GaiaOnline (http://www.gaiaonline.com)

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that while Gaia Online may attract young teens with its lively graphics, games, and opportunities to socialize with other kids, if you don't turn the filter on, adult language and topics are common. There's no doubt that your teen will stumble upon threads discussing "masturbation myths and fads" and "WTF moments" in a matter of minutes. The site also pushes kids to buy buy buy with their Gaia Gold virtual currency. The positive side of that is it teaches kids about money -- and to save up for something they like.

Educational value: While it's possible that a kid could learn something in the forums, it just might be something you don't want your child to learn.
Positive messages: Users talk openly about personal issues and often don't seem to respect boundaries.
Violence: Discussions involving violence sometimes appear in forums.
Sex: The boards are rife with threads referencing sexual acts and talking about sex in general.
Language: Without the optional filter on, strong language such as "f--king" appears on the threads from time to time.
Consumerism: Kids are taught to earn money ("Gaia Gold") to buy things.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Drinking, drugs, and smoking all appear in forum threads, and sometimes are glorified.
Privacy & safety: Lots of potential risk. While the site does remind users of some of the privacy basics (don't give out personal information, don't share your password, don't share embarrassing personal stuff), kids using the site can do all of this and more. According to its privacy policy, Gaia also collects quite a bit of information about its users, automatically tracks their behavior, and shares some information with third parties. Users may opt to connect their Gaia account to their Facebook profile. Gaia offers "Information and Tips for Parents," but no parental controls.

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Is it any good?
 
Though the site appears to be kid-friendly and moderators are supposed to be trolling the boards for inappropriate images, racist and sexist language, and adult content, if you don't use the word filter it's rampant with such fare. For example, on a recent visit, the following threads appeared: "Your best WTF moment was…?" "What are your fave pick-up lines?" "Masturbation Myths and Fads" and "Poll: I wanna have sex with a boy." Perhaps the moderators were asleep at the wheel or their safety claim is just that -- a claim. Either way, it'd be good to sit down with the kids as they surf the site or just steer them away. There are plenty of others with cleaner content and just as robust audiences.

Online interaction: While some users may find support and camaraderie in the forums, there is also a lot of negativity.


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REALITY
Gaiaonline is an amazing site for the simple fact that it allows you to develop your opinions and grow somewhat through conversations, debates or roleplaying. I call it a "story site" when people ask me about it. For the simple fact that I am an aspiring writer and being able to roleplay with some of the other members on the site has allowed my writers voice to grow considerablely. I gain amazing ideas from some of the things that I read, the avis that I see or some of the stunning writing, or artwork done by other members. Yes, there are some bad people on Gaia. Like there are bad people on EVERY site. Really, parents, people against Gaia for any sort of sexual reason, you need to get a grip. If you're trying to ban this site for that reason then you may as well try banning facebook, msn, twitter, youtube, myspace. And any other site that is on the internet. In fact, you may as well try banning the internet all together because even on Wikipedia people can look up "sexual content". If you don't like the site then I suggest that you keep your own children or teens off of it. Last I checked, I already have my own parents who tell me what I can and can't do. They trust that I'm not an idiot who would upload a nude picture of myself. I'll let you know a little secret, if there's a nude picture of your child on the internet...its because THEY put it there. Not me, or Gaia, or anyone else. They did it. They made the bad choice they didn't know what to do because YOU didn't teach them. You can't hide your kids from the world. If you want to try and do that, then move to a community where computers are illegal.

AZK-DSS
adult
 
This has nothing to do with the website, it has to do with the parents.
You all say gaia online is this horrible website, where there is porn, cybering, nudity, sexually suggestive content. Have any of you taken the time to turn on your TV to the music station? To the movie stations? Have you seen a PG-13 movie as of late? If you had you'd see that many of the things that are allowed on this website are in those movies, granted yes, there are porn trolls, but trolls don't just exist on gaia, they exist on every forum based website online. Also you should stop blaming the website, stop petitioning it's removal when in fact you need to become more internet savvy, you need to become more aware of what your children are doing, it's not hard to go into your browser history after your child has been on and see what they are up to, and even better, it's not illegal. if you review what they are doing to be wrong you should discuss it with them, you can also buy programs that block the website, firewall it and make it inaccessable to your child unless they have a password. Children are learning about sex in their schools, in what they see on television and what there listening to on the radio, and the books they read. Chances are the things you blame gaia online for are your own short comings, and are things they have known about since they were a child. Hell even when I was a child I knew what sex was before I ever used the internet in my life. Gaia online is a great website, and there are moderators and staff that work as fast as they can to ban people who prey on children and those who post real nudity. All there moderating staff consists of adults and a good amount of those adults are actually parents themselves, I have in my time on the site met many parents who play gaia. Once again I'll repeat it for the mere sake of being redundant, it's not gaia onlines responsibility to safeguard any child OVER the age of thirteen, that's your responsibility. So become more aware, be in your childs business, but not over their shoulder. AZK

