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All member reviews for Downton Abbey

Adult
March 3, 2011
 
Could have used a heads up . . .
This really is a gorgeous period drama with all the twists and scheming you'd expect. The story is incredibly engaging and is beautifully cast. However, after reading Common Sense Media's review on Netflix, I felt comfortable with my young teenage siblings watching it with me but was very startled when the duke and footman do more than just "talk about their affair" (all that was stated in the review). There is a lengthy kiss between them. I'm very surprised that this normally conservative review site, one that I often count on to help guide media choices in our family, left out that information since many parents would either like to avoid such a scene altogether or would like to discuss it with their teenagers beforehand. I truly feel like you've let me down.
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Parent of 12 and 14 year old
March 27, 2011
 
My family really enjoyed this series. Sexual situations are vague and handled tastefully. There is some kissing - and a bit of it is same-sex, which is not a problem for my kids. Beautiful, absorbing, funny, surprising, dramatic. Lots of fun and escapism. Looking forward to the next season!

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Parent
February 17, 2012
 
Yes - CommonSense has let us down here...
I agree with KKoff. Apparently two males passionately kissing is so normal as to not rate a mention on your site! Well not in my world, and not for young children or even teens. This is a brilliant quality series, but there is certainly plently of overt and implied sexual behaviour that will need explaining to children - Including the main plot line of a lady of the house sleeping with a guest (series 1), an overt homosexual encounter (series 1) and the lord of the house having an affair (series 2).
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Parent
January 7, 2013
 
PARENTS: BLATANT HOMOSEXUAL CONTENT
After all the rave reviews I purchased the 1st two seasons and sat down with my 2 preteen daughters to watch Season 1, Episode 1. Thinking this would be a way to help them understand more of the social, political, and historical climate of that era, was SHOCKED when it came to the scene of the male servant kissing the duke. Couldn't turn it off fast enough!! I had looked on line prior to watching and didn't see ANYTHING warning of the BLATANT homosexual content. It was hard for me to watch, not to mention seeing the horror on my daughters faces after the CLOSE UP of 2 men kissing. Wish I would have known ahead of time....
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Parent
June 18, 2012
 
Great Show!
The show is pretty chaste despite its coverage of difficult topics. The homosexual kiss was a wonderful opportunity to talk about same-sex relationships and that they are perfectly normal even though the characters felt that they must hide it 100 years ago.

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Teen, 13 years old
March 31, 2012
 
Great show!
I LOVE this show! Every Sunday my mom and I watch this every week together.

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Adult
February 25, 2012
 
Be wary of unedited UK version online
I think what we need to realize about this TV show is the strong possibility that there are some scenes in it online that are not shown on American PBS stations, hence the same-sex kissing not mentioned by commonsensemedia.org and other reviewers. Amazon's streaming video page states that each episode is the original un-edited UK version of the program.
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Teen, 15 years old
February 22, 2012
 
BEST. SHOW. EVER!!!!!
This is literally the best show I have ever watched on television. It is absorbing, suspensful, fascinating, and (heads up, parents!) quite educational as well. You can learn so much about aristocrasy in WWI-era (and afterwards) just by watching this show. It is quite entertaining, the acting and storylines are fantastic, and I love how each character, no matter how obscure they are, always get the spotlight at some point in time. I especially love Lady Grantham, who is always sweet to everybody, and the indispensable grandmother (played by Oscar-winning Maggie Smith, aka Proffessor McGonnagal for any Harry Potter fans out there). Oh, and there is also Mr. Bates, who in my opinion is an excellent role model, since he in the beginning refuses to marry or have overt relationships with Anna to protect her honor (a true gentleman). Note: the plots are very complex and the show can be quite lengthy at times, so that is why I recommended it for 15+, not 13+. Contentwise, it is appropriate for 13+, however. I just believe that it will catch more the interest of older teens than younger ones. Overall, great show, great plot, and very educational!
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Teen, 16 years old
April 22, 2012
 
I adore it.

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Parent
October 6, 2012
 
Finally, a worthwhile Family Watch---for ages 10 and over
We are watching this series with our 11 year old son and 13 year old daughter. Everyone loves it! There is truly a 'favorite character' for everyone, multiple plot lines, and many teachable moments. We have discussed history, the changing status of women in society, morals, loyalty, friendship, politics, and personal choices/boundaries with regard to sexual activity (same sex, prior to marriage, as well as affairs while married.) I am surprised to see parents here more concerned about a homosexual kiss than about violence and young mortality in WWII, including soldiers paralyzed, disfigured and dismembered. Even an "unexplained event" in the 2nd episode of Season One seems reason for more parental concern (**SPOILER** male guest dies in a daughters bedroom during a romantic evening. Tastefully handled. Very discreet visuals.) Homosexual kisses are on network TV, and part of the fabric of our children's lives. Be willing to discuss (or at least answer questions about) where heirs come from, why a man might want to visit a woman's bedroom, mortality in wartime, homosexuality, alcoholism, politics, classism, affairs with maids, family conflict, and the changing status of women in history. Seems to become a bit soap-opera-esque in mid season 2 but still the best "FamilyTV" that we've found for families with tweens. Enjoy!
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Kid, 12 years old
January 13, 2013
 
out standing!!!!!!!!!!
omg! amazing tv show!!!!! each episode make people want to see more! for once, there is a well writen show that doesn't have pointless violence!!!
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Parent
February 12, 2013
 
