Parents' Guide to Dear Evan Hansen

Movie PG-13 2021 131 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Uneven adaptation of popular musical addresses suicide.

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age 12+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 12+

Based on 42 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is a powerful exploration of loneliness and mental health, praised for its impactful music and emotional depth, despite mixed feelings regarding its adaptation from the original musical. Many viewers noted its serious themes, including suicide and anxiety, recommending it for teens while also critiquing the film for its language and deviations from the stage version.

  • emotional depth
  • powerful music
  • serious themes
  • mixed adaptation
  • teen recommendations
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What's the Story?

In DEAR EVAN HANSEN, high school senior Evan (Ben Platt) has started the school year with his arm in a cast, only family friend Jared (Nik Dodani) to talk to, and a crush from afar on Zoe Murphy (Kaitlin Dever). Evan, who has an anxiety disorder, writes letters to himself signed by other people as part of an exercise recommended by his therapist. When Evan's classmate Connor Murphy (Colton Ryan), the school outcast -- and Zoe's brother -- dies by suicide, the Murphys find one of Evan's letters in his possession and believe that it's Connor's final note. Their mistaken belief about Connor and Evan's friendship is furthered by the fact that Connor had been the only person to sign Evan's cast. Evan initially wants to tell the Murphys the truth, but Mrs. Murphy (Amy Adams) is so relieved to know that Connor died with a secret best friend that Evan can't bear to clear up the mistake. But he takes the lie to the next level when he enlists Nik to fabricate emails between Connor and Evan so that Mrs. Murphy, Mr. Murphy (Danny Pino), and Zoe can get a glimpse of Connor and Evan's "friendship." As Evan grows closer to the Murphy family and benefits from his perceived proximity to Connor, his lies spin out of control, and he even gaslights his single mother, Heidi (Julianne Moore). The situation gets progressively more manipulative and indefensible as Evan and Zoe grow close romantically and the student body president (Amandla Stenberg) founds a charitable project in Connor's name and asks Evan to be on the board.

Is It Any Good?

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This adaptation benefits from its all-star cast and Platt's amazing voice, but it also highlights the differences between stage and screen -- i.e., a musical's book isn't necessarily meant to be a screenplay. It's undeniable that Platt can sing, and anyone who's listened to the Tony-winning show's cast recording or was lucky enough to see the original stars on Broadway can attest to his talents on the Great White Way. But on the big screen, five years after he originated the role, Platt feels too old -- and too theatrical in his physicality (which works perfectly on-stage but can be too much onscreen) -- to seamlessly portray Evan. The shortcomings of the show's book are glaring in a two-hours-plus film, and although some changes were made for the better, it's ultimately disappointing, because director Stephen Chbosky is a YA and adaptation specialist.

It's hard not to feel like this version of Dear Evan Hansen doesn't meet the inflated expectations of fans of Platt and Broadway. That's not to say that there aren't aspects that work well, like the women in the ensemble: Adams, Dever, Moore, and Stenberg all add an authenticity to their parts and an emotional range to their songs. Moore is somewhat underused as Evan's always-at-work mom but in the last act gives a powerful performance of "So Big/So Small," while Stenberg contributes to the new-for-the-film song "The Anonymous Ones." Dever and Adams provide different perspectives on grief, first from losing Connor and then from feeling betrayed by the eventual and inevitable outing of Evan's deception. That deception and how it's handled in the movie is one of the film's biggest missteps, because it renders Evan unlikable nearly beyond redemption. Still, while this musical adaptation isn't going to top any best-of lists, Platt's voice helps make up for his acting. For some of its individual parts, Dear Evan Hansen is worth seeing, but as a sum of those parts, it lacks the cohesion necessary to elevate it beyond a singularly focused vehicle for Platt to re-create his award-winning stage performance.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Dear Evan Hansen was adapted for the movies. For those familiar with the musical: What do you think of the changes made? What worked better on-screen than onstage, and vice versa? What other musicals do you wish were turned into movies?

  • How does the movie portray suicide and its aftermath? In what ways does the story normalize mental health issues? When is it important to talk about mental health, especially if you're worried about a friend or family member? What resources are available to help both kids and adults?

  • What lessons does Evan learn throughout the movie? Is lying morally wrong if it's for a selfless reason? What about when it ends up being for personal gain as well? Does intent matter, or only impact?

  • Who -- if anyone -- is a role model in the story? What character strengths do they display? Why are compassion, empathy, and perseverance so important to show in movies and pop culture?

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