Daisy of Love (VH1)

common sense media says

Rock of Love spin-off is predictably sexist.


parents & educators say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this Rock of Love spin-off features all of the raunchy behavior viewers have come to expect from these over-the-top "dating" reality shows, including fighting, strong sexual innuendo, and excessive drinking. You can also expect lots of strong language (words like "bitch" and "ass" are audible, while curses like "f--k" and "s--t" are bleeped) and endless sexist references. Teens may be drawn to the show thanks to its connection to other popular shows like it, but it's really not for kids.

Positive messages: Overall, this voyeuristic show reinforces immature behavior and strong sexist stereotypes. There aren't really any positive take-aways to find.
Positive role models: Daisy comes across as ditzy and stereotypical, and the contestants are immature and aggressive. Not a lot of diversity in the contestant pool.
Violence: Competitive behavior sometimes leads to pushing, shoving, punching, bloody injuries, and destruction of property. Some challenges require the guys to confront each other in situations like refereed fighting matches and paintball gun fights. A flashback features Daisy fighting with a former Rock of Love contestant.
Sex: Lots of kissing and strong sexual innuendo. References are made to Daisy's "big boobs"; one contestant refers to sidekick Rachtman as a "boner kill." Daisy and the other women on the show wear lots of tight, revealing clothes; male contestants are shown wearing butt-revealing thongs and in bondage attire. Discussions about sex, sexually related topics (ex. "Prince Albert," which is a genital piercing), and sexuality.
Language: Lots of strong language, ranging from words like "bad ass," "bitch," and "douche bag" to bleeped-out choices like "d--k," "s--t," and "f--k."
Consumerism: The series is a promotional vehicle for Daisy, who's working on her singing career. There are many references to shows like Rock of Love, I Love New York, I Love Money, and Charm School (one of the contestants previously appeared on several of these shows). References to Jack Daniels whiskey.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Lots of excessive drinking (beer, wine, champagne, hard liquor) and drunken behavior. Some contestants get sick and pass out, while others become violent and/or ridiculous.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about why they think this type of reality show continues to be popular. Is it more than just a guilty pleasure?
  • Do you think having men competing for a woman (rather than the other way around) changes the show’s dynamic at all? Does the show undermine or reinforce stereotypes?
  • Why do you think people agree to participate in shows like this? Is it possible to find real love on a reality show? What other things could motivate someone to appear in such a public forum?

What's the story?

What's the story?
DAISY OF LOVE is yet another reality show in which a flamboyant dating competition reject looks for a second chance at love. Taking center stage this time is Daisy de la Hoya, a former Rock of Love contestant who's heart was broken when she was unexpectedly booted from the show. Now ready to find love again, she's gathered 20 alpha males in a Hollywood Hills house to see if she can find Mr. Right. Each week, the colorful members of the group of rockers, rebels, and rejects must win tough challenges to get some "quality time" with Daisy and prove their worth. At the end of each episode, the contestant who impresses her the least is asked to leave; the last man standing wins the chance to date Daisy -- and hopefully win her heart.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Like its reality TV predecessors, Daisy of Love perpetuates sexist stereotypes about men, women, and relationships by highlighting -- and sometimes rewarding -- the contestants' obnoxious behavior. Although Daisy slightly challenges this formula by clearly telling the men what she wants and what behavior she won't tolerate (like being called the "b" word), she still comes across as a ditzy blonde wearing sexy clothes designed to attract men. Worse, sidekick (and former Charm School judge) Riki Rachtman acts as her guardian of sorts, attempting to "protect" Daisy and her wounded heart from contestants who may not realize that she's serious about finding love.

The series also features the predictable strong sexual content, excessive drinking, endless arguing, and other over-the-top activities that characterize these kinds of reality shows. Some of the challenges are pretty violent, too. Bottom line? This show offers little more than some indulgent voyeuristic pleasure, and even that is best left for adults.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-14
Network: VH1
Cast: Daisy de la Hoya, Riki Rachtman
Genre: Reality TV
Where to watch: VH1

This review was written by Melissa Camacho
 
 

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Worst. Show. Ever.
I absolutely hate this show. Stereotypical blonde bimbo that's a disgrace to the female gender pretending to be looking for "love" amongst 20 guys based on what they look like and if they can play guitar. I can actually feel my brain turning to mush as I watch this. For the love of god keep this away from your children.

wumb
kid, 12 years old
 
Pretty good but bad
I LOVE THIS SHOW!!!!!!!! it is bad,sexual and a little bit violent but it is a good show.

TeamEdward
kid, 12 years old
 
Innappropriate
Daisy of Love isn't that bad of a show, but it's very sexually involved and has bad language and is alcohol-fueled.

jigokushoujo
teen, 17 years old
 
I love this show!
its really awesome, i mean the alot of the guys are gorgeous! i was a little sad when london left though...alright so it was horrible he was like the hottest! but i think daisy really mite find love and its really funny and interesting. its not a bad show its just not appropriate for the younger kids crowd...for teens its alright though...and im happy theres a rocker show out there wher the main character isnt fourty...

theroosterfana ...
kid, 13 years old
 
OK if you're mature
Nice Show, if ur very mature like i am, there will be no problem. If not, there will probably be to much swearing and sexual themes. From T. PS: Check out best of VH1 Podcast for iPhone iPad and iTouch, and get "When Skunks Attack: Part 1" and "When Skunks Attack: Part 2" My fave episode!!!

tm124
educator
 
Daisy looks for a man to date. Men use words such as H*ll, D*mn, B*tch, D*uche, Wh*re, Sh*t, and F*ck.

vsquadcheer
teen, 16 years old
 
good but bad...i no- oxymoron rite?!!?
ok so, its a good show and all...i mean it gives me a good laugh BUT i can understand how people dont want their kids watching it...(if my parents caught me watching it, id b sooo dead) so, i'd say watch it bt dont b obsessd...

sara4ever95
teen, 16 years old
 
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