Unfaithful (R, 2002)

common sense media says

Not for kids, but some adults will like it.


parents & educators say
  • 50% say sexual content is an issue
  • 50% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie contains a number of elements that may be upsetting to children. The theme of infidelity runs through the movie, and it creates some tense scenes of home life. Connie's seduction is quite overwhelming, and the sex scenes are intense and graphic. There is also one pretty violent scene.

Positive messages: Not applicable.
Violence: One graphic violent confrontation.
Sex: Intense and graphic sex scenes; adultery.
Language: Strong language.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Drinking and smoking.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about the title. The film is symmetrical -- the wife is unfaithful in the first half, the husband in the second. To whom is the husband unfaithful? What "happens" in their final conversation? What is forgivable?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Based on Claude Chabrol's La Femme Infidel, this story of obsession, betrayal, and jealousy centers on happily married Edward (Richard Gere) and Connie (Diane Lane, who seem to have everything until the wife is drawn into an affair. After a chance encounter with Paul (Oliver Martinez), Connie finds she can't stay away from the seductive Frenchman. At home, Edward knows something is wrong. As his wife primps in private and shies away from his advances, his suspicions mount. Finally, after Connie is spotted in a restaurant with Paul, he cannot avoid the truth. A private detective produces all the details, and Edward goes, broken-hearted, to the apartment of his rival.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
Adults may consider Unfaithful a worthwhile portrayal of emotional suspense, told with director Adrian Lyne's characteristic visual flair. But it's not for kids -- it's a shocker. None of the plot elements are novel, but the seduction is handled very smoothly, without a lot of the emotional short-hand that would leave the story hollow. In fact, the strength of this film is its very down to earth emotional perceptiveness.

 

The movie makes us constantly aware of the currents of affection that run between the characters, yet the best scene in the film is the confrontation. Neither knows exactly what to do, and it's in this strange emotional limbo that a tragic choice is made.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Twentieth Century Fox
Director: Adrian Lyne
Cast: Diane Lane, Olivier Martinez, Richard Gere
Genre: Thriller
Run time: 124 minutes
Theatrical release: May 10, 2002
DVD release: May 20, 2003
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: sexuality, language, and violence

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 4 parent & educator reviews:
  • 50% say sexual content is an issue
  • 50% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

willowfaierie
educator and parent of 11 year old
 
FAMILY FRIENDLY MOVIE FOR EVERYONE!
GREAT MOVIE IT TEACHES KIDS TO BE FAITHFUL IN WHO THEY ARE I LOVE THIS! IT IS AWESOME FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY, AND WHOLESOME! DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO THE RATINGS, IT'S GREAT FUN FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY! NO SEX OR STRONG VIOLENCE, AND SOME CUSSING (NOT BEYOND "D**N") IT IS THE BEST MOVIE EVER! :) :) :) :) :)

QueenNisey
parent of 4 year old
 

cowboygeek
parent of 6 and 16 year old
 
There is nothing in this film for kids, and why you'd watch if you aren't married, I don't know. It's a warning film. This struck me in much the same way as reading (not watching the file) The World According To Garp. It is shocking how quickly things unravel because the marriage was not vigilantly guarded and nurtured.

 
glorified porn movie is all this one is
this is a glorified porn movie without the porn rating. one sex scene after the other. one violent scene were the husband kills the lover. very coarse language the F word is used quite frequently. I wouldnt advise this movie for anyone under 17

bleh34
kid, 12 years old
 
good movie

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