Tumbleweeds (PG-13, 1999)

common sense media says

Touching look at tough mom-daughter relationship.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that although the mother portrayed in this movie can be irresponsible, viewers never doubt that she loves her daughter and wants her to be happy. Still, because of her poor decisions and erratic lifestyle, Mary Jo does cause instability and emotional trauma in her daughter's life. There also are some scenes with mild violence and sexuality, such as when a couple has a heated, potentially physical argument and when a preteen girl comes home from school to find her mother making out with a strange man. Some strong language, including "f--k" and "goddamn."

Positive messages: Although she clearly loves her daughter, an irresponsible mother continually uproots the girl in her quest to find a man, run away from her problems or both. The girl is so accustomed to her mom's dysfunctional, sometimes violent, relationships that she has learned to establish an "escape route" in her new bedroom each time they move.
Violence: The movie opens with a violent argument between a husband and wife. They yell, curse, and throw dishes at each other. The woman challenges the man to punch her; he threatens her with his fist, but hits the refrigerator instead. While having dinner at a restaurant, a man gets angry at his girlfriend's daughter, threatening to hit her with a book.
Sex: A man and woman meet at a bar and then wake up together the next morning in a motel; it's understood that they have had sex. Later, they are shown kissing passionately on the bed when the woman's daughter comes home early from school. A preteen boy and girl are shown kissing. In another scene, the girl begins menstruating; she and her mother talk about visits from her "Aunt Rosie" and goof around with sanitary napkins. Two women make gestures similar to a man masturbating and describe their boss "choking his chicken." A woman is shown in her bra. A woman teaches her preteen daughter how to kiss by practicing on an apple; she asks her daughter if she is French-kissing yet. The scene is played for laughs and illustrates a lighthearted moment between the two.
Language: Characters, including a preteen girl, use profanity such as "goddamn," "bulls--t," "asshole," "f--king," and "tits." A character shoots "the finger" at someone.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters are shown drinking alcohol. Two women drink shots at a bar. A guilt-ridden man explains that his wife died in a car accident; he was the driver, and he had drunk too much alcohol at a party. A young girl uses an inhaler for her asthma; her friend tries out the inhaler on one occasion.

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Talk to your kids
Families can talk about how Mary Jo and Ava have reversed their roles as mother and daughter. Which scenes illustrate this role reversal? Overall, how have today's children become more precocious and increasingly aware of issues such as sexuality and violence thanks to the influence of the Internet and other media sources?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Mary Jo (Janet McTeer) is a free-spirited, flighty woman who careens from one bad relationship to the next. Each time she moves on to a new man and new town, she uproots her preteen daughter, Ava (Kimberly J. Brown). This time, the two land in San Diego, where Mary Jo finds a job as a file clerk and hooks up with a trucker named Jack (director Gavin O'Connor). Ava thrives in San Diego, where she makes a best friend, auditions for the school play, and goes on her first date. Mary Jo also finds her niche, making friends and getting a dream job at a garden center. But when her fling with Jack sours, she is tempted to run away again. Try as she might to treat their nomadic existence as an adventure, Mary Jo can't deny that her daughter is yearning for stability.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

 

McTeer instills her character with an earthy, Southern-fried sexiness. She's obviously had a hardscrabble life, but it hasn't robbed her of optimism or whimsy. As Ava, Brown deftly handles her role as a typical preadolescent who loves being silly but who must also serve as the voice of reason for her charmingly irresponsible mother. Their moments together seem genuine and are the highlights of the film, whether they're rehearsing lines from Ava's school play or singing the fitting song "Que Sera Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be)" as they drive toward a new life.


Their relationship is the heart of the movie, although the supporting cast is great, including Jay O. Sanders as Dan, a sweet and sensitive co-worker who is haunted by his past; Laurel Holloman as Laurie, Mary Jo's friend and hangout buddy; and O'Connor, who brings some depth (insecurity, self-consciousness) to his portrayal of the macho, controlling Dan. Families will enjoy watching Mary Jo "grow up" as Ava finally gets a chance to be a real kid.

 

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: New Line
Cast: Janet McTeer, Jay O. Sanders, Kimberly J. Brown
Genre: Drama
Run time: 103 minutes
Theatrical release: January 24, 1999
DVD release: November 24, 2000
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: language, sensuality and a scene of domestic discord

This review was written by Teresa Talerico
 
 

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FosterFan
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You really can't miss this one!
Janet McTeer & Kimberly J. Brown are wonderful as Mary Jo and her daughter Ava. Yes, there's kissing, snogging, bras & even a little swearing. But all of that comes off as nothing when both of them are together.

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