"You're a Jerk" (CD single)

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Common Sense Media says

Anthem of jerkin' dance craze is ode to playing the field.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
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may not be right for some kids.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that while the jerkin' dance style isn't particularly risque, this song itself includes some mature content, including swearing and sexual references. 

  • Sends a message that it's OK to love-and-leave someone on a whim.
  • Anyone who condones treating people disrespectfully makes for a less-than-positive role model.
  • Not applicable.
  • References casual sex: "Like the new iPod / Just touch it and turn her on / And when the bass start beatin' and the waist I'm beatin' / Done I got on my way, I'm leavin'."

What's the story?

YOU'RE A JERK is the debut track from New Boyz -- an L.A.-based rap/hip-hop duo consisting of teens Ben J and Legacy. The Boyz created the tune to correspond with "jerkin'," the street dance craze that combines a little bit of footwork with a lot of knee bends and jerky movements. The song's title is a double entendre, referring to both the dance style as well as the main character: a guy who acts like a player by repeatedly loving and leaving his girl. In the typical style of many rap and hip hop songs, the lyrics in "You're a Jerk" make it seem cool for guys to treat girls disrespectfully: "So I did it, it was good / And I quickly got dressed / She was like, 'Where you goin'?' / And I had nothing to say but sorry that it hurts."


Is it any good?

 

"You're a Jerk" is undeniably danceable: the drum machine and synth-line make for a strong hook that's great for jerkin' (or plenty of other dance styles). Ben J and Legacy give good performances, delivering their rhymes with a smooth lilt that fits with the track's "I'm a player" message. The downside to this song is the "you're a jerk" refrain that repeats throughout in a high, fast-forward tone that becomes seriously annoying after a few listens. 


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What families can talk about

  • Must music that is especially good for dancing also include risque lyrics in order to appeal to young people? Is a catchy beat enough to draw dancers in, or do tunes also need to offer mature lyrics that describe sex, substances, and other mature content?

  • For advice on how to manage your kids' music choices, read our tips on Music and Your Kids.


This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
Kid, 12 years old
January 7, 2010
 
good for eenage girls and boys ...
I love this song.It has a good dance and i love it.I do it all the time...

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Teen, 14 years old
January 7, 2010
 
good for eenage girls and boys ...
I love this song.It has a good dance and i love it.I do it all the time...

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Kid, 11 years old
January 7, 2010
 
good for eenage girls and boys ...
I love this song.It has a good dance and i love it.I do it all the time...

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Kid, 13 years old
October 24, 2009
 

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Kid, 12 years old
November 12, 2011
 
you're a jerk if you don't like this song
A good preteen song although there is some sexual referencing in the music if you listen close enough, along with one salty use of language. A great anthem to the old-schooled L.A. dance, and a great song to listen to.

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Teen, 15 years old
June 3, 2010
 
Da Bezt!
THe whole idea, ya i get it is havin a grood time, and lovin on a girl, and leavin, bad message. But the song iz amazin, new boyz rox, and all ya haterz out there, back off just kuz dey wear da skiinney jeanz, and sing. ALlwayz and foreva, New Boyz!!! Will tear it up. YO and jasonhaddad10, bak off. Juzt cuz you think it's to ALDUTISHE, dat your oppinion, if yo neva hear sexual stuff, yo life gon be mizerable.

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Adult
October 22, 2009
 

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Teen, 14 years old
October 1, 2009
 
Some sexual references. I heard one use of retard. But the positives are it's a good song and has a cool beat

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Teen, 14 years old
November 20, 2010
 
what jazz-j think'ss
i love it cuz you can meet people for all around the world nd they can teach you no think'ss but i really dont got nun to say but about it

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Teen, 17 years old
December 21, 2009
 
i say for smeone ten and up
well ur a jerk is a very intersting song

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This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
Artist:New Boyz
Release date:April 22, 2009
Labels:Atlantic, WEA
Genre:Hip-hop
Parental advisory:No

This review was written by Stephanie Bruzzese
 

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