I admit that I went into this movie without expecting it to be at all good. Nevertheless, despite being quite unrealistic and at times cloying, it has in its defense a lot of charm. Heather Graham and Tom Cavanagh are winning; Alan Cumming's character doesn't seem to have much of a place in this film, but he manages to be a whimsical addition just the same. However, parents should be warned that there's heavy drinking, some swearing, and sexual content, making this a picture better suited- as CSM suggests- for elder teens.
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Gray Matters
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Forgettable coming-out comedy for older teens.
Why We Rated This 
for Ages 15–16
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What Parents Need to Know
About Gray Matters
Parents need to know that while this might seem like a run-of-the-mill romantic comedy, it's more about Gray's serious realization that she's gay. Bridget Moynahan, who plays the object of Gray's affection, spends most of the film clad in a lace bra and thong panties. The two women share a long, passionate, tequila-fueled kiss, but only Gray remembers it. Despite the film's lighthearted feel, there are plenty of adult themes -- pretending to be straight, coming to terms with homosexuality, making impulsive decisions to marry, etc. The movie is best for older teens who have some perspective on these subjects.
Read our full review by Sandie Angulo Chen
Families Can Talk About
- Families can talk about how Gray decided to come out. Ask your kids how they feel about her fears that she'll never get married, have kids, or be able to publicly display affection because she's gay. Parents and kids can also discuss Gray and Sam's sibling relationship. Why did someone assume they were a couple? What were the pros and cons of their constant togetherness? If your kids have siblings, ask them how they think their relationships will change as they get older.
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