Parents' Guide to Murder Is Bad Manners: Murder Most Unladylike, Book 1

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Mary Eisenhart By Mary Eisenhart , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Clever writing, characters shine in boarding-school mystery.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 11+

Based on 3 parent reviews

age 10+

Based on 14 kid reviews

Kids say this book is a captivating and engaging murder mystery that features strong female protagonists and complex plots, making it ideal for young readers, particularly those who enjoy mysteries. Despite some mature themes, such as murder and implied romantic relationships, many parents feel it is appropriate for tweens, as it provides positive role models and clever storytelling, ensuring its popularity among a young audience.

  • strong characters
  • engaging plot
  • positive role models
  • suitable for tweens
  • mild mature themes
  • captivating storytelling
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What's the Story?

Hazel Wong's father, a banker in 1930s Hong Kong, reluctantly gives up his dream of sending his son to follow in his footsteps at an English boarding school after, as Hazel matter-of-factly describes it, his concubine gives birth to yet another girl. So he ships Hazel off to perennially cold, damp Deepdean School, where she finds that English misses aren't quite what she expected. For one thing, they're a lot meaner. But, luckily, the most popular girl in class, the aristocratic, glamorous Daisy Wells, likes Hazel's spirit. The two become BFFs and form a detective society with Daisy as Holmes and Hazel as Watson: "After all, I am much too short to be the heroine of this story, and who ever heard of a Chinese Sherlock Holmes?" They don't have much opportunity for sleuthing, though, until Hazel stumbles across the dead body of a teacher -- which disappears while she's summoning help.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 3 ):
Kids say ( 14 ):

This great intro to whodunits for young girls also is a lot of fun for adult fans of the grandes dames of detective fiction (Agatha Christie, Dorothy L. Sayers, and so on). Much about this mash-up of English-cosy mystery and boarding-school saga is straight from central casting, but a big plus in MURDER IS BAD MANNERS is the mini-novellas and character sketches author Robin Stevens tosses off in a few sentences, such as Hazel's description of how she came to be at Deepdean:

"My mother was furious. She hates my father's obsession with England. 'Western school never did any Chinese person good,' she said.

"'Oh come now, Lin darling,' said my father, laughing. 'What about me?'

"'Exactly,' snapped my mother, and for the next week she refused to speak anything but Cantonese in protest."

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why stories set in boarding schools seem to have such enduring appeal. What others have you read orr seen in the movies? How do you like them? How does this one compare?

  • This story is set in 1934. How would it be different if it were set in the present day? How would the characters' lives be different? What about cultural attitudes?

  • How do the popular girls at your school treat the less glamorous ones? Which ones are mean, and which ones are kind to everybody? How do you feel about the way they act?

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