Parents' Guide to Polite Society

Movie PG-13 2023 103 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Stefan Pape By Stefan Pape , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Action comedy has cinematic violence, positive female lead.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 8 parent reviews

age 14+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

POLITE SOCIETY tells the story of Ria (Priya Kansara), an aspiring stuntwoman hoping to make a name for herself on her YouTube channel. Her life is thrown upside down, however, when her greatest cheerleader, older sister Lena (Ritu Arya), meets a man. With a wedding on the horizon, Ria is convinced something untoward is happening and will do whatever it takes to uncover the truth, derail the wedding, and save her sister.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 8 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

This British action comedy-drama is one of the rare instances where you go to see a film, wholeheartedly enjoy yourself, and then afterward appreciate that what you just witnessed was truly original. Polite Society transcends genres, as a character study at its core, but sat underneath the umbrella of an impressive martial arts flick. With evident inspiration from filmmakers such as Edgar Wright, there is something slick and accomplished about this impressive turn for Nida Manzoor, who also writes the screenplay. Coming out in the same period of time as Rye Lane, this is yet another vibrant, exciting film that represents modern London, and does with so aplomb. But the real noteworthy aspect here is the young Kansara, in what can only be described as a star-making turn. She has a fight and resilience to her demeanor, and yet all the while she remains just a teenager, someone for the audience to invest in and root for. Place her in the middle of a great, compelling story, and you truly are onto a winner.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the violence in Polite Society. How did it compare to what you've seen in other action movies? Did it have more or less impact?

  • What character strengths did Ria show? Would you describe her as a positive role model? What makes a good role model?

  • Talk about the relationship between Ria and her sister, Lena. How did they support each other? Do you have any siblings? If so, how do your relationships compare?

  • Talk about the strong language in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • How was sex discussed in the film? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

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