The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

  • Review Date: November 4, 2008
  • PG-13
  • Genre: Drama
  • 2008
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Holocaust drama sensitive, but never sentimental.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this intense World War II-set drama follows a young boy whose father, a German officer, has moved the entire family close to his new assignment -- running a death camp dedicated to the mass extermination and murder of Jewish prisoners. The boy befriends a prisoner on the other side of the wire even as his teachers and parents explain to him about how "the Jew" is the enemy. Given the subject matter, the film -- which culminates in a room full of people being killed with poison gas -- could be difficult to watch for viewers of any age. There's also some drinking and smoking and concentration camp violence.

  • Extensive discussion of the German attitude toward and treatment of Jewish prisoners during World War II, including deliberate, dehumanizing language. Discussion of anti-Semitic philosophies and ideas. Discussions of duty to one's country and race.
  • Guards brandish guns; prisoners are threatened with guns, clubs, and dogs. A beating is administered off screen. Discussion of a supporting character dying during an English bombing raid. The mechanisms of mass extermination are seen in action, including a sensitively shot yet still devastating sequence in which a room crammed with concentration-camp prisoners is gassed.
  • Affection between a long-married couple; non-sexual, waist-up male nudity as concentration camp prisoners strip for a "shower."
  • One non-sexual use of "f---ing" extensive use of "Jew" as an epithet.
  • A Mercedes logo is visible on the hood of a car.
  • Characters drink hard liquor, champagne, and wine and smoke cigarettes and cigars (accurate for the time period).

What's the story?

Bruno (Asa Butterfield) is a young boy growing up in Berlin with his sister, mother (Vera Farmiga), and father (David Thewlis) -- but that all changes when his father gets a new post in the country. From his window, Bruno can now see people toiling at the distant facility where his father works -- farmers, as near as he can tell, tending a garden, and all wearing "striped pajamas." We soon understand what Bruno does not -- that his father's new post is at a death camp dedicated to the extermination of Jewish prisoners. Sneaking out of the family's house and through the back woods to the camp, Bruno meets a young boy, Shmuel (Jack Scanlon), and the two become friends -- as Bruno comes to understand why Shmuel is on the other side of the wire.


Is it any good?

 

THE BOY IN THE STRIPED PAJAMAS, based on John Boyne's novel, is a quietly effective, tastefully crafted, and ultimately devastating portrait of the Holocaust as seen through one boy's eyes. Directed by Mark Herman (Hope Springs, Little Voice), The Boy in the Striped Pajamas pulls off a hard-to-imagine balance between the innocence and optimism of children and the evil and darkness of modern history's greatest crime. As Bruno, Butterfield is on-screen in almost every scene, and viewers see the world through his eyes -- as well as his confusion as he comes to truly see the world. "We're not supposed to be friends, you and me," Bruno notes to Shmuel through electrified barbed wire. "We're supposed to be enemies." Bruno can't understand what's going on; what The Boy in the Striped Pajamas shows us is how the grown-ups in Bruno's life (played superbly by Farmiga and Thewlis) are just as capable of deluding themselves about what's really going on at the camp.

At the same time, Bruno isn't a cardboard innocent; he acts selfishly, speaks unthinkingly, and betrays Shmuel in a moment of fear. Herman's direction is never sentimental and yet always sensitive, thoughtful but never flashy, and acutely aware of the dramatic and moral stakes on the table. We only see the mechanisms of mass extermination in one scene; the rest of the film just hints and suggests what's really going on at the camp (which, while unnamed, is clearly Auschwitz) -- which in many ways is more terrifying than more explicit scenes. When Farmiga's character recoils at a rank plume of smoke coming from the camp's chimneys, a young officer smirks: "They smell even worse when they burn, don't they?" and Farmiga's face collapses under the weight of realization; she had no idea. The Boy in the Striped Pajamas builds to a brutal, haunting finale that doesn't let innocence, love, or friendship save the day and sticks with you long after the credits have rolled.


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  • Families can talk about what teens know about the Holocaust. What upset them in the movie? Why?

