Guía para padres sobre The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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edad 15+

Powerful coming-of-age novel has sex, drugs, suicide, abuse.

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Lo que las familias necesitan saber

¿Por qué para niños de 15 en adelante?

¿Algún contenido positivo?

Reseñas de padres e hijos

edad 14+

Based on 17 padres reviews

Parents say that the book addresses intense and mature themes, including sex, drug use, and suicide, prompting mixed reactions about its appropriateness for young readers; while some see it as a touching and relatable portrayal of teenage struggles, others argue against its suitability for younger audiences due to its heavy content. Many appreciate its emotional depth and ability to resonate with teens, but there are concerns regarding its potential impact on younger readers who may not be ready for such topics.

  • mature themes
  • emotional depth
  • relatable struggles
  • parental concerns
  • age appropriateness
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edad 14+

Based on 143 niños reviews

Kids say this is an impactful book that tackles heavy themes such as mental health, abuse, and the difficulties of adolescence, but it may not be suitable for younger readers due to its mature content. While many found it relatable and beautifully written, others expressed concerns about its explicit themes, recommending it only for those who are emotionally mature enough to engage with its challenging subject matter.

  • impactful themes
  • maturity required
  • emotional connection
  • relatable characters
  • critical discussions
  • heavy content
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¿De qué trata la historia?

In THE PERKS OF BEING A WALLFLOWER, smart misfit Charlie is trying to learn to "participate" more in life following the sudden suicide of his friend. He befriends a couple of older kids, Sam and Patrick, who introduce him to partying but also respect his sensitivity and accept him for his differences. In letters that Charlie writes to an anonymous stranger, he talks about his family, his friends, and his complicated, often overwhelming, feelings about growing up. Eventually, Sam tells him that he "can't just sit there and put everybody's life ahead of yours and think that counts as love," and he slowly learns to step out from the sidelines.

¿Vale la pena?

Nuestra reseña:
Los padres dicen ( 17 ):
Los niños dicen ( 143 ):

This powerful coming-of-age story was hugely popular when it was published in the late 1990s, but some elements haven't aged well. The Perks of Being a Wallflower portrays a complex vision of teen life, but there's a clunkiness that comes with its desire to cover too many trauma-related topics. Charlie is a 15-year-old drawn into an older friendship group, where he's underage for much of the drinking, drugs, and sexual activity that takes place. He's a likable character—at once sensitive and vulnerable, empathetic and kind. But the picture of the rebellious outsiders he hangs out with feels dated and idealistic—the cult music they listen to and books they read feel like basic, stereotypical ways of portraying them as "outcasts." There's lots of mature content here, from sexual material to Charlie's repressed memories of being abused; parents may want to read the book before or along with their teens so they can help with any questions or difficult emotions that come up.

Las familias pueden hablar sobre ...

  • Families can talk about what some people might find controversial about The Perks of Being a Wallflower. It was the 10th most challenged book on the American Library Association's list of the 100 most banned or challenged books of 2000–2009. Who should be able to make the decision about what you read or what's in your school or public library?

  • Discuss the structure of the book. What impact does it have telling the story through Charlie's letters to an anonymous friend? How does it help get to know the character?

  • What are some of the things that stop Charlie from participating in life? Why does he hold back? Have you ever felt like you're on the sidelines? What are some things you might do to live life more fully?

  • Discuss Charlie's friendship with Sam and Patrick. Why is friendship important? In what ways are the two good and bad influences? Who else influences his behavior? What does he learn during the story, and how do his outlook and behavior change?

  • Have you seen the 2012 movie adaptation? If so, how does it compare? If not, does reading the book make you want to watch it? Why, or why not?

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¿Nos faltó algo sobre diversidad?

Las investigaciones muestran que hay una relación entre la autoestima de los niños y las representaciones positivas en los medios de comunicación. Es por eso que hemos añadido una nueva sección de “Representaciones diversas” a nuestras reseñas, que se implementará de forma continua. Puedes apoyarnos a ayudar a los niños al

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