Parents' Guide to A First Time for Everything

A First Time for Everything book cover: Graphic design of green hills and sunset with small barn and a couple on a bench

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Sage Moreaux By Sage Moreaux , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Mild language, sex in charming friends-to-lovers romance.

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age 13+

Based on 1 kid review

What's the Story?

When Mags' older brother gets engaged, Mags finds herself reluctantly joining the wedding party. Her feelings toward her future sister-in-law, Katie, are mediocre at best, but she's determined to find a way to accept the bride-to-be, for her brother's sake. When the bride and other bridesmaids decide to play matchmaker and begin to set Mags up on blind dates, she goes along with it, determined to find a date for the wedding. But as Mags plays the field, will she find that true love has been right in front of her all along?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say ( 1 ):

Fun and charming, this book is a light summer read with generally kind characters and amusing situations. Somewhat predictable, like many romance novels, A First Time for Everything manages to stay entertaining even when it becomes clear what's on the horizon. Mags' heartfelt relationships with her brother, father, and friends is the true heart of the story, as is her dedication to staying true to herself.

The search for a wedding date in the midst of numerous bridal events makes for a fun and lighthearted plot device. But the story's real draw is the understanding of what a healthy romantic partnership is, and what it is not. Mags' independence and determination are also a plus. At times the various side characters tend to blur together, but Mags, Katie, Marco, and Meredith are all unique enough to stand as authentic characters with different personalities and quirks. The ultimate romance and Mags' first sexual encounter are treated with thought and care.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the pursuit of love in A First Time for Everything. Before the bridesmaids meet, Mags isn't terribly interested in dating, but all that changes once the other girls begin encouraging her. What messages about teen romance, dating, and love do you think this reinforces? Is there anything wrong with not pursuing romance?

  • How does Mags' courage help her navigate the blind dates she goes on?

  • What did you think about the constant use of pop culture and brand references? Did you find them distracting, or did you hardly notice them? Do you think the book would be the same without them? Why do you think the author included so many?

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