Parents' Guide to The Sopranos

TV A&E , HBO Drama 1999
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Common Sense Media Review

By Will Wade , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Violent mob drama doesn't pull any punches.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 17+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 15 parent reviews

Parents say that while the series is praised for its exceptional storytelling and acting, it is widely considered inappropriate for children due to its explicit language, violence, and sexual content, with many recommending it for viewers aged 16 and older. Despite differing opinions on the intensity of the content, almost all reviewers agree that it is best suited for a mature audience and not for younger viewers.

  • entertainment value
  • adult themes
  • explicit content
  • age recommendations
  • strong language
Summarized with AI

age 14+

Based on 28 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Tony Soprano (James Gandolfini) is a family man -- with a difference. He has a loving wife, Carmela (Edie Falco), and two college-age children, Meadow (Jamie-Lynn Siegler) and Anthony Jr. (Robert Iler), all of whom turn a blind eye to his other family. Tony is the boss of a New Jersey mafia clan, and the heart of this fascinating show is his conflicted efforts to juggle his responsibilities to both.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 15 ):
Kids say ( 28 ):

THE SOPRANOS is amazingly violent, yet the savage beatings and offhand killings seem like just another day at the office for these brutal career criminals. The viewer is quickly sucked into their schemes and roots for them to pull off every job. But this series is less about big heists than it is about the petty jealousies and personal conflicts within every family, whether they're linked by blood or by an oath of loyalty.

The extensive supporting cast of hoodlums and family members (many people are both in this business) is both colorful and strong, providing endless demands on Tony's time, which further takes him away from his real family. This is a series that repeatedly questions the meaning of duty and the power of loyalty. Both are thought-provoking matters that could be interesting for older teens, but The Sopranos isn't a show that kids should watch lightly, no matter how mature they seem.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the rigid social structure within the mafia relies on the value of keeping your word and the importance of loyalty. Which comes first -- obeying the law or family?

  • Are any of the characters' criminal actions in any way justifiable? Does the end ever justify the means?

  • How does the violence on this show compare to that in others you've seen? Why can some channels get away with stronger content than others?

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