Parents' Guide to All About My Mother

Movie R 1999 101 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Andrea Beach By Andrea Beach , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Thought-provoking Almodovar drama; lots of sex, profanity.

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age 17+

Based on 1 parent review

age 17+

Based on 1 kid review

What's the Story?

In ALL ABOUT MY MOTHER, tragedy drives Manuela (Cecilia Roth) to return to Barcelona 18 years after fleeing to Madrid as a pregnant and unmarried young woman. While she's looking for the father of her child, she reunites with an old friend, takes in a pregnant nun, and becomes a personal assistant to the unwitting catalyst of the tragedy that pulled her back to Barcelona in the first place.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say ( 1 ):

Pedro Almodóvar's well-known reverence of women is beautifully realized here, thanks to a fantastic script, steady hand, and keen, loving eye for detail. Every character in All About My Mother adds a nuance, from brilliant shine to dark shadow, to the multifaceted gem that is womanhood. And Almodóvar does so with a light, down-to-earth touch that never looks down from on high. Fantastic performances and a story that unfolds gracefully make it well worth watching. Best for mature teens who can handle graphic talk about sex and gender identity. It's a thoughtful and thought-provoking movie that rewards the patient viewer.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the strong language in All About My Mother. How much is OK? Does it seem realistic to you?

  • How does the movie explore gender identity, especially through the character Agrado? Did her character teach you anything new, or change how you feel, about transgender people?

  • Have attitudes about HIV/AIDS changed much since the movie was made in 1999? How so, or why not? How accurate is Rosa's story, in terms of how she became HIV-positive and the effect on her baby?

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