Jon & Kate Plus 8 (TLC)

common sense media says

Twins and sextuplets keep real-life parents hopping.


parents & educators say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that because the 2009 season of this reality show brings infidelity and divorce front and center, we increased our recommended age. The accusations and their consequences have spawned a media frenzy, with each parent looking terrible. Otherwise, the show remains focused on how the parents (especially mom Kate) often respond to chaos-imposed stress by bickering and picking at each other. While adult viewers will probably empathize with their tense emotions, young kids may not understand the context of the heated comments and could be upset by them -- especially since infidelity is a subject that kids under 12 won't be able to grasp, and divorce is one that is likely to upset them. Even then, this show is best reserved for older viewers.

Positive messages: The series aims to show how two dedicated parents cope with the daily demands of such a large family -- but they often respond to stress by arguing and picking on each other. In the 2009 season, infidelity and divorce become major issues.
Positive role models: Varies depending on the season. Both Gosselin parents started out being clearly devoted to their kids and committed to each other. But over the course of the show, as their marriage deterioriated, things changed a lot, and both adults often ended up looking more childish than their kids.
Violence: Nothing physical, but plenty of verbal sparring.
Sex: Brief mention of the fertility treatments that resulted in the Gosselins' two sets of multiples. Jon is accused of infidelity.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Adults occasionally drink wine when they're enjoying a kid-free dinner out.

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  • We recommend that parents who do let their kids see this show talk about the issues is raises and inject their wisdom and experience into the scenes the show portrays.

What's the story?

What's the story?
Jon and Kate Gosselin and their boisterous brood -- twins Cara and Mady and sextuplets Hannah, Alexis, Leah, Collin, Joel, and Aaden -- have spawned a mini-industry of "multiples" reality shows. The early episodes proved that when it comes to managing a hectic family life, where there's a will, there's always a way. But the 2009 season polarizes the parents' relationship with accusations of infidelity and a fall-out that includes filing for divorce. While the bulk of what you'll see will still revolve around birthday parties and seasonal outings, the series does somewhat exploit the daily ups and downs of life with two energetic sets of multiples. Expect to see plenty of footage of the physical and emotional challenges of balancing the children's individual needs with the struggle for harmony at home.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
We can't imagine why kids would want to see this show. But we can see how parents might get some enjoyment out of it, since they can relate to many of the issues Jon and Kate face (if on a slightly smaller scale). But some parents may be turned off by the frequently snide comments that Kate makes about Jon, both in his presence and out of it. ("He takes longer to get ready than I do, and that's really irritating," or "Can you please help me instead of playing with toys?") Her seeming negativity, while understandable in her situation, often becomes the focal point of the show, and young viewers won't fully understand the stresses that lead the adults to talk to and about each other the way they do.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-PG
Network: TLC
Cast: Jon Gosselin, Kate Gosselin
Genre: Reality TV
Where to watch: TLC

This review was written by Emily Ashby
 
 

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AlinaW.
teen, 16 years old
 
Good -> Bad
Honestly, three years ago, I loved this show. It was my reality show that I watched every Monday, and the episodes were epsecially good around the time where each kid got their "special day" out with Jon or Kate. It was even kind of funny to watch Kate pick on Jon and the kids mildly, and to be thankful my parents aren't like that . . And then . . . It got worse. Way worse. The parents were picking on each other and the kids, and then divorce and cheating came into the picture . . . Honestly, I would watch it again for an episode if it ever came on again just to see what's happened to it, but no more then that. It just kind of stinks now.

SilverSnake
teen, 15 years old
 
That's SugarCoated Child Abuse
Jon is an idiot, Kate is a little fame wanting, and the kids are victoms. Like others said, this isnt right for the kids, the parents pretty much chose their lives for them, to be famous, always to be famous. I dont want to give this show credit, I'm sorry, but I care more about the kids than me being intertaned. Fame breaks up families and ends up making the parents think they're above it all. People incourage the bad behavior too. What kind of life is being horded by camera crews? The kids are going to go crazy, the mom's already there. Even if I gave birth to 8 kids and survived, I wouldnt put it on TV. No matter how much it pays, money isnt worth throwing away the kids happiness. Attention loving snobs...

