Never Been Kissed (PG-13, 1999)

common sense media says

A genuinely sweet and romantic story for teens.


parents & educators say
  • 33% say sexual content is an issue
  • 33% say there are positive role models

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the film includes some sexual references (Josie's friend at the office brags about her sex life, but envies Josie's views on love) and that in one scene Josie unknowingly eats some hash brownies and as a result behaves very foolishly. A "sex talk" is played for humor, and involved putting condoms on bananas. A young girl offers to have sex with Rob. He is clearly tempted, but knows that it would be wrong, and he turns her down. In general, however, this movie's values are of self-respect and of making good decisions.

Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Mostly flirting and a kiss.
Language: Mild.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Unknowing ingestion of hash brownies, played for comedy.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids

Families can talk about why high school is such a clique-ish stage of life, and what kids think will be different in college and afterward. Why did Josie want so badly to meet the limited standards of high school popularity? Why did her friends at work envy her? Why didn't she tell the truth earlier?

 

What's the story?

What's the story?

Josie, a former high school ugly duckling, is now a copy editor for the Chicago Sun Times. She wants to prove herself as a reporter and her first assignment is to go undercover as a high school student to report on what is going on in the lives of teenagers. She finds that more than proving herself as a reporter, she wants to use her adult competence to triumph over her hideously humiliating memories of being unpopular (her nickname was "Josie Grossie") and find a way to fit in. But it turns out that the skills it takes to succeed as an adult have nothing to do with the skills it takes to succeed in high school. When she does find a place with "The Denominators," the school's brainy (nerdy) crowd, she is happy. But pressed by her editor to fit in with the cool kids, she relives her old experience of frustration and embarrassment. Meanwhile, her brother Rob (David Arquette), has found that the skills that made him very successful in high school have been of no use since. Wanting to help Josie -- and to return to the place where he was happiest -- he, too enrolls in the high school, and is not only immediately dubbed "cool" by the entire student body, he is able to make Josie cool, too. Josie is at last noticed by the most popular boy in school, and is thrilled when he invites her to the prom. And she begins to fall in love with her handsome English teacher. Her entire office is mesmerized by her daily adventures, which they watch through a hidden camera.All of the predictable complications ensue, and all are resolved in a finale that is more romantic than persuasive, but fun.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

This is the best of the recent spate of teen-centered comedies, with a genuinely sweet and romantic story and some perceptive comments about life in high school. It also has a heroine who believes in waiting for the right person to kiss, even if that wait takes quite a while, and Drew Barrymore is completely adorable.

Parents should know that there are some sexual references (Josie's friend at the office brags about her sex life, but envies Josie's views on love) and that in one scene Josie unknowingly eats some hash brownies and as a result behaves very foolishly. A "sex talk" is played for humor, and involved putting condoms on bananas. A young girl offers to have sex with Rob. He is clearly tempted, but knows that it would be wrong, and he turns her down. In general, however, this movie's values are of self-respect and of making decisions about sexual involvement based on love and maturity.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Twentieth Century Fox
Director: Raja Gosnell
Cast: David Arquette, Drew Barrymore, John C. Reilly, Michael Vartan
Genre: Romance
Run time: 107 minutes
Theatrical release: April 2, 1999
DVD release: October 26, 1999
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: sex-related material and some drug content

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 9 parent & educator reviews:
  • 33% say sexual content is an issue
  • 33% say there are positive role models
  • 33% say there are positive messages
  • 33% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking

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Never Been Kissed is a funny movie that teaches a lesson about not judging someone before you know them. For me this is a movie I never get tired of watching. Drew Barrymore does a great job in this movie as she takes on two different lives one as a journalist and one as a high school student. In this movie Drew Barrymore plays both parts very well. This movie may need parental supervision because there is adult language and adult content used. It will keep you laughing and I love how the end of the movie keeps you on the edge of your seat. I think this movie is better than most romantic comedies because there is so many different things going on throughout the movie.

