The Boy in the Striped Pajamas (PG-13, 2008)

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Holocaust drama sensitive, but never sentimental.


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  • 61% say violence is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this intense World War II-set drama follows a young boy whose father, a German officer, has moved the entire family close to his new assignment -- running a death camp dedicated to the mass extermination and murder of Jewish prisoners. The boy befriends a prisoner on the other side of the wire even as his teachers and parents explain to him about how "the Jew" is the enemy. Given the subject matter, the film -- which culminates in a room full of people being killed with poison gas -- could be difficult to watch for viewers of any age. There's also some drinking and smoking and concentration camp violence.

Positive messages: Extensive discussion of the German attitude toward and treatment of Jewish prisoners during World War II, including deliberate, dehumanizing language. Discussion of anti-Semitic philosophies and ideas. Discussions of duty to one's country and race.
Violence: Guards brandish guns; prisoners are threatened with guns, clubs, and dogs. A beating is administered off screen. Discussion of a supporting character dying during an English bombing raid. The mechanisms of mass extermination are seen in action, including a sensitively shot yet still devastating sequence in which a room crammed with concentration-camp prisoners is gassed.
Sex: Affection between a long-married couple; non-sexual, waist-up male nudity as concentration camp prisoners strip for a "shower."
Language: One non-sexual use of "f---ing" extensive use of "Jew" as an epithet.
Consumerism: A Mercedes logo is visible on the hood of a car.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters drink hard liquor, champagne, and wine and smoke cigarettes and cigars (accurate for the time period).

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about what teens know about the Holocaust. What upset them in the movie? Why?
  • Ask your kids whether they think people can be good and evil at the same time. Then you can go into the discussion of how the Holocaust was kept secret. Was it actually hidden, or did people know and simply look the other way?
  • Families can also discuss what keeps drawing filmmakers and audiences to this subject material.

What's the story?

What's the story?
Bruno (Asa Butterfield) is a young boy growing up in Berlin with his sister, mother (Vera Farmiga), and father (David Thewlis) -- but that all changes when his father gets a new post in the country. From his window, Bruno can now see people toiling at the distant facility where his father works -- farmers, as near as he can tell, tending a garden, and all wearing "striped pajamas." We soon understand what Bruno does not -- that his father's new post is at a death camp dedicated to the extermination of Jewish prisoners. Sneaking out of the family's house and through the back woods to the camp, Bruno meets a young boy, Shmuel (Jack Scanlon), and the two become friends -- as Bruno comes to understand why Shmuel is on the other side of the wire.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

THE BOY IN THE STRIPED PAJAMAS, based on John Boyne's novel, is a quietly effective, tastefully crafted, and ultimately devastating portrait of the Holocaust as seen through one boy's eyes. Directed by Mark Herman (Hope Springs, Little Voice), The Boy in the Striped Pajamas pulls off a hard-to-imagine balance between the innocence and optimism of children and the evil and darkness of modern history's greatest crime. As Bruno, Butterfield is on-screen in almost every scene, and viewers see the world through his eyes -- as well as his confusion as he comes to truly see the world. "We're not supposed to be friends, you and me," Bruno notes to Shmuel through electrified barbed wire. "We're supposed to be enemies." Bruno can't understand what's going on; what The Boy in the Striped Pajamas shows us is how the grown-ups in Bruno's life (played superbly by Farmiga and Thewlis) are just as capable of deluding themselves about what's really going on at the camp.

At the same time, Bruno isn't a cardboard innocent; he acts selfishly, speaks unthinkingly, and betrays Shmuel in a moment of fear. Herman's direction is never sentimental and yet always sensitive, thoughtful but never flashy, and acutely aware of the dramatic and moral stakes on the table. We only see the mechanisms of mass extermination in one scene; the rest of the film just hints and suggests what's really going on at the camp (which, while unnamed, is clearly Auschwitz) -- which in many ways is more terrifying than more explicit scenes. When Farmiga's character recoils at a rank plume of smoke coming from the camp's chimneys, a young officer smirks: "They smell even worse when they burn, don't they?" and Farmiga's face collapses under the weight of realization; she had no idea. The Boy in the Striped Pajamas builds to a brutal, haunting finale that doesn't let innocence, love, or friendship save the day and sticks with you long after the credits have rolled.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Miramax
Director: Mark Herman
Cast: Asa Butterfield, David Thewlis, Vera Farmiga
Genre: Drama
Run time: 95 minutes
Theatrical release: November 7, 2008
DVD release: March 10, 2009
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: some mature thematic material involving the Holocaust
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  • 61% say violence is an issue

