Parents need to know that this reality series -- which follows couples in crisis as they attend a nontraditional marriage-counseling boot camp -- focuses on healing and problem solving and isn't intended to be exploitative. But watching the couples as they discuss (and argue over) everything from infidelity and domestic violence to porn addiction and substance abuse definitely has some voyeuristic qualities.
Positive messages:The series is voyeuristic, but it focuses on helping people learn ways to improve their marriage. Neither Carroll or Bishop are medical doctors or licensed therapists. Most of the featured therapeutic exercises are nontraditional. The show brings up a variety of marital problems (infidelity, anger management, etc.) but focuses mostly on how to resolve and get past these issues. The leaders and the majority of camp participants are Caucasian.
Violence:Frequent arguments between spouses. Some have a history of domestic violence. Some discussion about military veterans coping after returning from Iraq.
Sex:Discussions about infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, and pornography.
Language:Language includes words like "damn" and "hell."
Consumerism:The series promotes the Marriage Camp Program.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking:Some episodes discuss the negative impact of drug and alcohol abuse on marriage.
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I wasn't surprised to see Dr. Phil's name in the biographies of the people running Marriage Boot Camp. This is nothing more than a watered down EST or Landmark Forum for troubled married couples. Non-professionals (therefore no accountability nor skill) are exploiting these vulnerable people. I would like to see TLC, one of my favorite channels, drop this from their listings.
Shady people taking advantage of vulnerable people
Reading the biographies of the program facilitators, it was not surprising to see Dr. Phil's name come up - and Thelma Box's. What disturbs me is the self-disclosure of painful experiences on the part of boot camp participants. This is straight out of the old EST and Landmark Education large group awareness training programs. Dr. Phil copied his own program after these back in the 80s.
Forced emotional breakdowns do not mean there will be a transformation. Much of the "emotion" felt during these public self-disclosures have little to do with healing and a lot to do with manipulation. I'm disappointed that TLC fell for this.
Finally a reality show that follows real people going through a real situation. The show is the Boot Camp and not a made for TV series. I found myself tearing up and laughing during the show. But I also learned some cool things to apply towards my marriage.
As one of the director's of the Marriage Boot Camp, I can say that the content of the Marriage Camp is not for children. Emmett Beam conducts a related program called, Teen Boot Camp, and he deletes the games and drill related to life and death decisions. Children are not ready for this and should not be exposed to some of the circumstances.
I love the non-traditional approach to counseling in this show. I worry that the directors are not qualified, but it appears that the couples find the solutions they want. I found myself wrapped up in their issues and more involved than a normal reality show. I'm not sure it would be good for kids to watch.