Grown Ups (PG-13, 2010)

common sense media says

Friendship comedy is too crude for younger kids.


parents & educators say
  • 65% say sexual content is an issue
  • 56% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that although this Adam Sandler/David Spade/Chris Rock comedy about old friends reuniting after a tragedy has lots of heart, that doesn't make up for the crude and repetitive jokes. And while the trailer might have you thinking the humor is all about kids and families, there's a lot of racy "guy" stuff here: Male buttocks are shown, and there are plenty of sexual innuendoes/references and instances of men ogling women. One character is depicted as a booze-loving lush, and though the main characters are ostensibly good friends, they're not particularly kind to one another (their kids also behave rudely, expecting to be waited on hand and foot and maligning anything that's not fancy or technologically advanced). Language includes "s--t" and "ass."

Positive messages: The movie explores the impact of middle age, depicting it as a time when people start coming to terms with who they are instead of who they thought they would be. Part of that realization process is that people still have time to change if they want to -- though some of the people who try get discouraged because it can be tough. The movie presents childhood as a time for imaginative play and adventure seeking, rather than texting or playing video games. Amid the broader messages are a fair number of potty-humor gags (peeing in the pool) and jokes based on issues like weight.
Positive role models: The five main characters are extreme archetypes of middle-aged men. None of them has their act completely together, but some are worse off than others, and while some grow during the course of the film, others don’t. (That said, all are trying to do right by their families.) Their kids are shown acting up; in one family, they boss their nanny around via text message, expecting to be waited on. Affluent and entitled, these kids are put off by the rustic fun offered at a lake cabin and long for the technologies -- Wii, flat screens -- to which they’re accustomed. Female characters are thinly drawn and often the butt of jokes.
Violence: Lots of slapstick humor, but no real violence. Friends play a game in which they shoot an arrow into the air and then run away, hoping to avoid it as it crashes down. Kids are shown playing a video game in which they shoot and kill other characters.
Sex: One male character is seen from behind, naked from the waist down. Also lots of innuendo and suggestive dialogue/sexual references, but no on-screen sex. Several scenes show the male leads ogling scantily clad women's cleavage and behinds.
Language: “Ass” and “s--t” are used once or twice; other words include "dick," "damn," "crap," "hell," and "oh my God." A child’s ringtone includes the word “bi-atch.” Plenty of scenes include pseudo-curse-words like “shiz-nizzle.”
Consumerism: Many brands are mentioned by name and/or appear on screen, including Cadillac, Dunkin' Donuts, Wii, Voss water, and Budweiser. One character wears a KFC bucket on his head in several scenes.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Adults make jokes in front of children about “getting wasted" (the kids then start using this term, thinking it means something else). One adult character is buzzed or drunk most of the movie. He drinks shots and encourages others to join him and cradles a bottle of liquor.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about who this movie is targeted at. Is it intended to appeal to families?
  • The movie's sexual humor includes plenty of jokes about older women dating younger men. Does the film reinforce or undermine stereotypes on that topic? What about on other subjects?
  • What is the movie saying about kids' love of tech toys?

What's the story?

What's the story?
When he gets word that his former basketball coach has heard the "final buzzer" and passed away, Lenny (Adam Sandler) -- once the fearless leader of the coach's only championship team -- decides it's time to round up the troops: former teammates Eric (Kevin James), Kurt (Chris Rock), Marcus (David Spade), and Rob (Rob Schneider). While in their hometown for the funeral, the guys bunk at an old lodge that brings back fond memories, even as their wives (played by Salma Hayek, Maria Bello, Maya Rudolph, and Joyce Van Patten) and kids attempt to hit it off. Will the coach's death force the men to re-evaluate their game plan before their own final buzzer?

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

GROWN UPS is one of those movies that looks great in trailers but ultimately disappoints. With a cast like this, it really ought to be a slam dunk. But it's hobbled by a lackluster script that has little at stake for the characters. And the jokes: Despite the fact that it stars five successful comedians, the same jokes are recycled throughout. How many bits do we really need about a nanny camouflaged as an exchange student, a grandmother's bunioned toe, a retiree's marriage to a much younger man, a man's voracious appetite, and a still-nursing 4-year-old?

The five leads share some chemistry, but not enough to make a lifelong friendship believable. They're so cruel to each other that you have to wonder how they stayed friendly. And the women are nothing more than weak supporting acts and fodder for chauvinistic jokes. The film does have a few nice moments -- the paper-cup extravaganza, the flashbacks -- and makes a good point about not giving up the best moments of childhood to gadgetry and gimmicks. But on the whole, Grown Ups is a stunted comedy.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Sony Pictures
Director: Dennis Dugan
Cast: Adam Sandler, Chris Rock, David Spade, Kevin James, Rob Schneider
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 102 minutes
Theatrical release: June 25, 2010
DVD release: November 9, 2010
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: crude material including suggestive references, language and some male rear nudity
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 34 parent & educator reviews:
  • 65% say sexual content is an issue
  • 56% say language is an issue
  • 38% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 29% say there are positive messages

Most useful reviews by all members

SSfanforlife
kid, 11 years old
 
It's good, there are a few scenes where the little boy is nursing on his mom, that is totally inappropriate, the arrow scene is very violent. There is also a use of the word perv and s---t. There is lots of drinking and they lied about getting wasted. That's what tipped me off the most.

