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The Grass Is Greener
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What's the Story?
In THE GRASS IS GREENER, British couple Victor (Cary Grant) and Hilary (Deborah Kerr) are struggling financially and give guided tours around their stately home to make ends meet. When American oil tycoon Charles (Robert Mitchum) introduces himself to Hilary during a tour, he quickly turns her head. Meanwhile, her friend and Victor's ex-lover, Hattie (Jean Simmons), decides to seize the opportunity for her own gain.
Is It Any Good?
Adapted from a stage play and with music and lyrics by Noel Coward, an all-star cast, and a fun, light-hearted tone, it's no surprise this often overlooked classic was nominated for two Golden Globes. At its core, The Grass Is Greener may be a fairly slight film about a wife whose head is easily turned by a rich suitor, but the flighty, devil-may-care approach to the material very much works in its favor here. There are some fun split-screen antics, lightning-sharp dialogue, and the movie retains the enjoyable character of the butler (Moray Watson), whose conscience about being surplus to requirements makes him beg for his wages to be docked, all the while living a parallel life as a tortured wannabe novelist—no doubt smarter than both of his employers—behind closed doors. All the actors give great performances, but Simmons stands out with her comedy timing and physical clowning as so-called best friend Hattie, primped and preened in immaculate dresses and devotedly clutching her pink gin as she revels in the chaos. For fans of Grant, Kerr, Mitchum, Simmonds or, indeed, director Stanley Donen (Singin' in the Rain, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers) this is a smart romantic comedy very much worth revisiting or discovering anew.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about The Grass Is Greener as a stage-to-screen adaptation. Were you aware of the play or had you seen it performed before watching the movie? Was there anything about the film that hinted it was adapted from a stage play? What might some of the challenges be in adapting material from stage to screen?
Characters showed care and kindness to each other in some situations but were disloyal and manipulative in others. Did you think this gave a realistic view of relationships, both romantic and friendships? Do you think there are grey areas in life sometimes or do you think morals are more black and white? Did you think it was right that the characters forgave each other in various ways? Why, or why not?
The movie features a lot of well-known actors. Was that an element that helped you choose to watch it? How often are you drawn to a film because of the actors involved? What other things help you to choose a movie to watch?
The movie includes some sexist and misogynist behavior. What examples can you give? How might the movie be different if it was made today?
Movie Details
- In theaters : December 23, 1960
- On DVD or streaming : September 18, 2001
- Cast : Cary Grant , Deborah Kerr , Robert Mitchum , Jean Simmons
- Director : Stanley Donen
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Writer(s)
- Studio : Universal Pictures
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : History
- Run time : 104 minutes
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- Award : Golden Globe - Golden Globe Award Nominee
- Last updated : November 11, 2025
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