SomebodysMe
teen, 17 years old
 
Really cute!
This is one of my all-time fave movies. (yeah, I know i say that alot, but this really is!) Josie is the perfect role model, not compromising any of her values to fit in. Rob too, when a girl (16) asks to sleep with him (23) he turns her down though thouroughly tempted. Yeah, there's a lot of sex in it (nothing totally explicit) My advice would be to watch it before your kids see it, and then watch it with them with your finger on the fast-forward and mute buttons.

 
My eleven year old is not ready to see teenagers putting condoms on bananas and obscene gestures, like suggestively licking pencils. Too bad, it could have been a cute movie.

smartngirly
kid, 13 years old
 
Horrible Movie!
Ugh! It was a waste of time to watch! If you want a rom-com watch Breakfast at Tiffanys or Sabrina or anything else with Audrey Hepburn but Not this!

 
NOT FOR KIDS in my opinion
NOT FOR KIDS. It's a great film. But has a few sexual themes and a relationship between a girl and her teacher (even though she is legal). I would not let my kids watch this if I had any. It is geared towards teenagers

Panya
adult
 
Great for showing how "the other half" lived through high school
I really related to the main character. When I saw it for the first time, I remember thinking that all junior and high school students should see it.

Sanjay407
kid, 13 years old
 

Razeeta
kid, 13 years old
 
Sweet
this movie was great i watched it when i was 10 and my heart drop i though it was the sweetest

kit.katz28
teen, 13 years old
 
Awesome, but watch w/ your kid
Very cute and funny :) some flirting/ kissing, etc., but it was soooo good :) Definitely a movie to watch with your child, but I'd recommend it :)

booboobooboo
parent of 13 year old
 
Great!

Hethurrr
teen, 14 years old
 
It's a great movie! Perfect movie for like sleepovers and fun girly stuff.(:

CrazyBlu4Eva
kid, 10 years old
 
Sweet,romantic movie for teens.
I thought it was cute,and thought that it was cuter after I watched it!This,my opinion is the best romance movie I've ever seen!

theflickchick
teen, 14 years old
 
great movie
I liked it, except it has a few sexy parts so ages 11+ The bad stuff: A little sexy things and references, talk about kissing, and kissing. Some language. The good stuff: Positive role models and messages, for example, a character quits being part of the mean "popular clique" The movie: Good. I'd give it a 4.5 out of 5.

delilahv
parent of 15 year old
 
kljkujkoujo
its a good movie

FutureCritic
teen, 15 years old
 
Blah
This movie was kind of blah. I own it, but I've only watched it once. In some parts, it's so pathetic you have to look away. I don't like those kinds of movies. It's really not worth seeing. Vanilla in a styrafoam cup.

livvy314
teen, 15 years old
 
GREAT MOVIE.
such a good movie! cute, sweet, funny, charming, witty, what else could you ask for? drew barrymore is amazing (obviously, when is she not?) along with the other cast members. the story is original and sweet. the outcome is kind of predictable, but it doesn't really happen the way you would think it would. It's an overall sweet and funny movie (: great for girls night!

kiddogirl
kid, 12 years old
 
TEACHES YOU A LOT OF THINGS THE BEST MOVIE EVER!
Well my opinion is that this is a movie that could teach you things letting you know if you like math or something that doesn't mean you are a nerd ETC...but this is the kind of movie where in you can keep on watching it and never get tired of it!!

 
Never Been Cuter
This is a wonderful love story! I mean, the title itself makes it appropriate for teens. "Never Been Kissed" implies that a girl can become a women without kissing boys and still find true love eventually. Thats a strong and overlooked message. The movie confronts defeat, being a geek, and reinventing oneself. All of which are incredibly relevant topics to any teenager! Not to mention Drew Barrymore is adorable and an excellent role-model.

haneelynegeronimo
parent of 17 year old
 

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