever Wanted) actually sends a positive overall message. This tune's premise revolves around a girl who admits she and her guy are bad for each other ("I know that I've got issues / But you're pretty messed up, too"). But when he shows up on her doorstep yet again, she second-guesses herself ("Maybe I was stupid for telling you goodbye") and decides to take him back ("Being with you is so dysfunctional / I really shouldn't miss you / But I can't let you go").
I can't believe that Kelly Clarkson is telling young women that it's OK to stay in a "dysfunctional" relationship! She's telling them that their life would "suck" without a man...even one who calls you names and walks out on you. WHAT?!? Where was her brain when she made this song??
I'm 13 and I know that "suck" could be considered an adult-oriented word. But even so I don't think that it's Kelly's point of view or message in this song.
I'll admit, this song is one of my guilty pleasures. Ooops... It's fun and silly, and certainly sends a terrible message. There is no question that the relationship Clarkson sings about is unhealthy, but the song sure is fun to listen to.