Meow314159
teen, 15 years old
 
Poor kids
This whole cheating thing is not fair to the kids. I mean, they started out like a good, devoted family. Now it seems like neither parent wants responsibility of the kids, it's almost like "Oh, he/she cheated. I want a refund." That sounds weird but that's how I think of it.

beybi
parent of 6 year old
 
ana
obozavam you have excellent

tailsroxz
teen, 14 years old
 
poor show
i loved the show when it was about the kids but it slowly got wose

altec
adult
 
So sick of this show..
I'm sick of it. everytime this is on I'll change my channel right away. I don't know why TLC is keeping this program.. So sick of it..Please take it off..


kid, 12 years old
 


teen, 14 years old
 


kid, 11 years old
 

 
One thing I must say first. This site rates consumerism as a non-issue. Excuse me, but have you ever watched this program, I mean EVER? It is absolutely impossible to miss the MANY (at least 20) episodes that were essentially commercials – 'The Tale of Despereaux' (it really was a wonderful movie with a rich plot and positive messages for kids), crooked houses and some cottage playhouse to name a few. They have received umpteen free tickets to places like baseball games, shows and an aquarium including special "backstage" activities (and gifts) only they get to experience. We also can’t forget the numerous vacations (the sextuples will probably not even remember) to places like Disney world, ski resorts, beach houses and of course the free $$$$ Hawaii wedding are featured. In addition, they also get tons of free stuff from the plates that they eat off to the matching designer clothes that kids always wear. This is especially glaring, because the show was tagged for drinking. It’s ridiculous to think drinking wine with dinner is an issue, THIS IS NORMAL, demonizing it wrong. There are WAY to many other things to point out as being inappropriate to worry about that. I have watched it from the beginning and LOVE it. I will continue watch, even if I know shouldn’t. However, at the same time, I feel it is completely inappropriate for kids to be watching. I cringe when I hear that parent watch this with say their 8 year old kids. What are you thinking? There is nothing for a child to gain by watching this. What is portrayed as reality is often fiction. Adults SHOULD know this, but kids don’t. Try explaining to your kids why the Jon and Kate had a huge wedding and told their kids over and over (dozens of times) “mommy and daddy will always be together,” then got a divorce less than two years later. Message sent – parents are liars. As much as I love this show, and don’t like to judge, I find it inconceivable that they knew (they defiantly did know) that their marriage was in trouble, but chose to re-do the wedding for the free vacation. In fact, I hate when others judge, especially when they criticize poor 8 year old Maddy – just think about this child reading your comments someday folks, would you want someone do that to your kid? Yes, I know they are not TV, but that is NOT THEIR CHOICE, it’s their parents. Even if you don’t care what your kids watch, if not for to protect them, then to protect the children that appear on it. If it were your children on the show, would you really the parents of kid next door watching last night’s episode where their friend had a tantrum. Or, perhaps letting them watch a rerun where their friend (choose one of the sextuples) was potty training. Who in the hell thinks it’s appropriate to let your kids watch the neighbors child being potty trained? I know there are only a few kids that have contact (attend school) with the twins, but I just think it is morally wrong for the parents of the few who do, to discuss the details of TV kids lives and set them up to be teased. It doesn’t matter that your own kid doesn’t know any of the eight kids on TV, it’s the premise. Again, this is fine for an adult, but not a kid – 16 and up, at least!

michaelar@cabl ...
educator and parent of and 18 , 21 , 24 year old
 
Jon and Kate plus 8
If they were in it for kids, they would get help. See Dr Phil. I think money and fame has gotten to Kate. The kids will be the ones who suffer. I'll be surpised if the show has another season. After last nights preview, I think alot of people will be turned off.