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BFF GIRL THATS ...
teen, 14 years old
 
one of the best holocoast movies in history!
this movie is one of the best holocoast movies in history! It tells a very unique story about 2 boys one german one jewish who are put together as friends but are seperated by a barbed wire fence. The fence isnt the only thing that seperates them Religion, nazies, the war that all seperates them as well. But there is one important thing that unites them: HOPE and of course friendship. During there adventure together there friendship grows stronger until nothing can seperate them. I recomend this to kids 12+.

hsm3
kid, 11 years old
 
HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO CRUEL?
this was a very good movie but the story.... the story is sad. When the movie ended and the credits roled down i was already crying my eyes out. When i showed my younger 9 year old cousin the trailer for this movie she just didnt understand what the boy behind the fence was going through and treated it like a joke. But if she had sene the movie she would have sene how cruel pepole can be and that the holocaust was no laughing matter. What happened to these boys was OUTRAGING AND TERRIBLY SAD. If your child is 11 years or younger in age have them read the book before they watch this movie.After i watched this movie i asked myself one question.... HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO CRUEL?! but i never got an answer.

lilcheer
teen, 16 years old
 
see it no matter what. sad.
O MY GOD. this movie broke my heart. I was ballling. still am. Great movie, but if you hate sad movies like me, then don't watch it. :(((((((((((((((((((((((((((( omg im crying. its a great movie you have to see it though.

FallenxLeaves
teen, 14 years old
 
Shocking and Brutal at the Climax: But a Must-See
When I went to see this with my school as an eleven year old, I was terrified. I've seen a great deal of horror movies, but this shocked me to the core. The climax at the end reduced me and several other kids in my class to tears. However, I would say it's a must-watch as issues so sensitive need to shown rather than ignored.

kalley11
parent of 16 year old
 
how wonderful a movie!
this is a very good movie I wish there was no bad language though.

blue.penguin_12
teen, 14 years old
 
Bring a tissue when you see this movie
It is incredibly sad!!! There are two young boys who were meant to be enemy's became best freinds 'till life's end! Bruno an naive little boy who did not know he was a Nazis and Shmuel an intelligent little Jewish boy. Bruno makes a daring trip to Shmuel's side of the fence and he tells Shmuel "You are my best friend, my best friend for life" and that was true they were friends until life's end.

Beliefs-Wonder
teen, 15 years old
 
Wow, yet still people laugh about Jews. . . .
All I can say is, I'm so sorry. . It was an amazing movie and book, I cried at the end of both of them. What would I have done to save all of them. Anything. I would have done anything. Next time I see anyone with a Nazi sign at school, I take it, I burn it. Unless its on their skin, then I'll rub it off their skin. They have no clue what it means, they think, but not really KNOW. Never EVER like the Nazi's, not after what they did.

Phillipians4verse8
teen, 14 years old
 
There is no use of "f---ing". Everything is offscreen. It's a very, very non-explicit and a film people should watch. The ending isn't explicit, but NOT FOR KIDS!!

FreedomGirl
teen, 15 years old
 
Best friends for life. . . and after life.
I thought it was SO sad. . . . I wished that the ending was differen't, but that's what happened. . . I think people should watch this. . I know it's very sad, but that's what happened back then. People need to see these things to make sure it will never happen again. Believe me, I wished none of them got gased. . I don't care if they're jew, gypsy, white, black, hispanic. . . or anything else, I would have never stooped to putting inoccent people in consintration camps. . . I think it is so sweet how those boys became best friends, dispite differences. Sometimes it takes a child to show a grown-up how foolish they are. To think, the leader of that death camp's own son died. . BECAUSE of the death camp, because of the nazis, and because of him. I'm crying typing this, so I will stop for now. But I believe people should watch it, but at least 12 and over.

 
Powerful film, a must see!!
This film is powerful! I wasn't expecting it to be as good as it was. The story is heart breaking and the ending is quite shocking. It will stick with you for many days after watching! The acting is amazing especially coming from the child actors. Definitely a must watch for 17's and up, but appropriate for mature minded tweens. I will watch this one again!!

dolalee
parent of and 13 , 14 , 22 year old
 
Beautiful and Thought Provoking
I would recommend this film highly for all adults and the more serious minded kids 12+. Not for light-hearted kids without knowledge of the Holocaust. This is a very moving reminder of the tragedies of the Holocaust. It reveals each family member's struggle to make sense of what the father is a part of. A couple of violent acts are understood, but not shown. Anyone with knowledge of death camps will be moved, but not shocked.

superq4898
teen, 15 years old
 
Ah-Maz-ing!
It was such a great movie! I loved it with all my heart! But in the middle/end I had to turn it off. I cried because of what the little boy's father did to him and his friend! Its a positive message because the Bruno didn't care what Shultz looked like he wanted to help.