  • Ask your kids whether they think people can be good and evil at the
    same time. Then you can go into the discussion of how the Holocaust was
    kept secret. Was it actually hidden, or did people know and simply look
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This review was written by James Rocchi
Teen, 14 years old
December 12, 2009
 
one of the best holocoast movies in history!
this movie is one of the best holocoast movies in history! It tells a very unique story about 2 boys one german one jewish who are put together as friends but are seperated by a barbed wire fence. The fence isnt the only thing that seperates them Religion, nazies, the war that all seperates them as well. But there is one important thing that unites them: HOPE and of course friendship. During there adventure together there friendship grows stronger until nothing can seperate them. I recomend this to kids 12+.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 18, 2009
 
see it no matter what. sad.
O MY GOD. this movie broke my heart. I was ballling. still am. Great movie, but if you hate sad movies like me, then don't watch it. :(((((((((((((((((((((((((((( omg im crying. its a great movie you have to see it though.

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Teen, 14 years old
March 30, 2009
 
Bring a tissue when you see this movie
It is incredibly sad!!! There are two young boys who were meant to be enemy's became best freinds 'till life's end! Bruno an naive little boy who did not know he was a Nazis and Shmuel an intelligent little Jewish boy. Bruno makes a daring trip to Shmuel's side of the fence and he tells Shmuel "You are my best friend, my best friend for life" and that was true they were friends until life's end.

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Kid, 11 years old
July 6, 2009
 
HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO CRUEL?
this was a very good movie but the story.... the story is sad. When the movie ended and the credits roled down i was already crying my eyes out. When i showed my younger 9 year old cousin the trailer for this movie she just didnt understand what the boy behind the fence was going through and treated it like a joke. But if she had sene the movie she would have sene how cruel pepole can be and that the holocaust was no laughing matter. What happened to these boys was OUTRAGING AND TERRIBLY SAD. If your child is 11 years or younger in age have them read the book before they watch this movie.After i watched this movie i asked myself one question.... HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO CRUEL?! but i never got an answer.

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Teen, 15 years old
March 26, 2010
 
Best friends for life. . . and after life.
I thought it was SO sad. . . . I wished that the ending was differen't, but that's what happened. . . I think people should watch this. . I know it's very sad, but that's what happened back then. People need to see these things to make sure it will never happen again. Believe me, I wished none of them got gased. . I don't care if they're jew, gypsy, white, black, hispanic. . . or anything else, I would have never stooped to putting inoccent people in consintration camps. . . I think it is so sweet how those boys became best friends, dispite differences. Sometimes it takes a child to show a grown-up how foolish they are. To think, the leader of that death camp's own son died. . BECAUSE of the death camp, because of the nazis, and because of him. I'm crying typing this, so I will stop for now. But I believe people should watch it, but at least 12 and over.

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Parent of 16 year old
May 21, 2009
 
how wonderful a movie!
this is a very good movie I wish there was no bad language though.

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Teen, 15 years old
May 4, 2010
 
Wow, yet still people laugh about Jews. . . .
All I can say is, I'm so sorry. . It was an amazing movie and book, I cried at the end of both of them. What would I have done to save all of them. Anything. I would have done anything. Next time I see anyone with a Nazi sign at school, I take it, I burn it. Unless its on their skin, then I'll rub it off their skin. They have no clue what it means, they think, but not really KNOW. Never EVER like the Nazi's, not after what they did.

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Teen, 15 years old
August 11, 2009
 
Shocking and Brutal at the Climax: But a Must-See
When I went to see this with my school as an eleven year old, I was terrified. I've seen a great deal of horror movies, but this shocked me to the core. The climax at the end reduced me and several other kids in my class to tears. However, I would say it's a must-watch as issues so sensitive need to shown rather than ignored.

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Adult
March 29, 2009
 
Powerful film, a must see!!
This film is powerful! I wasn't expecting it to be as good as it was. The story is heart breaking and the ending is quite shocking. It will stick with you for many days after watching! The acting is amazing especially coming from the child actors. Definitely a must watch for 17's and up, but appropriate for mature minded tweens. I will watch this one again!!

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Teen, 15 years old
April 14, 2011
 
There is no use of "f---ing". Everything is offscreen. It's a very, very non-explicit and a film people should watch. The ending isn't explicit, but NOT FOR KIDS!!

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This review was written by James Rocchi
Studio:Miramax
Director:Mark Herman
Cast:Asa Butterfield, David Thewlis, Vera Farmiga
Genre:Drama
Run time:95 minutes
Theatrical release date:November 7, 2008
DVD release date:March 10, 2009
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:some mature thematic material involving the Holocaust

This review was written by James Rocchi
 

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