Katilyn
adult
 
I love this show.
I'm 17, and I watch this show every time it's on, even search it on YouTube and watch re-runs.. Yes, their life is hectic, who's wouldn't be when you have that many kids? Do I support what the publicity is doing? NO! I think that now that they can't pick on Britney Spears anymore, they're going for these people.. and sorry to say, but Jon & Kate were perfectly happy with eachother, even admitted numerous times that through everything, They STILL love eachother.. there's families out there with just ONE kid who can't admit that.. I recommend anyone watch this show, it shows you alot of stuff, and even though I'm only 17 and have no children, or a husband yet, I'm still learning quite alot of stuff from it.

mpearmai
kid, 12 years old
 
Not good
Ugh!

pawprints666666
kid, 12 years old
 
Uhh... it used to be good.
It's a great show, but has a lot of BAD MEASSAGES. Kate is stressed at all times, the kids have terrible behavior MOST OF THE TIME, and Kate also gets the kids all excited because "they" are getting two dogs, when really she is the one who is picking them and naming them, because she doesn't want her dogs to be called dumb names like "Googoo" or something like that. Papparazzi is everywhere on the show and out and everything's about the divorce now. It used to be a great show. But it is enteraining at some parts, i guess.

Aunt Marie
parent of 10 year old
 
Great for young women who THINK they're ready for kids.
I stopped watching when the little kids were being potty trained because of the way Kate made this so public and embarrassing for the kids. This show is VERY EDUCATIONAL for teenagers, especially girls, who think that marriage and children are fun and easy. I wouldn't trade places with Kate or the kids for $50,000,000! I hope that TLC cancels the show now and that Kate has saved enough money for the kids' therapy. They can work their way through college like many other Americans.

evrine
adult
 
It show use to be a decent, I personally started to tune somewhere in the 4th season since it seemed to become more of commercial of the thinking that the family got given to them. That was already there before, but by season 4 that show was almost an infomercial. The Gosselins seemed to get lost in that somewhere I didn't enjoy watch the show. What little I have seen since this commotion happen looks like they are know using it to get people interested in them, then claiming they asked for none of this. They placed themselves on TV so they didn't say no. I didn't think from what I've seen that it show is appropriate for younger children anymore. Not because of the divorce (that happens in real life), not because Jon seemed to cheat on Kate (that happens in real life), but because the hold situation they are in seemed confusing and played up for TV. I don't think the show is or has been for sometime a a true representation of what they what to claim it is, an average family but with twins & sextuplets. It was most like always going to end up like it is in one way or the other, a celebrity reality show, and they're never a realistic view on life and never appropriate for children.

BieberFreakinFever
teen, 14 years old
 
Cool
John And Kate Plus 8 gives you a great look into what it is like raising 8 kids at ounce. The show is fun, entertaining, and somewhat interesting to watch. I love it.

vidman1970
parent of 7 and 10 year old
 
The whole story around the divorce and various stories on the internet where people comment on the story lines. I think that Kate needs alot of counseling to get over the whole affair and to remove the bitterness she has in her. She is overly critical of the kids and of jon. She does not show any true affection but wants to show perfection in front of the cameras. All she wants it seems is to collect a paycheck while the kids do the work. Mean while jon needs to grow a backbone and stand his ground on certain issues and not allow kate to be so judgemental of all those around her when she is by far perfect. This show in general does not appropriately show what a real family is like

hippytreehugge ...
parent of 5 year old
 
Complete and utter drivel from a couple of uncaring parents that are about as likeable as a cantankorous hemeroid.

mustlovedogs500
teen, 13 years old
 
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
Bad! Bad! Bad! Terrible Role models for kids! Jon cheated on Kate! And Kate is psyco, and hits her kids, and worries more about making money than her family's needs. Don't lety your kids watch this! Please!

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