Totally500
teen, 15 years old
 
Grown ups is a funny movie to see
I saw this two times and this is so funny!!. Forget the reviews, this is a funny comedy to see and jokes and refrences are good.GO SEE THIS MOVIE!!!

kidwholovesmovies
kid, 11 years old
 
Don't waste your time!
This movie is terrible! There is a ton of sex jokes and I only laughed once! Don't waste your time or money on this excuse of a movie! You think they could of made a funny movie with all these comedians... but instead they blew it!

Merrie
parent of 11 and 13 year old
 
o.k. for older kids but watch it first for tweens
This movie could be funny to watch as a family, but is overly sexualized; with scenes of the friends oogling over one of their friends daughters, and the mom breast feeding her older child is in poor taste. There are many other scenes that are uncomfortable to watch and will probably spur questions a parent doesn't feel like answering during a movie that is supposed to be fun.There is also a scene that is pretty funny about adults talking about "getting wasted", but it's not something you may want your kids laughing about.

c1nder
parent of 12 year old
 
too much sexual inuendo for under 13.

DotComMom
parent
 
BAD!
This was horrible! Too bad...I love Kevin James. But it was not even funny. Too many bad messages and references to topics that are not appropriate for children. Just plain bad movie. I would not even rent it.

luckyliv13
kid, 11 years old
 
A Funny Movie
This is a really funny movie. My family and I watched it together and we all loved it. Although there are some iffy parts the funny characters and the great story line make up for it. This is a nice movie to watch as long as parents are there too!

lollipop_luver
kid, 12 years old
 
REALLY crude and gross humor!
It's funny at parts but it's pretty gross and if you understand all the jokes you'd understand why Common Sense rates it 13-15 cuz the movie's had non-stop really crude and gross humor... I thought it would be a funny family movie but when we watched it we made the mistake of letting my 8 yr old bro watch it too and its too inappropriate for that age though most of the humor is pretty hard to understand when your that age still I would let anyone under the age of 11 (if 11 a mature 11 yr old) 12, 13.

Ian6teen
kid, 12 years old
 
My Review Of Grown-Ups
I Think Grown-Ups Is So Fine For 9 Years Old Ecxpet The Nudity And Without Of Crude Humor It Will Be Fine To A PG Movie

Aio
adult
 
for older kids
it's a funny movie but too much of sexually oriented references, sometimes it gets yucky

5748434957
parent of 8 and 10 year old
 
If I ever meet Adam Sandler, I'm punching him in the stomach then taking my $ back.
I want my $17 back. Adam Sandler can be funny. In this movie, no one is. Even the stuff that's shown in the trailers isn't funny in the context of the movie. Scenes drag on forever. Dialogue seemed to be - Hey let's make fun of everyone as if we are 12 year old bullies. Just pitiful. And Rob Schneider - get some self esteem and quit letting your "buddy" Adam make fun of you in every movie he makes. I don't know why any woman would be involved in this. Salma Hayek? Seriously? Do your kids needs braces or what?

 
13 and up.
Grown Ups maybe a funny movie and may have some stereotypes but this movie is inappropriate and maybe too much for your younger kids and parents you need to know that Grown Ups has some male rear nudity shown some sexual content such as innuendo and suggestive dialogue/sexual references there are some strong language used and some drinking used such as shots and a bottle of liquor.

 
NO CHILDREN! Not even appropriate for thinking adults
Hate it. This movie as too many perversions and rude immoral adult humor.

pinkmom
parent of 10 and 11 year old
 
This would be more appropriate for 16 and up
It was definitely more racy than I thought it would be. There is a four year old who nurses throughout the movie. While you don't see the nipple you see the back of the child's head and the front of her breast. This is an ongoing joke throughout the movie. There are two early twenty girls bent over a car for at least 10 minutes or so in the move wearing shorts that cut all the way up to the crotch and the men actively stare at them with a plan as to when to look away. While almost all fo the characters in the movie are married it is evident when the sex takes place.

ellaxo
teen, 16 years old
 
teens
i laughed very hard with my friends but i thought i could have been better

omgemily
teen, 14 years old
 
good movie for everyone over 12(:
haha i loved this movie!! kids probably won't get some of the jokes, but it's hilarious!

coolbrees09
teen, 14 years old
 
funny movie
great movie. shows that family comes first. also some sexual behavior but one of the funniest movies i have seen in a while

barbsinging
parent of 13 year old
 
I hated this movie! I think it shows the worst of our culture and would never want my son to watch this movie although we did go and should have walked out but did't. The worst part was the ogling of young women.

durven192
kid, 12 years old
 
i hate this movie but it should be rated ADULT

AlinaW.
teen, 16 years old
 
Funny if a little crude . . . But great for tweens, teens, and young adults!
This was actually SUCH a great comedy . . . I loved how, for the most part, it was pretty clean, if a little slap-stick-like, comedy. Some of it was a little ackward in terms of sexual references and one time where you could apparently hear two people doing It, but the rest was fairly tame. The other thing that might not be the best is all of the former basketball players making fun of one of them, the melo-dramatic shortie, but nothing too crude. Good movie to go see with your older tweens and teens!

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