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Big Love

(Rated TV-MA, Drama, Starring Bill Paxton, Chloe Sevigny, Jeanne Tripplehorn, Ginnifer Goodwin, Where to watch: HBO, DVD, Online)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 16, age appropriate for kids over 99; suggested age 16.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    For adults only, and for good reasons.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 16–18

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    One husband, three wives, and a father-in-law with a 14-year-old partner, not to mention the usual dysfunctional family relationships aired like too much dirty, tawdry laundry.
  • Violence:

    Guns are displayed here and there; a husband is poisoned by his wife; verbal jousts abound.
  • Sex:

    There's so much sex that sometimes it feels like it's the only thing the show is about. They talk about it, they do it, they bare it. Scenes have included Bill's naked butt, an erection shown through a blanket, and children talking about erections.
  • Language:

    Some minor-league cursing ("damn").
  • Consumerism:

    One shopaholic wife has practically memorized all of the popular mail-order catalogs, reeling off labels like a doctor does medical jargon. But her behavior is portrayed negatively.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    So many other vices are indulged that there's little room for run-of-the-mill substances and dependencies, though the main character takes Viagra.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Big Love

Parents need to know that the main character in this edgy polygamy drama has three different families with three different wives -- but even with all of those families, very little in the show is appropriate for kids. Instead of focusing on how one man juggles three families, it focuses on how he satisfies his three wives. Everything else -- his job, his kids -- is less important. It's important to note that although this show is about polygamy, the characters are not Mormons.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the show's polygamy concept with older teens. Why would HBO make a show like this now? Since polygamy is often associated with the Mormon religion, despite the fact that the Mormons have long since banned the practice, could the show be considered an implicit lampoon or criticism of their faith? Or does it actually show some of the benefits -- or at least the complexities -- of the practice? Who is the intended audience? How does each character come to terms with the complexity of a "big love" household?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Great for teens, but not for kids.

    Big Love has amazing story lines. It deals with mature things but overall is ok for teens to watch.

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 8 and give it 5.0

    Big Love Is Great

    Great love is great with some stellar story lines. Yes there is quite a bit of sex, but this is an HBO series and what are you expecting. Big Love would probably have an R rating if it were a movie, but I think that does not mean kids cannot watch it with their parents. When I was a kid I watched movies that had adult themes with my parents and that was the best way, so they could explain things to me. However, most of the time those things really went over my head and it did not make me go out and have lots of sex. I think some parents are overly concerned about the amount of sex on Big Love because there is much more about from what kids say at school to each other on a daily basis. Come on, it is just a show and cannot corrupt you!

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    Lives in Colorado
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    Addictive

    I found Big Love incredibly addicting and intriguing. It really gets you thinking about a wide range of issues including: religion, gender roles, family, and more. I thinking one of the biggest themes is what is 'good' and 'normal' and how things are rarely black and white. There is definitely a lot of nudity/sex and other mature elements, but depending on the teen I think it can be an okay show to watch, due to how the issues are handled. Appropriate for ages 15-17 (again depends) and up.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Kentucky
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 5.0

    Favorite Midnight Drama

    My husband and I are crazy about this show. It is our sinfull thing that we can't tell anyone. The story is good, but there is a lot of sex and other questionable things. But I would not let kids in the room or in ear shot of the room (sex scenes are graphic at some points)! Have fun!

  5. Adult Reviewer
    Anonymous
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0

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