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Don't Tell the Bride

(Rated TV-PG, Reality TV, Starring Ruth Jones, Rebekah Staton, Where to watch: BBC America)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 13.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    British wedding reality show tests limits of "true" love.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–16

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Although viewers will see brides behaving badly (some admit to their right to be "totally spoiled"), the show stresses the real purpose of a wedding: to unite two people who are truly in love. And in the end, some brides -- but not all -- realize that the details of a wedding don't really matter, and it's truly the thought that counts. That said, brides do typically expect the very best -- and, by extension, the most expensive -- when it comes to their dress, their flowers, and the wedding site. But grooms can only buy what they can afford.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Not an issue.
  • Sex:

    Brief snippets of footage from bachelor and bachelorette party shenanigans include images of sex toys.
  • Language:

    The language is generally clean, although some words (like "f--k") are bleeped. Some accents could be difficult for American audiences to understand.
  • Consumerism:

    The show isn't as label-conscious as American television would be, but it does hinge on the inherent conflict between the bride's designer tastes and the realities of the groom's "modest" budget -- which, at 12,000 pounds (about $18,000 U.S.), is still a large sum.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Brief shots of brides- and grooms-to-be partying in bars with their friends, drinking champagne, guzzling spirits, and doing shots.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Don't Tell the Bride

Parents need to know that this series is aimed at adults -- particularly those who might be planning their own weddings -- so it might not appeal to younger viewers. If kids and teens do watch, they could see brief shots of adults guzzling alcohol and playing with sex toys during risque pre-wedding festivities. They'll also see brides who are less than beautiful when it comes to their unrealistic expectations. It's worth noting that this is a British show created for British audiences, so U.S. viewers might have trouble understanding some regional accents.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about whether there are real differences between British and American brides and grooms when it comes to the scale of the "average" wedding. Do Americans seem to spend more money, time, and effort on their wedding days, or are Brits equally obsessive? Do you think that agreeing to the show's terms of turning all decision-making over to the groom is a good way for cash-strapped couples to pay for their weddings? What's the true cost of accepting the show's "free" money?

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