Review on Downton Abbey
Here it from a 9 year old. This show is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There are various parts though that could strike a parent as inappropriate. In season 1 they have a servant and duke kissing and then the servant kisses the dukes hand many times. It was totally disgusting for me and my brother Ben to see! They do here and there in season 1 have curses and other bad language for younger ears. At a part of season 1 they have a man come into a daughter's room at a time when he shouldn't be there. They kiss and while they are kissing, the man has a heart attack and dies. His death is unseen, however he is shown dead, eyes wide open. Season 2 surrounds around the war and gets gory. A man goes to jail after he is heard guilty of killing his wife. His cellmate tries to get him in trouble and at one part, the man who kills his wife puts a knife to his cellmate's neck and threatens him. !!**SPOILER ALERT**!! In season 3 the man is found innocent and gets released. Big drama occurs when a daughter of the lord of Downton dies of eclampsia and it shows her dying which gave me nightmares. !!**SPOILER**!! The screen shows up close the daughter dying with her neck puffing out, screaming like mad, and stiff muscles. The gay servant tries getting close to another man while he is sleeping and gets caught trying to kiss him by a footman. The sleeping man wakes up, gets angry, and chases both out of the room. The show has many references to wine and beer and many people smoke. Kissing is not rare but no suggestive body parts are shown ever. Two men have a small fist fight over a daughter. In an episode, surgery is done to a man where they inject a pointy thing in his body and insert a medication. A chest is shown and the injecting gets somewhat gross but nothing suggestive once again. The role model is not great and they send along small positive messages but the show in all not including these parts I've mentioned, is GGRREEAATT!!!!!
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Educator
January 23, 2013
 
A Teacher's Approval (with some warnings for selective parents)
As a 7th grade teacher, I would definitely recommend this to my students. And just to throw it out there for parents who choose to be very selective with their child(ren)'s media exposure, there will be a few (less than 3) scenes where sex is suggested, homosexuality is a minor theme, and there are a couple of episodes where stronger language is used (at the moment I can only think of 1 and it does not occur until the second season) so perhaps some would say 13 is a better age for this show. But it truly is a testament to the idea of courage, respect and honor. This show does so incredibly well without having a sex scene in every episode or regular use of strong language. That is something that does not come by very often. I wish that when I have conversations in the hallways with my students that they would tell me how they love Downton Abbey as opposed to shows like Basketball Wives, Teen Mom and Vampire Diaries; all of which lack the class and decency that Downton Abbey has.
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Adult
October 2, 2012
 
Better than a lot of the stuff on TV, but still beware
Be wary of the homosexual kissing scene and the mostly-alluded-to affairs between one of the three daughters and the duke, as well as between her father and one of the maids. But really, the series is very low-key about sex. Even when married couples are shown in bed in the morning, they are always covered up. This show rarely registers as "steamy" for me, but I know it might for some parents with kids. There is a lot of drinking, but usually not to get drunk. It's more social drinking. One character is accused of murdering his wife, and he seems menacing enough to do it. His innocence remains unproven as of early season 3. I give this a 13-and-up rating not just because some of the content is stuff that's questionable, but because I don't really think kids younger than that would even enjoy it. A lot of the themes are adult not just in the sense that they are inappropriate for little ones, but also just in that they are not interesting for kids under a certain age.
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Teen, 16 years old
March 30, 2013
 
Really Depends on What Your Household is Like...
I love this show, but I don't think I would feel comfortable having a kid younger than me watch it. Partly because of the sexual content, but mainly because most kids wouldn't understand what was happening, anyway. Smoking is in it, but Downtown Abbey is set in a time period where it was wide-spread, so they are just being historically-accurate.
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Teen, 17 years old
February 15, 2013
 
Mixed Bag
Downton Abbey is a mixed bag. The acting is great, the Dowager Countess is amazing, the filming is exquisite what's not so great is condensed to one character. Lord Grantham's valet is openly homosexual and this can lead to some very sticky situations for anyone's morals. Beyond this and a few other sensual situations the show is quite good, though probably not very compelling till you're at least sixteen.
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