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I Love You, Beth Cooper

(2009, Rated PG-13, Comedy, Starring Hayden Panettiere, Paul Rust, Jack Carpenter)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    1.0
  • Common Sense says

    Forgettable teen comedy has lots of sex and drinking.

Themes in this movie include:   dating/crushes, friendship, peer pressure

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 14–16

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Yes, the movie is saying that high school need not be the peak of a popular teenager's existence, but there are a lot of misleading messages as well. Denis calls the crazy night of party hopping, law breaking, and hooking up "best night" of his life and the only part of high school he'll remember. And there are very few consequences for any of the teens' behavior; in fact, Denis' dad practically congratulates him on his wild night. On the plus side, Denis does help Beth feel better about herself and her future.
  • Role models :

    Although Denis is surprisingly sweet and gentlemanly, Beth isn't a particularly positive role model for girls. Except for the fact that she seems to listen to Denis' advice, Beth thinks nothing of exploiting her looks to get alcohol, driving so recklessly that she commits a hit and run, "teasing" Denis by revealing her naked body to him, and otherwise reveling in her "most popular girl" status. Denis' parents also score pretty low on the role model scale -- they provide him with alcohol for his (unsupervised) graduation party, tell him where to find condoms, and seem more congratulatory than angry when he shows up after being gone all night without word. There's also a lot of stereotyping of the typical high school movie variety -- nerds, popular kids, jocks, etc.
  • Violence:

    Denis is beaten up several times by Beth's pumped-up boyfriend and his equally buff pals. He ends up with visible, bleeding wounds and bruises. There are fist fights, jumps/falls out of windows, car crashes, and one humorous towel fight.
  • Sex:

    Several sexual situations and conversations, though only one actual "sex" scene ... which is a threesome. Two teen girls proposition a virginal boy and start kissing him; the next scene shows them all in bed together, with the sheets pulled up under their arms. Beth and her two friends also undress and shower in front of a guy, but you only see bare backs. Denis drops his pants and spends a scene or two in just his underwear. Conversations about erections, sexual orientation (one character may or not be gay), and misusing sexuality (Beth makes out with a clerk in order to buy beer). Plenty of innuendo and some additional kissing; at one point, Denis' head ends up in Beth's lap, and he sees her panties. Denis' dad tells him where to find his own stash of condoms and implicitly encourages Denis and Rich to have sex; later, Denis' parents are shown making out in a car -- when his dad's cell phone vibrates because a call is coming in, he proceeds to tuck it down his wife's skirt.
  • Language:

    Surprisingly frequent use of strong language for a PG-13 film, including one use of "f--k" and many of "s--t." Other words include "p---y," "a--hole," "bitch," "hell," "oh my God," "damn," "boners," "slut," "goddamn," "ass," etc.
  • Consumerism:

    Mostly cars: Toyota Yaris and Hummer. Other brands shown/mentioned by name include Suzy Qs, Eggo waffles, Spider-Man underpants, and assorted other convenience store snacks/drinks.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Frequent underage drinking, including beer, hard liquor, and champagne (the latter provided by Denis' parents for his graduation party). Teens also purchase alcohol from a cashier who knows they're minors and drive cars after drinking (though it's never implied that they're completely drunk while driving). Occasional cigarette smoking; discussion of being drunk and what champagne "makes" one girl do (the implication is that it leads to sex). Discussion of cocaine use by Beth's older, angry boyfriend and his friends.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About I Love You, Beth Cooper

Parents need to know that this is a review of the movie shown in theaters and not the unrated version with an alternate ending available on DVD.Parents also need to know that this deplorable teen comedy targets teens especially since it stars Heroes cheerleader Hayden Panettiere. But the movie is full of consequence-free underage drinking and teen sex. Teens drink beer, hard liquor, and champagne (the latter supplied by parents) and drive after doing so. Characters have a threesome (though nothing explicit is shown), there's a running conversation about one character's sexual orientation, and teen girls' naked backs are shown during a titillating locker room scene. Language is notably strong for a PG-13 movie, including "f--k" and many uses of "s--t." The main character also gets beaten up a lot, and his parents are iffy role models at best, providing the aforementioned alcohol and essentially encouraging him to have sex.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about teenage sexuality. How is it portrayed here? Is that realistic? Why would Denis' dad encourage him to have sex? Parents, talk to your teens about your own family's values when it comes to sex.
  • What about the underage drinking? Is it as common as the movie suggests? What are the consequences of drinking in real life?
  • Are the movie's stereotypes funny? Are all cheerleaders mean and all valedictorians nerds? Can you think of teen movies that don't follow these "rules"? How does this movie compare to the classics in the teen genre?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Minnesota
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    Good comedy for teens!