erraggarn98
kid, 13 years old
 
Very, very, very sad movie!
In this movie they really get you attached to the main character " Bruno ". I like this movie because it shows that it doesnt matter what you are, it matters what you are INSIDE. Bruno and Schmaul were great kids who were innocent 100%. Its really horrible what the Germans did in the World War 2! Not suitable for kids under 12!

bruno2k9
kid, 12 years old
 
moving
When I saw the film, I was so unhappy for days after thinking about what people actually did to destroy a race. I found Bruno (which i didnt like the boy to be called as i am called) a 8 year old boy who's dad becomes the comendat (dont no if thats how u spell it) and moves the family nearer to where he works which was Auschwitz a terible place to be. Bruno likes to explore, and when he does he meets Schultz, a small Jewish boy who he befriends. When Bruno falls off his swing, another 'farmer' called Pavel helps him up and which Pavel later gets beaten which i think finished him off. Beause the next time Bruno see's a farmer working in his house its Schultz and Bruno gave him some food which then says he didnt and the next time he sees him he lookes batterd. Also another soldier tells Bruno's mum what the smoke actually is ' they smell even worse when we burn them' he says, and the mum finally clicks what her husband actually doing. To make up for what he did th Schultz, Bruno helps him find his dad which was obviously killed in a gas chameber, but when bruno went in with the pjs on, his and Schultz's numbers are called and they are led to believe they are having a shower. they breather there last and are killed and thats when Bruno's dad finally realises what happened when he finds brunos clothes left by a hole he went through to help Schultz. another film to whatch if u liked this is shcindlers list (dunno how to spell that either)

Poison Ivey
teen, 17 years old
 
Truly moving
I loved this movie so much! i look foreward to seeing it again. It was really sad how the Nazis treated the Jewish people. It was a violent film, for some people it might be hard to take in. I also liked the music. The movie was better than the book, and much more accurate as well. Whoever hasn't seen this movie- i don't know what you're waiting for! Get to the theaters now!

 
A Must See!!
This is a beautiful, well made film about the Holocaust. It's advertised as a family film but young children will not understand some of what's going on. My almost 12 year old loved it although during our discussion she wasn't sure of exactly what was happening at the end. I think one has to have a bit of backgroud on the Holocaust. Wonderful acting and a story that moves along keeping you on the edge of your seat all add to it's brilliance. One of the best films I've seen in a very long time.

EminemForeva8
kid, 11 years old
 
Very Sad..
I felt bad for when Bruno, Shmuel, and the other Jewish men were gassed in that hut. No one deserves to be treated like that.. Oh, and really? A SHOWER?!?! How is THAT a shower?! Ok, *ahem* I'm sorry. Well, I didn't really cry at all. I still felt bad.. I HATE RACISM!! I really felt bad for mostly, Shmuel.. Poor, poor, boy. The gas chamber thing is still haunting me.. But soon after that, since in was 10:00 p.m. when I watched it, and it was supposed to end at 12:00 a.m., my mom woke up because of when Bruno's mom was crying. She turned off the tv ~_-'!!!! I watched most of it though.

 
Best Holocaust Movie for Young Children
The Boy in the Striped Pajamas is a very good, educational movie that I highly suggest for family viewing. However, I do not suggest showing the movie to children without first discussing the Holocaust with them so that they have a better understanding of the movie and the issues it discusses. There could be some slightly inappropriate content as far as language and violence, so it's important as a parent to view this movie first to make sure that you feel comfortable sharing this material with your child. In my opinion, it is one of the best, non-graphic, Holocaust films and a good tool to teach young children about the topic of the Holocaust in an age-appropriate way.

nickchick15004
teen, 14 years old
 
1-10 (10)
This movie is one of the best movies i have ever watched. I love every single second of it. I had a school assignment and it was to watch this movie and i thought well this is going to be boring but in the end i absolutley loved it !!!!!! It is the regular Holocaust movie but it is very near to the facts. Kids won't really understand the movie and it might even frighten them a bit even though it dosen't have a lot of violance. On the whole one of the best movies of all time!!!

BieberFreakinFever
teen, 14 years old
 
ONE OF THE SADEST MOST MOVEING MOVIES OF ALL THE CENTURY.
I loved this movie. It was so moveing and so extremly sad and depressing. It tells and reveals a great deal about the holocaust and at the end the two main characters( which are two 8 year old boys) and other concentration camp prisoners are gassed to death. The end was truly heartbreaking and really opened my eye up to what the holocaust really was. Let me just say i am so glad that terrible war is over. R.I.P all you innocent jewish people. May something like this never EVER happen again.

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