Brothers (R, 2009)

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Well-acted war drama is too intense for kids.


parents & educators say
  • 86% say violence is an issue
  • 57% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this mature drama (which stars Natalie Portman, Tobey Maguire, and Jake Gyllenhaal) about how the horrors of war affect both a soldier and his grieving family has several disturbing scenes of war, torture, and even domestic disputes -- making it far too intense for tweens and even younger teens. The war sequences involve atrocities, near-suicide, and two startling killings that are chillingly realistic; strong language includes frequent use of words like "f--k," "s--t," "a--hole," and the like. Sexuality isn't too graphic, but there are a few passionate kisses and one shot of an obviously undressed, quilt-covered couple in bed.

Positive messages: Despite the devastating effects that war has on Sam and his family, his family remains supportive and loving. The movie explores how war and violence change soldiers and their ability to return to their lives as fathers and husbands.
Positive role models: Grace, Sam, and Tommy are all realistically flawed characters. Sam commits an unthinkable act in a life-and-death situation, but he does so because he'd die otherwise and wants to return to his family. Grace and Tommy, in a moment of grief, reconnect by kissing, but they realize their error and focus on Sam when he returns. On the definite plus side, all of the characters are devoted to their family.
Violence: Quite a bit of violence, especially in the war scenes thattake place in Afghanistan. A helicopter crashes; two American soldiersare taken hostage, held starving and captive, andthen tortured. A man is shot in the head; a man is forced to killanother man or be killed himself; many men are shot at and killed, etc. In a moment of fury, a character destroys his kitchen and scares hisfamily. A man points a gun at himself and looks like he's about tocommit suicide.
Sex: A married couple kisses passionately and is shown in bed after having had sex. They exchange a few more kisses and embraces. A widow kisses her brother-in-law once. A man discusses whether his brother "f--ked" his wife, and a young girl lies that her mother and uncle "have sex all the time."
Language: Frequent strong language: many uses of the words "f--k" and "s--t," as well as "damn," "hell," "a--hole," "goddamn," "ass," "oh my God," "dick," and more.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Tommy gets drunk on a several occasions, and his father is shown drinking liquor a few times. Tommy smokes cigarettes; in one scene, he and Grace share a joint.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how war (both the Vietnam war and the war in Afghanistan) affects the Cahills. Did Sam really have a choice in what he did? The movie doesn't judge him, but what do you think?
  • How is grief portrayed in the movie?
  • Discuss how both brothers deal with their actions. How do their decisions and approaches differ?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Based on the award-winning Danish film Brodre, BROTHERS is a family saga starring Tobey Maguire as U.S. Marine captain Sam Cahill and Jake Gyllenhaal as his younger brother, Tommy, who has just gotten out of prison. Sam is deployed to Afghanistan, where his combat team's helicopter crashes in enemy territory. He and a private survive, only to be captured and tortured for months. Since the Marines don't know there were any survivors, Sam's wife, Grace (Natalie Portman), is notified that she's now a widow -- and that her two young girls are without a father. Tommy begins to spend a lot of time with Grace and her girls; one night, he and Grace share a grief- and alcohol-fueled kiss. Meanwhile, Sam is forced to commit an unthinkable act of cruelty before he's eventually rescued by American soldiers. But the agony waiting back home may even be worse.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Director Jim Sheridan is no stranger to intense family dramas -- the Irish filmmaker (In the Name of the Father, In America) seems like a natural choice to adapt Susanne Bier's affecting Brodre. At first, the three leads (especially Portman) all seem too much younger than their Danish counterparts, but with some obvious visual clues that Portman and Maguire's characters were high-school sweethearts, the characterizations start clicking into place, and each actor rises to the challenge. Portman is luminous as a grief-stricken young "widow," and Gyllenhaal is surprisingly believable as the edgier bad-boy brother trying to make amends. But it's Maguire who has to anchor the emotional intensity, capturing Sam's months of torture and then his return to civilization mostly with bulging eyes, set jaw, and an acidly dropped curse word.

To Americanize Bier's masterful original, screenwriter David Benioff makes Sam and Tommy's father (Sam Shepard) a Vietnam vet, lending even more credibility to the good-son/bad-son dynamic between the brothers. Portman's almost distracting loveliness is also taken into consideration, as it becomes the subject of small talk among Tommy's friends. There's more humor in this version as well, especially in a key scene in which Tommy and Grace bond over a joint and a U2 song. Overall, Sheridan's remake is beautifully acted and, unfortunately, quite timely. But everyone who sees it should, also watch Bier's subtle, harrowing original.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Lionsgate
Director: Jim Sheridan
Cast: Jake Gyllenhaal, Natalie Portman, Tobey Maguire
Genre: Drama
Run time: 120 minutes
Theatrical release: December 4, 2009
DVD release: March 23, 2010
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: language and some disturbing violent content
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 7 parent & educator reviews:
  • 86% say violence is an issue
  • 57% say language is an issue
  • 43% say sexual content is an issue
  • 29% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking

Most useful reviews by all members

danNYtrack
parent of 3 and 4 year old
 
Not recommended for anyone who supports the military. This movie goes to great lengths to paint military members with a broad brush. After seeing this film one gets the impression that all members of the armed forces are crazy. I gave it a chance and was very disappointed.

 
Good for teens, not for tweens and under

4Spice
adult
 
good movie
a great movie shows whats really happening in the war watch it no kids 15 and over for violence mild sex and drama

rc193
parent of 6 year old
 
bothers
not a kid movie thats for sure

Moviefan101
teen, 17 years old
 
A great war drama that shows what really happens in thw war of afganistan!!!! if you have family in the military watch this movie!!!!!
Brothers is is a well acted war acted drama about Sam Cahill (Tobey Maguire)gets deployed in the war in Afganistan. Upon deployment his black hawk helicopter crashes and he is presumed dead. You will have to watch this movie to learn more. But overall this is a well a well acted war drama

hindsabby
teen, 15 years old
 
perfect for 12-any ages
love it! best movie everr!(:

Katy500
parent of 13 year old
 
Love it!!!! Great movie for teens and adults. Little kissing but that happens in all movies I see. There are some scary parts that make you jump out of your seat.

masonlackey
teen, 14 years old
 
very good movie
this is a well made wonderful cast movie

bradley4846
teen, 17 years old
 
Great Movie
Bought it at a yard sale for $2, and did not think i would like it. I watched it and relized how great it was. The acting is amazing, etc. The movie easily could have been PG-13 without the swearing towards the end. There is talk of sex. And some implied war violence

 
brothers is a mature drama movie that's best for older teens the movie does have a lot of violence plus they show very disturbing scenes of war, torture, and even domestic disputes on top of that there's a few kisses and embraces but no sex there's a lot of strong language throughout the movie especially when they use the f-word as a sexual reference way also there's a lot of drinking and smoking such as liquor, cigarettes, and a joint.

 
14 and up
i really enjoyed the movie but it had so much language like the F word and soo much more and quite a bit of violence like war scenes and little blood and tommy smokes in about every scene! But i loved it more than ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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