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The United States of Tara

(Rated TV-MA, Comedy, Starring Toni Collette, John Corbett, Brie Larson, Where to watch: Showtime, Online)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 15, age appropriate for kids over 18; suggested age 16.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Smart but mature dramedy about living with mental illness.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 16–18

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Highlights some of the issues, difficulties, and misinformation surrounding DID and mental illness. The family accepts Tara's disorder as part of who she is and deals with it openly; some other characters find it hard to understand their situation. Tara's alters play to some gender/age stereotypes, but that's part of the point. The core cast is Caucasian. Tara's teenage son Marshall is openly gay.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    One of Tara's alters is prone to violence and gets into physical fights (punching, kicking, shoving) when provoked. These events sometimes lead to bruises and black eyes.
  • Sex:

    Lots of strong sexual innuendo; occasional nudity. Some female characters are shown in their underwear (including revealing G-strings). Teenage Kate is open about being sexually active; the "morning after" pill is discussed. A secondary character admits that she was sexually molested. Tara's alters sometimes come on strong to husband John, but he'll only have sex with his wife when she's actually thinking as Tara.
  • Language:

    Frequent uncensored cursing, including words like "s--t" and "f--k."
  • Consumerism:

    Visual and verbal references to Facebook. Brands of everyday items like Dell Computer and Gold Medal Flour are sometimes visible.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Smoking and drinking (beer, martinis, wine) are frequently visible. References are made to getting high (Tara's teenage personality, "T," talks about "smoking a fatty").
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The United States of Tara

Parents need to know that this dramedy centers on a suburban wife and mother who's struggling with a very overt form of dissociative identity disorder. While the character's shifts in and out of her alter egos create some humorous moments, overall the series humanizes people with the disease and treats the disorder and those who have it with sensitivity and respect. That said, it's on pay cable, and it features some decidedly adult content -- including some strong sexual innuendo, nudity, swearing, drinking, smoking, and references to drug use. One teen character is openly gay; another openly discusses being sexually active.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the show's teenage characters. Do they seem more or less realistic than teens on other TV shows? Why? How does the show present teenage sexuality? Parents, talk to your teens about how seeing sex in the media can affect behavior. Families can also discuss how the media typically portrays people who are mentally ill. Does the media offer a fair and accurate representation of people who struggle with emotional, psychological, and/or psychiatric disorders? Why or why not? Is this show different? How?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Kid Reviewer Age 9
    I rate this title on for age 15 and give it 4.0

    tara has D.I.D and the actress she portrays it very well

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in Washington
    I rate this title on for age 15 and give it 5.0

    Thank you Diablo Cody

    I love this show it's a great dramady. Diablo Cody really was the thing that drew me to it she is one of my favorite writers.Check it out.

  3. Parent Reviewer
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 1.0

    GENUIS-from a Producer in Film

    I love the writing-I love the characters...and Toni and John are surreal parents...that make this project rock. Even though you deal with a sensitive subject disassociation disorder-Toni pulls it off via her lovely persona-and the writer blends and taps into each character-and dazzles us. THANK YOU!!! Mary Gleeson

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Illinois
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 1.0

    Before you view

    Just to set the record straight, there is no "DID medication." The therapeutic process in learning to live with DID is painful, arduous and long. The reasons that people develop DID are horrific. While people with DID should not be ostracized or feared, we need MORE understanding of the facts, not this glossed-over version that asserts that DID can be managed with a pill! Get real!

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