Vivian_L
teen, 17 years old
 
One of my favorite websites~
First off, this site was really not intended for kids under the age of thirteen, although I know several kids a few years younger than that get on. (including my 11-year old sister and SEVERAL of her classmates) It does have some iffy content for children under the age of 13, but parents should be monitoring what their young kids are doing on the internet anyways. Gaia has a lot to do when you're logged on, like forums, arenas, decorating your avatar, games like pinball, and a new fighting game called Zomg. Adult content wise, the forums are the main problem. They do contain several threads with sexual content and language (bleeped out), but most are made by teens. You can set it so only certain people can send you PMs, friend requests, and comment on your profile. You can also easily block annoying or rude people and report inappropriate threads and such, so safety really isn't an issue. Gaia also has many nice users as well. Recently Gaia has had a problem with the consumerism. Certain items can be bought with real money, and there is some real life merchandise that can be bought off the site. No one forces you to spend money though, and gaia does need a way to pay to keep the site up. Recently it set up a way to get free Gaia cash by completing offers from gaia's sponsers. I suggest you just stay away from those, they're rather dangerous. So as long as you're careful this is a wonderful site for teens 13+. My username is demon twi on gaia. ^_^

Epic_Lover
teen, 15 years old
 
Perfect for 11 and up!
I love it!I even have an account.

skeleanimal94
teen, 17 years old
 
best for teens and older children stay off
ive been on it for years and it seems mostly the talk about sexual content and drugs come from the younger children on there trying to act cool if you dont like your kids being on there keep them off cause gaia already tried to disable the ciggarettes but everyone was against it so they brought them i hate how everyone worries about gaia if some talks sexual block them and leave or just wait for them to leave cause usalley its just trolls and dont go into the mature forums you know adults like to post stuff too so i say make it 15 and up and keep your freaking children off the site if your gonna have a hissy fit

 
Great site for all ages over 13 years old
Okay, let me clear it up for all you irresponsible parents and butthurt Gaians out there. Gaia is a 13+ site, meaning that it caters to TEENAGERS, YOUNG ADULTS, AND ADULTS. If you think Gaia is the place for young children, hit that back browser right now, because it is illegal for them to be on the site. Also, I see a lot of negative reviews about there being rude people on Gaia. If people are just being critical to you, grow a thick spine and stop being butthurt. If people are flaming you left and right, you're supposed to report it using the report button. And speaking of the report button, if you see anything that violates the Gaia TOS, report it. The moderators work hard to make sure that Gaians follow the rules. They can't get all the rulebreakers since there's so little of few and so many members (150 against 23 million users), so that's why they need YOU to report so they can clean up the bad contents faster. Lastly, Gaia is not your babysitter. If your child chooses to take sexual images of his/herself, it is YOUR AND YOUR CHILD'S FAULT, not Gaia's. You should be teaching your child what to do and what not to do on the internet.

ggglly
teen, 16 years old
 
Gaia is one solid website ;D
I've been on Gaia since I was 12 (Shhh, don't tell the Mods, that's AGAINST THE RULES TO BE ON UNDER 13) My main 'concern' is Gaia Cash (real money) has been growing in use on the site, but whatever, it's not p2p (pay to play). Gaia is a great site, overall. It's forums can be either very educational or very vulgar depending on where you go. The mods are only volunteers who work as hard as they can, but thing's slip by SOMETIMES. You won't get hacked unless you give out your password, and since it's plastered all over the site "DON'T GIVE OUT YOUR PASSWORDS TO ANYONE!" it's totally your own fault if you do get hacked. BY law, you can't be on there if you are 12 or under, and PG-13 in California, means you can swear as long as you aren't swearing AT someone or using it in sexual context. Sexual content is allowed as long as it isn't over-the-top or full-on nudity. Not only is Gaia a great forum-based site, but it also has many other fun features like Puzzles, or it's MMORPG, zOMG. Gaia is always improving it's features and creating more spiffy items for our avatars. In conclusion, Gaia isn't appropriate (nor should it be) for people under 13, but for people over 13 it is a fun website that is always improving!

