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All parent reviews for Rules

Age
8
Average rating based on 11 parent reviews:
  • 36% say it's educational
  • 27% say there are positive role models
  • 27% say there are positive messages
Parent of 7 and 13 year old
April 9, 2008
 
Great read for kids (and parents!)
My daughter chose this from her summer reading list before 5th grade. Because we have friends with autistic kids, I read this book so I could talk with my daughter about autism. This is a fantastic book. Very sweet, funny, touching story -- beautifully written. Nothing objectionable. A great launching pad for discussion with your child about kids who are different, or have learning, social, or physical issues.

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Parent of 9 and 12 year old
August 20, 2009
 
Realistic look at life with a disabled sibling. The main character vacillates between being mortified by her brother's behavior and being fiercely protective of him. She learns valuable lessons about friendship from an unexpected friend.

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Parent of 10 and 12 year old
March 1, 2011
 
Excellent book
Rules is a story of a girl's need to find "normal." This girl, Catherine, struggles constantly with her wanting to be accepted and viewed as anyone else and with her love for her autistic brother. She sets up extensive 'rules', for both him and herself, so she can try to make him more 'normal' to everyone around them. In the end, with the help of the friendship of Jason (a boy in a wheelchair) she learns that maybe what others think isn't THAT important after all. This is a fantastic book for children to learn that others who seem different are just people too. And that what the popular kids think really isn't that important. There is also insight into what it's like to live with an autistic sibling. Great writing by Cynthia Lord.

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Adult
February 3, 2011
 
Be Careful What You Wish For!
I think this book is very educational! I loved this book and for me it's just a new experience. I loved in this book that it teaches you that if you don't always have to have a friend that is able to walk or run, or even a friend that can't speak or hear. like Catherin she has a friend named Jason that you'll learn about in this book he cant walk or speak but she also has a friend that can walk and speak but at the end of the book this girl get's upset that Catherin has a friend that can't walk or run. I would tell you more but i would give the whole story away and I don't want to do that.

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Educator and Parent of 9 year old
February 17, 2011
 
Positive messages
This book had some very positive messages. There was not a lot of action, but there were interesting events. My book club had many interesting discussions based on this book.

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Parent of 3, 4, 4, 6, and 7 year old
February 23, 2011
 
The secret message in thias book was really just that Catherine wanted to make out with Jason and then she wanted to .... with Jason! 8~O

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Adult
November 12, 2010
 
Granddaughter's favorite

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Adult
September 29, 2011
 
i dont lie
umm no they dont let me curse about what a bad book this is. ITS NOT FOR CHILDREN!

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
Great book
I am studying to be a teacher and I passes this book up to read in high school and now I wish I hadn't. This is a great book to read about family and how strong the bonds are between siblings even if one is autistic.

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Parent of 5 year old
January 20, 2011
 
rules
I dont like rules there isnt a paoint of veiw like when the girl is drawing a picture of the boy with autisum and he get upset thats a bad example for my childern!!

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Parent of 15 year old
February 23, 2010
 
i love this boo k is the bet i have ever read so far and this shows a lot and means alot

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