Parents' Guide to Billy Elliot

Movie R 2000 111 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Terrific story of young ballet dancer has strong language.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 12+

Based on 24 parent reviews

Parents say that while the movie delivers an inspiring message about being oneself and pursuing dreams, it is marred by concerns over inappropriate content for younger viewers, including strong language, sexual themes, and depictions of violence. Many reviewers feel that the themes are powerful and merit discussions with older children, but there is a consensus that it is not suitable for very young viewers or those unprepared for its mature content.

  • inspiring message
  • inappropriate content
  • strong language
  • themes for discussion
  • not suitable for young
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age 12+

Based on 36 kid reviews

Kids say the film delivers a powerful story about following one's dreams, particularly focusing on a young boy's struggle against societal norms, but it is also rife with intense language, violence, and some sexual content that makes it unsuitable for younger audiences. While many appreciate its inspiring message and relatable characters, the strong language and adult themes lead reviewers to recommend it primarily for teens and older viewers.

  • powerful story
  • strong language
  • unsuitable for children
  • positive message
  • relatable characters
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What's the Story?

BILLY ELLIOT takes place in 1984 England, as the police come to the small mining town of Durham to keep order during a strike. Amidst the tension, 11-year-old Billy (Jamie Bell), whose main sport is boxing, is pulled into a ballet lesson taught by Mrs. Wilkinson (Julie Walters). Billy discovers that ballet both answers and creates a need in him that he can no more name than he can resist. Billy lives with his father (Gary Lewis), brother, and grandmother; his mother died the year before, his grandmother is forgetful, and his father and brother are on strike. With the adults busy with their own problems, Billy is able to keep his new activity a secret ... for awhile. When his father eventually finds out, he's furious and tells his son to quit. But Billy has to dance -- and it might even be his way to bigger and better things.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 24 ):
Kids say ( 36 ):

This film is well above average -- tender, funny, and touching. Bell is extraordinary as Billy, and Lewis is first-rate as the father who makes an unbearably painful sacrifice in order to give his son the chance he never had. Director Stephen Daldry has a real gift for visual storytelling, and it's on display in Billy Elliot. A chase through hanging laundry, dance lessons in a boxing ring, and the opening shot of Billy on a trampoline are images that are fresh and memorable.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the stress of painful external circumstances like can affect family members' ability to be kind to one other in Billy Elliot. Why was the strike so important to Billy's dad and brother? How was that like -- and not like -- the importance of ballet to Billy?

  • Why did Mrs. Wilkinson want to help Billy? Why was Billy's interest in ballet so terrifying to him? What made him change his mind? What do you think of Billy's dad's response when Billy says he's scared?

  • What does it tell us that Billy's father had never been out of Durham, and that Billy had never been to see Durham's famous cathedral?

  • How does Billy Elliot demonstrate perseverance? Why is this an important character strength?

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