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"Thinking of You" (CD single)

(2009, Pop, by Katy Perry, Label: Capitol)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 10, age appropriate for kids over 11; suggested age 12.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Heartfelt ballad from pop's naughty girl OK for tweens.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 12 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    One line, "He pulled me in, I was disgusted with myself"expresses a feeling of self-loathing in harsh terms.
  • Violence:

    Not an issue.
  • Sex:

    While it's not graphic, the lyrics do discuss a mature relationship: "What would you do if you were the one who was spending the night?"
  • Language:

    Not an issue.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Not an issue.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About "Thinking of You" (CD single)

Parents need to know that this power ballad shows off Katy Perry's formidable range, and contains none of the bad-girl themes she's become known for. The video for the song is likewise fairly clean, although it does show Perry and her lover wrestling and kissing in bed (clothed).

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the song's lyrics, which deal with the difficulty of moving on from a break-up and living with a heart-wrenching choice. Have you ever given something up (a friend, a book, a toy?) only to pine for that thing and regret your decision? How long did it take you to feel better? Do you think writing about your regrets helps you get over it? Older kids: What do you think of the image Perry has created for herself and the order in which her singles have been released -- sensationalistic songs followed by tame ones? Do you think the marketing was designed to create a buzz (however negative) about the artist, only to later "prove" she can really sing?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    awesome!

    the music video had only some sexual content. but it was a really good song. if i had kids i would totally let them listen to it. really heart-filled. i even put it on my MP3 it was so good. :D

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Beautiful and Heartfelt

    The only reason I mentioned the sexual behavior is from the video, Katy is in very, very revealing lingerie, Other than that, this song is beautiful. It's so heartfelt and sad, I literally cried the first time I heard it. The video is a great depiction of losing someone you love in a war.

  3. I rate this title iffy for age 9 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Music Video Is Graphic With Sex, Song Isn't Bad At All

    Other than the "He Pulled Me In, I was disgusted with myself" lyric, the song is totally clean with nice messages. If you have children, do not allow them to watch the video, but the song is A.O.K

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    Love this song.

  5. I rate this title iffy for age 9 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    I loved Katy song HOt 'n' cold! I loved it!!!

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