The Stepfather (PG-13, 2009)

common sense media says

Horror remake has more tension than blood.


parents & educators say
  • 86% say violence is an issue
  • 86% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this thriller/horror remake of 1987's The Stepfather has plenty of tension, scares, and violence, though most of it is relatively bloodless. Three murders take place on screen (as well as fighting, attacks, etc.), and several other dead bodies are shown. Characters talk a lot about how families move on after divorce and loss, and there's some sensuality (a lot of kissing and skimpy swimsuits), underage drinking, and salty language. A supporting character is in a committed same-sex relationship. Also, this review is for the rated, theatrical version. There are unrated versions available. 

Positive messages: You could argue that the movie has a message about family sticking together, but any real positive content is lost amid the violence and tension.
Positive role models: Although the film features a character who stresses the importance of family above all, he happens to be a psychotic killer. On the brighter side, the teen hero is a steadfast young man trying to cope with his family's divorce and his own reactions to it.
Violence: Three bloodless murders take place on screen (the victims are thrown down stairs, suffocate, and drown). Several dead bodies, including three children, are seen in a killer's wake. Also beatings, fighting, chases, a knife attack, falls, and a stabbing with a shard of mirror to the neck, with some blood.
Sex: Some swimsuit-clad kissing and sounds of hanky-panky being initiated (implied sex). Plenty of skimpy outfits; one female character spends the majority of the film in swimwear.
Language: Some strong language, including "goddamn," "damn," "screwing," "ass," and the finger being given.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters drink beer, wine, and hard liquor. An older man offers a minor two shots of tequila in an attempt to bond. A sleeping pill is taken.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how the violence in this movie compares to bloodier horror films like the Saw series. Do the different types of violence have different impact? Is one scarier than the other?
  • What are the challenges that real families face whenmoving on after divorce and loss? Is any of what the on-screen familygoes through relatable?
  • Why do you think Hollywood is so fond of remaking horror movies? Whatmotivates them?

What's the story?

What's the story?
A remake of the same-named 1987 cult classic (starring Lost's Terry O'Quinn), THE STEPFATHER follows David (Dylan Walsh), a man who finds broken families and insinuates himself into their lives in an effort to create a perfect, loving family. Unfortunately for the families he finds, deviations from his idea of "perfection" tend to result in him killing them and moving on to try again. The movie opens as he's leaving his latest failed attempt, only to make recent divorcee Susan (Sela Ward) his next target. Six months later, he's Susan's fiancee and is being introduced to her eldest son, Michael (Penn Badgley). As David tries frantically to keep his lies and tall tales from spinning out of control, Michael gets closer and closer to the truth ... and closer and closer to danger.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

The best thing about The Stepfather remake is still the central idea about a man trying to make the perfect family via a very unusual methodology. The second best is Walsh's performance, which veers between bland affability and ice-cold fury at the flick of a switch. Director Nelson McCormick (who previously remade another '80s chiller, Prom Night, far less notably) at least knows when to get out of the way of the story and his star and let them do the work.

Unfortunately, McCormick tries to have it both ways by keeping the scares in The Stepfather low-key and predictable (for example, Michael's younger siblings are ushered off-stage for thefilm's climax, kept ata distance from the peril and bloodshed) -- as if he were hedging his own bets. Badgley and co-star Amber Heard make a nice duo of slow-to-doubt teens, and Ward anchors the film with an optimism that turns to concern as the facade of her fiancee's perfection crumbles in the light of the facts. The Stepfather isn't incompetent, grimly clueless, or actively bad -- it's just unnecessary and more than a little unimpressive in the unique light of the original.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Screen Gems
Director: Nelson McCormick
Cast: Amber Heard, Dylan Walsh, Penn Badgley
Genre: Horror
Run time: 101 minutes
Theatrical release: October 16, 2009
DVD release: February 9, 2010
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: intense sequences of violence, disturbing images, mature thematic material and brief sensuality
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 7 parent & educator reviews:
  • 86% say violence is an issue
  • 86% say sexual content is an issue
  • 57% say language is an issue
  • 43% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking

