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The Stepfather

(2009, Rated PG-13, Horror, Starring Dylan Walsh, Amber Heard, Penn Badgley)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 17; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Horror remake has more tension than blood.

Themes in this movie include:   family relationships

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 14–17

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    You could argue that the movie has a message about family sticking together, but any real positive content is lost amid the violence and tension.
  • Role models :

    Although the film features a character who stresses the importance of family above all, he happens to be a psychotic killer. On the brighter side, the teen hero is a steadfast young man trying to cope with his family's divorce and his own reactions to it.
  • Violence:

    Three bloodless murders take place on screen (the victims are thrown down stairs, suffocate, and drown). Several dead bodies, including three children, are seen in a killer's wake. Also beatings, fighting, chases, a knife attack, falls, and a stabbing with a shard of mirror to the neck, with some blood.
  • Sex:

    Some swimsuit-clad kissing and sounds of hanky-panky being initiated (implied sex). Plenty of skimpy outfits; one female character spends the majority of the film in swimwear.
  • Language:

    Some strong language, including "goddamn," "damn," "screwing," "ass," and the finger being given.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Characters drink beer, wine, and hard liquor. An older man offers a minor two shots of tequila in an attempt to bond. A sleeping pill is taken.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The Stepfather

Parents need to know that this thriller/horror remake of 1987's The Stepfather has plenty of tension, scares, and violence, though most of it is relatively bloodless. Three murders take place on screen (as well as fighting, attacks, etc.), and several other dead bodies are shown. Characters talk a lot about how families move on after divorce and loss, and there's some sensuality (a lot of kissing and skimpy swimsuits), underage drinking, and salty language. A supporting character is in a committed same-sex relationship.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can also talk about how the violence in this movie compares to bloodier horror films like the Saw series. Do the different types of violence have different impact? Is one scarier than the other?
  • What are the challenges that real families face when moving on after divorce and loss? Is any of what the on-screen family goes through relatable?
  • Why do you think Hollywood is so fond of remaking horror movies? What motivates them?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    I rate this title iffy for age 15 and give it 2.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    THE MOVIE IS CRAXY AND IT WOULD MAKE CHILDREN WANT TO THIK TWICE ABOUT THEIR STEP FATHERS BECAUSE OF THAT MOVIE...

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 3.0

    okay

    Predictable. Overall, not a bad movie- but nothing special. Ending is very violent. and the first scene of the movie is a dead family on christmas morning. not very pleasant....

  3. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    looking crazy

    i like this move

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    This was a lot like Disturbia (2007), but i thought it was really good. I do think the commericals give it away tho. Dead bodies are seen on the ground at begging, david cuts himself w/ his razor. someone is stabbed in the neck (not bloody), someone is pushed down stairs, someone gets a bag over there head. Some occassionaly language (d*mn, one sh*t etc.) 1 middle finger. Lots of kissing, making out. Main charactors are mainly in there bathing suits. Drinking near begining. Overall it was a pretty good thriller (last 10 mins are like a horror)

  5. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Connecticut
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 3.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content

  6. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 3.0

    Just fair.

    It was an okay movie. There wasn't any gore; only 3 people died. not to bad for 12 and up.

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