| ON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age. | |
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| NOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age. |
Parents need to know that this book centers on a transgender character (Grady was born a girl, but wants to live as a boy). When he starts to live openly as a boy, he's harassed at school by both boys and girls, faces resistance from school staff and an old friend, and even has some trouble at home.
When Grady decides to start living openly as a boy (instead of being a girl named Angela), he faces harassment at school, and hesitation from his oldest friend and some family members. But he also finds a new support system with friends who accept him, including a beautiful girl named Kita. Grady's family always puts on a big production for Christmas, including performing A Christmas Carol from inside the home for the whole town to see. This year, Grady rewrites the play to teach a powerful lesson about accepting change.
What Ellen Wittlinger does really well here is spell out the everyday complications that Grady faces once he decides to live life as a boy. Not only does he have to explain his new identity to family members, but he also has to worry about more mundane things, such as which bathroom to use at school or where to shower after gym class. Grady's certainly brave, and his family -- especially his mother -- works hard to understand him. Readers will understand why little moments are such a big deal, such as when a cashier calls him "sir," or when his mother finally uses his new name.
A secondary storyline about Grady's Christmas-obsessed father is a bit over the top, but this obsession does set the stage for a dramatic last scene. In the end, this is a good primer for teens who are curious about what it means to be transgender.
Families can talk about identity change. What ways do teens typically play with their identities (think changing hairstyle, dressing differently, etc.)? Ask kids what would happen at their schools if someone made a more major identity change, as Grady does. Would they be accepted?
In recent years there have been a lot more books featuring gay, bisexual, and transgendered characters. Is the same true for other forms of media, like TV, movies, or video games? What do you think of this trend? What sort of impact does it have on our culture?
| Author: | Ellen Wittlinger |
| Book type: | Fiction |
| Genre: | Coming of Age |
| Publisher: | Simon & Schuster |
| Publication date: | July 10, 2007 |
| Number of pages: | 304 |
| Hardcover price: | $16.99 |
| Publisher's recommended age(s): | 12 - 12 |
| Read aloud: | 14 |
| Read alone: | 14 |
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