pleione
teen, 15 years old
 
gaia's great if you trust your kid.
It's not a perfect site, i admit. But the reason i give it a 6+ is that with the filter on the kids can't read the swearwords, and what six year old is gonna click on a topic with something inapropriate? some of the topics on the forums make me uncomfortable, but those are the topics you just...ignore!!! or better yet, teach you child to be vocal about things that make them uncomfortable. if you ask someone to stop swearing, chances are they'll stop. plus, once you get to middle school you hear swearwords *constantly*, so kids shouls get used to it.

Rachmaster67
teen, 18 years old
 
Best for Ages 10 and Up
I love it personally. Yes, it can get pretty inappropriate at times, but that's only some of the threads. If you don't want your kids to see this make sure they don't wander into the General Discussion or Life Discussion forums. They talk about things they might not understand. While the website has its downs in this are there are ups like educational threads that let us talk about sports or the exchange where you learn to handle money and item.

CAGED Tiger
teen, 15 years old
 
Not as bad as people make it out to be
I don't think the adults in this thread realize what's going on. I'm 13, I have an account, I've been registered for quite a time. We kids love sites like this because it lets us interact with other kids and adults that don't know us, just so that we can be our real selves. Nobody judges us as much, even if there are occasionally trolls, spammers, flamers, and those things. Sure, there are inappropriate people, but they get reported and banned and we know that the moderators are trying to do their best to make the site 13+. We DO need our own privacy and space. It's just weird for a parent to be watching every move we make on a computer. And if you are a parent, your child will know what's right and wrong if you've raised them the right way. Things like sex and drugs don't come up often in Gaia and what a child does also depends on sex and drug education. I've had quite enough of these classes, including computer safety. I know exactly what to do and what not to do on Gaia. Gaia itself is a fun filled, interactive site that really helps bring out what a child has in themselves. Getting items using gold gives them a sense of accomplishment. Just because we're kids, doesn't mean our parents should watch us every move and take our falls for us. Age does not equal maturity.

 
Gaia is safer than previously believed.
Gaiaonline is a great site, with many good qualities. I joined the site when i was eleven years old, and if your child is in the right forums they may learn quite a bit. For example: I learned grammar and sentence structure, how to handle money, how to be patient, and some economics. While, there are great forums... there is some that is not that friendly. Particularly, the General Discussion, where I'm sure is where this site got it's inappropriate threads (or subjects). That is by far the worst forum and the moderators have a very had time trying to keep it clean. Many of the regular users pity the G.D. moderators. If you steer clear of the G.D you're TEEN will be okay. Keep in mind that Gaiaonline is legally a 13+ site, and if you allow your child(-13) to be on gaia there is no one else to blame for what they learn. I am now sixteen going on seventeen, and am proud to say I learned my sentence structure, grammar, and improved my art on gaia

Erin G
teen, 17 years old
 
Know where your kids are looking.
While there is inappropriate content on here, openly displayed, most of it is in this little thing called Guilds. Firstly, it is against Gaia rules and ToS to discuss mature content or attempt to use the site as a dating network, and there is an age minimum of thirteen now, I don't know if that was always there. Not that children always follow such rules, but parents can find these types of things out easily. So the site is designed for a slightly older age group, as opposed to sites such as Club Penguin or Littlest Pet Shop (sites my younger siblings play on.) Now, the main forums are moderated by people that Gaia has deemed responsible through their actions. Not to mention, general users can report other users for breaking Gaia Rules and ToS. The reasons most of the inappropriate content is in Guilds is because Guilds are user-moderated. Usually, you can tell what type of content is in a guild just by its main page. The larger guilds are harder to self-moderate- don't expect to find good moderation there. When a guild is reported, then moderators step in, but until the situation is bad enough that this needs to happen, people are going to continue with their actions. Gaia tries to maintain a pleasant but open to opinion environment, but with over a hundred thousand people on each day, that can be difficult. As for my little 'Positive messages' icon I have clicked, that's due to the fact that there ARE good people on there that support things like cancer awareness, and places where you can find a nonjudging voice to listen to a problem. There are many, many opinions in this online community- and people are a good deal less shy about sharing them online. So, as with many sites, there will be ideas you maybe don't want introduced to your child- but that's everywhere, and other than not letting them into the world, there's not a thing you can do about it.