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Well it's not gory but the unrated one probably is. But I didn't like it it started off too slow. The enddings not happy but it wasn't scary to me and I'm 12 I saw orphan and I'm fine so if u like things popping out at you then go watch it!

izzielizzie9
teen, 14 years old
 

Meow314159
teen, 15 years old
 
Not the best movie, still pretty good
It was okay I guess. It's definitely not one of the best scary movies I've seen. It's basically about a guy who dates moms and then kills them and the whole family..and anyone who is suspicious of him. At the beginning there is a scene when he is drinking coffee or something like that and the family is all laying on the ground in different spots.....at first I thought they were sleeping...on the floor. I was a little off.

Plague
parent
 
The Stepfather
A fun edge-of-your-seat experience. Kiddies be warned.

silly_samsters
teen, 17 years old
 
Perfect scary movie
This movie is really good if you like scary movies. I would recommend this to people that do like scary movies

nman649
teen, 14 years old
 
Good movie, watched it on my ps3 netflix.

twilightluver7689
teen, 16 years old
 
Good Horror for Younger Teens
I've seen The Stepfather I think 5 times, and even though it's pretty predictable, I keep watching it. Some of the violence is a little disturbing and makes you feel bad for the victims, but nothing over the top. It really depends on you, if you can handle a tiny bit of gore and suspense then this is a great movie to watch for a little scare.

 
the stepfather is a scary movie good for your older teens and parents you need to know that the stepfather has a lot violence some kissing and implied sex between two young couples and there's strong language used and characters drink beer, wine, and hard liquor.

thecooldude1
teen, 16 years old
 
For pre teens!
It was so intersting how this man he met her at a store and got married in just in a few months its a great movie not alot of lauguage they use its a great movie for preteens and there friends.

Midinghtwolf
teen, 14 years old
 
OM.....It was so suspenseful. The ending REALLY creeped me out sooo much!!!!!!!!!! But if u can handle people in swim suits you will be fine. OH and some people being murdered other than that REALLY GOOD!

BellaWolf
kid, 13 years old
 
Great Movie!
I just saw it this afternoon and it gave me a good scare without being overly bloody and gory! Very fun to watch by yourself! Although the ending CREEPED ME OUT! :D

 
THE MOVIE IS CRAXY AND IT WOULD MAKE CHILDREN WANT TO THIK TWICE ABOUT THEIR STEP FATHERS BECAUSE OF THAT MOVIE...

megsoccer25
teen, 16 years old
 
okay
Predictable. Overall, not a bad movie- but nothing special. Ending is very violent. and the first scene of the movie is a dead family on christmas morning. not very pleasant....

Doodelium
kid, 13 years old
 
Pretty Good
This movie just made 4 stars for me. It was very suspenseful and eerie without being gorey. It was well made and the acting was surprisingly not terrible. I enjoyed it.

slasher23
teen, 16 years old
 
very violent.sexual content and strong bikini.some language and one middle finger

EmilyB123
teen, 15 years old
 
Pretty good movie that's rated PG-13 compared to other PG-13 horror movies that I have watched. The way the killer kills people might be disturbing to younger viewers and seeing the dead bodies. Other than that, kids 12 and up can definitely handle it.

eddie8108
parent of 18 year old
 
good movie vilent though

littlemonster98
teen, 13 years old
 
Not to bad!!
Lots of violence and bad role models!! All about child abuse not good!!!

Chinagirl123
teen, 13 years old
 
It was ok kinda predictible but I liked the movie because it was suspensfull and not too scary. I hated the ending though. Also seeing those little kids brutally murdered with their mom on christmas morning was a little over the top.

twj731
teen, 16 years old
 
Perfect first horror film, for teens looking for new releases!
Although the movie is violent, it is not anywhere near as gory and bloody as some other horror movies. Great as a first horror movie! Did have to check off the "sexual content" concern. Although there is never any sex scenes, there's still a girl in bikini and some kissing. All in all, a great movie for a teen! Not to scary!

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