    I love this movie! There was somethings that didnt need to be in there like this guy had a threesome but they didnt show it.. there was some violence but not too much.. This movie is really funny!

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Maryland
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    BBFC's Labeling Content Differs From MPAA

    The BBFC states, "There is one use of strong language and a few references to drugs, but no sight of actual use." They classified this film a 15 for strong sex references (some moderate sex refences included). Their labeling including this film is kind of strange. The BBFC (I believed) would label the bad language for this one for frequent moderate and once strong. I like their content labeling better than our MPAA.

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Indiana
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    Loved this movie

    This movie was hilarious. My mom and i laughed throughout this whole entire movie, but i must say to other parents that are not sure if their kids can watch it, this movie is a litle bit over the edge. It does have sexual discussions and some iffy sexual content throughout the movie and some drinking, but that's pretty much all you really need to worry about. I would reccommend this to anyone who loves teen comedys like this one.

  4. Kid Reviewer Age 9
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    love i love you beth cooper!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I love I love you beth cooper its funny shes pretty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! your #1 fan Jessica

  5. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Excessive consumerism

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    I Cried In The Ending When They Left. Good Movie For Kids 12 And Up.

  6. I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 3.0

    not that bad

    the movie is mature and really shouldnt be exposed to younger teens. unfortunaltly, there are older teens in highschool who act like this so as vulgur or whatever as it was, it was pretty accurate. typical teen movie and overall i dont think it was that bad. although i was a little distracted by that guys obscenely huge nose. what was that???

  7. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Wyoming
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Negative message

    Actually, not for anyone.

    NOT FOR KIDS!!! NOT FOR KIDS AT ALL!!!... or even adults. We actually got up and walked out of the theater. This piece of mindless drivel had only one piece of redeeming value... the theater refunded our money.

  8. Parent Reviewer
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    boring

    boring

  9. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Michigan
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 5.0

    good but is it for kids my age

    This was very good movie. This a more mild version(much more) of the girl next door. With the kinda same plot.A dorky teen is at the end of school and likes another teen named Beth Copper. He decides to tell her how he fells by saying it in front of the whole school. She noticed him and takes interest , so they talk and pretty much go on an adventure in the night together along with three friends, tackling many obstacles like Beth Coppers boyfriend and much more.

  10. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Wisconsin
    I rate this title and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    i love you, denis cooverman! haha

    i loved it!!! defianatly go and see it.

  11. I rate this title iffy for age 15 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    YUCK!

    I really hated this movie. I went with my friend who is the same age as I am and my brother who is 13. The sexual content was a little strong for a PG-13 and there were a lot of thing I wish my brother hadn't heard. Besides that, the acting was bad, the characters weren't relatable, and the plot was heavily disguised. I didn't really have any idea of the moral of the movie or why anyone would have made the movie. I didn't read the book, but I surely hope it was more original than the movie. You may as well throw your money away.

  12. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Tennessee
    I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

  13. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

  14. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 14 and give it 3.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    hate

    i think this moovey was to vilent.

  15. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Connecticut
    I rate this title iffy for age 15 and give it 0.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    funny!!!!!!

    loved it and you will too

  16. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 5 and give it 0.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    wonderful

    amazing

  17. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Texas
    I rate this title iffy for age 16 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    NOT for young teens!

    This is crazy...this is marketed to teens and it is horrible behavior! The language is so offensive! The plot is not very good ~ not for young teens!

  18. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in Texas
    I rate this title on for age 15 and give it 5.0

    MOVIE IS NOT BAD!!! DON'T LISTEN TO THE HATERS!

    its nothing a kid in highschool has not already scene, its not a bad movie and the "bad stuff" (sarcasm) isn't advertising for other kids to do it!!!! its fine, though younger kids (under 13 i dont think should see it)

  19. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Colorado
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 5.0

    Looks good

    I can't wait to see it

  20. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Louisiana
    I rate this title iffy for age 16 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Negative message

    Bad Acting and Not Funny

    This movie is so bad that the only real advertisement that is receiving any attention at all is that Hayden gets nude in a scene.

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