 
Gaia isnt neopets, its PG-13. Yes, there's going to be mature threads, but all threads have to stay within PG-13 limits.
Gaia isn't neopets. As a pg-13 site, there are going to be topics and discussions more suited for the older crowd. If parents are worried that their children are going to see these discussions, there is no harm in monitoring their activity while they are online. Gaia can only do so much in making sure material stays within pg-13 limits but they cant be everywhere at once. Users can help Gaia by reporting any inappropriate material which helps keep the site safe for teens. A big part of Gaia is communicating online with users from across the world. Its hard to avoid it and Gaia has set guidelines on how to protect yourself over the web. They cant be babysitters for a young teen, so alot of that responsibility has to come from the parents, making sure their child is aware of how to stay safe. There's more to Gaia than just the site. There are always real-world discussions going on, from religion to politics to fashion trends. You child can learn alot by just by lurking around in a debate topic, absorbing well thought out ideas and even putting in their two cents into a discussion. Gaia is safe, as long as the user helps out Gaia by reporting inappropriate threads and keeping their identity secret.

 
Great site with lots to do.
Let's be real here.... parents or prudes can't sit back and be aghast at the content Gaia Online or other avatar based sites or social networking sites have in terms of user language. When your kids go to school, they're face with other kids using the same language as you would find on this site or even on the street. People cuss, especially on the internet where you're virtually guaranteed no physical injuries. So unless your world is filled with sunshine and lollipops, I suggest you place that filter on to block out the "bad" language just in case it's too much for you to digest. There is noticeable product placement with this site. They make that known. I've been a member of Gaia since 2006 and donating money for a Monthly Collectible used to be the only option given to help Gaia run the servers in exchange for a pretty cool item. But times have changed and Gaia's userbase has grown immensely since then. Now Gaia users are shown more options to spend their well earned dollars on. In addition Gaia has created a currency system that grants you Gaia Cash when you donate certain amounts. They've created EI (known as Evolving Items), RIG (Random Item Generator), as well as placed a few new shops to their menu that only take the new currency base. This is all to pay for the expenses of running the site. Does this site teach kids how to spend their money? Not at all. If you believe that this site is teaching the children how to spend materialistically, then you need only to blame yourself. What are you teaching your child in regards to financial responsibility? Gaia is not responsible for your child's spending habits. Computers are not babysitters. Gaia has a few issues with security in regards to user accounts. There have been numerous suggestions as to how they can improve account safety. Measures have been taken and are still being made. Gaia does listen to their users, and that's a good thing. With that many people pitching in their ideas, Gaia can take the best suggestions they see and implement that into the site to cut down on the number of "Hack" reports or attempts. Overall this is a really good site. It's not for kids, it's for teens and up. There are grandparents on this site, parents, college kids, high schoolers, and middle schoolers. Once in a while you find out that there was an elementary kid on there, but Gaia ToS specifically states that children under 13 cannot use the site. This is in compliance with COPPA (Children Online Privacy Protection Act) law. Gaia's users can either create really interesting discussion material, or not. This is heavily dependent on the user. If a discussion, post, or user has stepped out of bounds and have gone too far, Gaia has a system in place where you can report anything deemed inappropriate according to the ToS. Also, Gaia provides it's users the opportunity to get involved with their storylines by producing events and creating comics to further the plot. In all, their content is pretty solid and keeps the users coming back for more. In regards to the author of this review: Trolling is a derogatory term used for people who purposely visit a thread just to cause trouble. You might want to make a note that Moderators do not troll the forums. They monitor.

Trick r Treater
teen, 17 years old
 
A real fun site, but logical reasoning is key.
Gaiaonline is a wonderful site, it really is, but have to admit, it's got a few iffy users on there. You might wanna steer clear of the Chatterbox forum, since that's where most of the bad stuff gets dumped off. There are tons of different forums through, to match your interests. Spammers and hackers might be a little abundant, but using your logic and keeping your password and info to yourself will prevent that from happening 9 out of 10 times. There are tons of games on Gaia, from puzzles to it's very own MMO. As for the consumerism, it's true, although I really enjoy dressing my avatar up as a out of this world fantasy character.

