Driving Lessons (PG-13, 2006)

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Ron Weasley and the trite coming-of-age story.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this coming-of-age story (which stars Rupert Grint, of Harry Potter fame) focuses largely on sexual awakening and insecurities. This involves the 17-year-old hero's mooning over a classmate, fretting over his mother's adulterous affair, and learning about the sexual interests of his employer, a retired actress. He ultimately loses his virginity to a college student (brief skin is visible). Several references (visual and verbal) to hitting women with cars. Some drinking and salty language, especially from Evie (a couple of "f--k"s, plus other profanity).

Positive messages: Characters lie; Evie encourages Ben to disobey his mother and is stubbornly obstinate; jokes about evangelical Christian faith; Ben's pushy/insecure mother pays dearly for her "sins" Ben's wimpish father remains wimpish.
Violence: Car careening; car-related injury; discussion of a man running over his wife with his car (treated as comedy, but doesn't sound so funny).
Sex: Discussions of sex and a young man's sexual desire; slang for breasts ("t-ts"); adulterous affair; 16-year-old's crush leads to bad romantic poetry; boy's loss of virginity (kiss and embrace, some clothing removed, wakes in the morning with girl in bed); a fan tells Evie her TV soap is "big on the gay scene."
Language: At least two "f--ks" (pushing it for PG-13), plus other familiar profanity ("s--t," "hell," "ass"), British profanity ("bloody," "bugger"), and some other language ("queer," "you silly cow").
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Evie drinks to the point of drunkenness and passing out; Ben drinks wine with Evie (he identifies himself as underage), then drinks liquor in a pub; some background smoke.

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Talk to your kids
Families can talk about Evie and Ben's friendship. How is it unconventional, and what does he learn from her? How does she encourage him to rebel against his mother, and how does the movie make this seem like a "good" choice? Is Ben's father an unappealing role model? Why? Would it be possible for Ben and his mother to have a sincere discussion about his expanding interests (in art and literature, for instance), or is she too self-centered to understand him?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Early in DRIVING LESSONS, 17-year-old Ben (Rupert Grint) decides that he must declare his independence. He has good reason to want distance himself from his family: His demoralized father (Nicholas Farrell), a vicar at the local church, goes along with whatever his self-righteous wife, Laura (Laura Linney), wants. Ben is egged on by his new employer, retired stage actress Evie Walton (Julie Walters, who plays Mrs. Weasley to Grint's Ron in the Harry Potter franchise). Invited to give a reading at the Edinburgh Festival, Evie tricks Ben into driving her there, which means he has to disobey his mother, who's increasingly jealous of Evie. Meanwhile, Laura seeks her own outlets beyond her humdrum lover, Peter (Oliver Milburn), and stultifying husband.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Evie is reportedly based on writer-director Jeremy Brock's own experiences working for Dame Peggy Ashcroft, and Driving Lessons goes on to make terrible fun of the former grand dame. Prone to reciting Shakespeare and urging Ben to explore his "creativity," Evie is equally adept at vulgarity. Her frustration is understandable: Once accustomed to a certain respect during her heyday, she's now relegated to performing for herself in her back yard. She's peculiar and sometimes alarming, but for Ben, her large house -- cluttered with books and papers and memorabilia from a seemingly exciting career -- is increasingly preferable to his own airless home.

Ben's "growing up" takes a most pedestrian form during his trip with Evie -- he learns to drive, of course, as he also takes responsibility for Evie (and, naturally, comes to appreciate her courage) and even finds a way to lose his virginity with Bryony (Michelle Duncan), the pretty, apparently very bored twenty-something woman who greets Evie in Edinburgh. On his return home from his road trip, Ben appears not to have learned a single "lesson." He rejoins his mother, taking his place on stage as a tree. The fact that he still needs saving -- after an entire movie's worth of instruction and rescue from assorted women -- suggests that Ben is well on his way to becoming his father after all.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Sony Pictures Classics
Director: Jeremy Brock
Cast: Julie Walters, Laura Linney, Rupert Grint
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 98 minutes
Theatrical release: October 13, 2006
DVD release: July 3, 2007
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: language, sexual content and some thematic material.

This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
 
 

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WildChild30793
teen, 18 years old
 
Loved it
Great Movie!! Hilarious

MOVIE13
teen, 14 years old
 
not much of a comedy!
when i watched this movie i was dissapointed! When i began to watch it i exspected a funny comedy, but mostly all i got was a mostly sad drama with just a pinch of comedy in it! The movie was a bit boring and a bit slow and not age appropreat for younger kids at sometimes..... Personaly this is not a movie i recomend to anyone to watch.

 
Hilarious
This movie was great. A great indie movie that had a lot of laughs. The acting was much better than I had thought. This is one that you want to leave your kids home for. There is some sexual stuff (conversations about gays, Ben having sex), language (2 f--ks, sh-t and other stuff). There is also some innocent church humor. Im a christian and i wasn't offended though. Great movie, 15+.

locoo
adult
 
I think is not a big thing. Kids since 12-13 years can watch it, because at this age, the kids are prepeared for some things that they should know. I also think that they are almost teenagers, and they should know almost everything about sexuality. So, the movie is not bad at all for kids of this age. i hope you are agree with me.

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