Bill My Parents (http://www.billmyparents.com)

common sense media says

Site institutionalizes "the gimmes" but allows veto power.


parents & educators say
  • 40% say there are positive messages
  • 40% say it's educational

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this site allows kids to charge purchases on pre-selected sites to the credit cards of their parents, grandparents, and other adults in their life who sign up for this service. The site is free to sign up with but charges 50 cents per Internet shopping cart transaction.

Educational value: This site offers no educational primer for smart spending and saving tips, for establishing good credit scores or for any other personal finance education lessons that would work well here for teens who do sign up for this service.
Positive messages: Internet shopping at will, only to be approved or vetoed by parents after the fact, may not be the best way to teach teens smart money management.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Not applicable.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: This site puts forth the idea that a teen can request that their parents, as well as other adult relatives and friends sign up their credit cards here so that the teen can shop with their money. Credit card use and Internet spending are promoted, yet many teens aren't prepared to handle credit cards in any capacity, including one with veto power.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about smart use of credit cards, budgets, and forethought in purchases. Talk with your teen about your family's policies when it comes to online shopping and credit cards. If your teen registers for this site, discuss what other adults in their life -- grandparents, aunts, uncles, adult friends -- you  approve of them approaching about signing up their card, which could be a rude, presumptious, or downright dangerous proposition if not handled properly.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
There might be a good application of this site, because it keeps the actual credit card number out of the hands of the teen, and monitors the purchases before they are officially charged. In practice, however, the mental and emotional hit a teen may get from just going through the process of making the purchase online and the subsequent headache the parent will get from having to say no will likely be more of a hassle than a help. Perhaps for college kids who are away at school, this might prove to be an efficient means for parents to keep tabs on expenditures -- and may be easier to say no from afar.

This review was written by Dana Villamagna
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 5 parent & educator reviews:
  • 40% say there are positive messages
  • 40% say it's educational

Most useful reviews by all members

seagulledge
parent of 15 year old
 
The site essentially works like a "Wish List" for kids to pick what they want to buy online, like for their birthday, and then the parent decides what to pay for. The parent also does not have to give their payment information to each site that the child wants to buy stuff from. Similar to paypal they can keep their credit card info secure for use on just one site.

Jeffery Reed Jr
teen, 14 years old
 
love it
love it

 
Good idea gone wrong!
I too loved the concept behind this company and its website but needed to cancel my main card that it drawled from. That's when I realized that the website won't let you change anything. I couldn't change bank account, addresses or cancel the card itself or better yet the actual account. Also there isn't a email address under contact us that will get you to a customer service person. Now I just feel trapped. Parents be careful...I still haven't been able to close this account. I have found a better way threw our chase bank for my 15 yr old son.

 
Love the prepaid card idea. Finally some freedom to spend my money on what I want without having to ask my parents for their credit card. I love the Myplash card I have which is similar to the Bill My Parents system they have going on. Love it!

theroosterfana ...
kid, 13 years old
 
A Middle School Essential
I am going into seventh grade and the whole family thinks the prepaid card (they now have an option!) is the perfect transition from the weekly treat system

JP37
parent
 
Love it!!!!
I got cards for my kids.. love it!!!!

promom29
parent
 
BillMyParents Cards Rock!
I think BillMyParents is an awesome sight because it really does help with the teenagers spending money. I have three teens at home and they all have a card. I put $25 on it a month and they know thats all they get, unless they are going out of town for some reason. The teenager that knows how to do it the best is 14 years old. My others are 13 and 16. This card is great. It is so much better than a bank card on it to. The kids love it because over the holidays, there aunts and uncles can put money on to it instead of getting them actual gifts. I totally reccommend it.

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