Parents' Guide to Monster

Movie R 2003 110 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 18+

Powerful, painful for mature audiences only.

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age 18+

Based on 6 parent reviews

age 17+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's the Story?

MONSTER depicts the story of the woman called America's first female serial killer, Aileen Wuornos (Charlize Theron), who was abused as a child and began turning tricks at age 13. She thinks she has nothing to live for until she meets Shelby (Christina Ricci), a shy and needy lesbian. Even though Aileen is not gay, she is drawn to Shelby. For a moment, it seems that she can find a new life for herself. But she has no skills and no capacity to get a legitimate job. She is forced to go back to prostitution to take care of Shelby, and when a customer rapes and beats her, she snaps, and she kills him. She takes his money and his car. And then she begins to entrap and kill more men, each less justified than the last as she becomes more desperate and ultimately delusional.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 6 ):
Kids say ( 3 ):

Glamour girl Charlize Theron's breathtaking, heartbreaking transformation into the completely opposite image of Wuornos makes this film an astonishing achievement. The movie wisely does not pretend to explain what was going on in the mind and soul of a woman who was mentally ill. Unlike the similar Boys Don't Cry however, it is unable to elevate the facts into a larger story about identity and intimacy.

What makes the movie worthwhile is Theron's performance, open, vulnerable, tragic, moving, and most of all, honest. Aileen's behavior is contradictory, volatile, and disturbed. She loses control and lashes out irrationally. There are moments when I was not sure whether Theron was acting or just trying to keep her dental appliance from slipping, and no one could make some of those voiceover speeches work, but with the ferocity of her grip on the character she never lets us lose sight of Aileen's humanity. Theron's portrait of Aileen is sympathetic without pretending that she is more of a victim than the men she killed.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about who is the "monster." If it is Aileen, what made her that way? What could have prevented it? In what ways is the movie sympathetic to Aileen, and in what ways is it not? How can you tell?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : December 23, 2003
  • On DVD or streaming : May 31, 2004
  • Cast : Bruce Dern , Charlize Theron , Christina Ricci
  • Director : Patty Jenkins
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Newmarket Film Group
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 110 minutes
  • MPAA rating : R
  • MPAA explanation : strong violence and sexual content, and for pervasive language
  • Last updated : July 29, 2025

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