Musicnote328
teen, 16 years old
 
Gaia is really a good site as long as your kid knows some safety precautions such as filtering swear words and blocking people that just don't seem right. o.o One problem is that some Gaians can be really mean. Today I got some really vicious comments on my profile from a girl. I just deleted the comments and now I'm ignoring her. It's as simple as that.. I never really go to the forums so no comment there. If someone or something someone says is really threatening or uncomfortable, you can report them to site moderators and they will give the person a warning or ban the account. Gaia site moderators try to keep everything below a PG-13 level. Gaia is educational because it teaches you to save for things that you really want. For example, right now I'm saving to buy a dress for my dream avatar. Gaia does not force you to buy anything. Buying stuff for your avatar is an option most people choose. It's fun to express your creativity and personality. I think it's better for kids over 10 because even though Gaia has some really good safety precautions, it can still be kind of an iffy site unless you really trust your kid.

 
No Parents!
I hate it. I am a former member. This is a cyber bully site in my opinion. People are rude in the forums, they are rude period. I was told people were nice on the site. So I gave a bit of a bio announcing I was an Occultist, and said that I am Wiccan. I got a person messaging me. These were not nice messages. "You know that s**t is fake right? There is no such thing as "The Occult" outside of H.P. Lovecraft, and other literature. And vampire s**t (THAT IS HOW IT IS SPELLED! Not Vampyre)... THATS FAN GIRL TWITARD S**T! So I guess your a twitard." THEN I dont respond and I get many more messages like this, that could be construed as flat out cyber bullying. I mean I am more or less an emotionally strong person, but I worry for the kids. I also had a similar dilemma as rowan_r. I am a musician and posted some lyrics. I got GREAT reviews from friends, but after sharing some lyrics, I got a lot of bad reviews. As well as some person saying "YOU CALL THIS S**T MUSIC!?" commented. Let me explain my concerns "Language My Kids Cant Use" The language on this site is pretty bad. Those messages didnt censor as I had. "Messages Aren't Positive" Just as it said. Apparently I am not the only one. I have friends as well who have had mean messages here too. "Safety Is an Issue" I say this because I feel that this was a minor cyber bully attack. And I am SURE there are others who do a lot worse than this person. As I said, my concern is the youngsters on here. I dont want them to go through what I went through or worse...

 
Perfect for Teens AND YOUNG ADULTS
Towards those who have admitted to being under 13 years of age: Don't be surprised to one day find yourself banned from Gaia. It will remain banned until your 13th birthday rolls by. By rules of Terms of Service(What all who want to try are REQUIRED to read), any persons under the age of 13 are NOT ALLOWED ON GAIA. Not only is it against Gaia's ToS rules, but it is also against AMERICAN LAW. Remember, Gaia HQ is located in Sacramento, California, which is of course in America. To those underaged users, YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO BE ON GAIA, SO YOU SHOULD NOT BE GIVING ANY SORT OF REVIEW. During registration, if an underaged user gives their real birthdate, they are immediately blocked from joining Gaia. Therefore those kids need to receive a punishment from their parents. And to those parents, the internet is not your babysitter, get of your butts and actually PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOUR KIDS ARE DOING ON YOUR COMPUTER.

 
Gaia: For Ages 13 and up. NOT FOR THOSE UNDER 13.
Gaia is a great site. Whoever gave Gaia three stars for sexual content must have ONLY looked at General Discussion, Chatterbox, or went into the flash worlds Town and Rally. It is ONLY in those areas where people talk about sex inappropriately. If these reviewers would go into the Questions and Assistance forum, they'd see that Gaians are quick to help a fellow Gaian out with any question they have. Site Feedback is where users can make suggestions to how the site can be better (one of the topics being to eradicate the General Discussion forum altogether and start afresh). Gaia Community Discussion is where people can talk about Gaia and the latest thing that's out on Gaia, and Gaia International is for people from different countries to communicate with each other. It's also great for people who are learning a new language and want to be corrected by native speakers.

Rowan_R
adult
 
I Think Not PARENTS BEWARE!
I am an ex-user on this site. I mean I suffered a lot of cyber bullying. They tote that it is a place for creativity, but the users well some, will tear your work down even though you are trying to have fun. There have been some pretty hurtful things said to me on this site. And I fear for a few children I know who use this site, because they too have suffered a taste of cyber bullying. And it is happening all under the parents' noses. PARENTS BEWARE! This site is a breeding ground for bullies. My recommendation would be NOT to allow your children the opportunity to even enter this site. I know I never will allow mine to do so.

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