Parents' Guide to A Letter for Bob

A Letter for Bob book cover: An Indigenous family of four including a Dad, Mom, daughter and little brother are all smiling and riding in a white sedan car together; in the background and surrounding them are mountains and trees on a clear, bright day with a few clouds overhead

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age 4+

Delightful tale about a beloved family car.

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What's the Story?

Beginning with "Dear Bob," A Letter for Bob tells an intimate story of a First Nations family through the lens of Katie, a child writing a letter to a beloved family car. In gratitude for all the places it has taken them, she recalls memories one by one – parents purchasing the car from a dealership, attending tribal dances and a state fair, traveling across the country to the land where her grandparents first met, and much more – and finally expresses a tender goodbye when her parents purchase a new car to accommodate their growing family.

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Inspired by her own childhood memories and Wichita heritage, Kim Rogers has tapped into a universal endearment that recalls stories – like The Velveteen Rabbit and Herbie, the Love Bug –where children discover beloved friends in things. Jonathan Nelson's illustrations are stories in and of themselves, with fun details that draw a reader intimately into the characters' expressions, feelings, traditions, and surroundings with great warmth and fun. This is a delightful book for children, who may especially feel inspired or comforted by remembering a favorite object with gratitude.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about a beloved object and the memories it recalls. In the back of A Letter for Bob, author-curator of Heartdrum, Cynthia Leitich Smith poses the question, "Do you and your family own something that has become a friend?"

  • Write a letter to a family car or favored transportation. What would you express gratitude for?

  • Look up the locations mentioned in the book and learn about its Indigenous names and tribes.

Book Details

  • Author : Kim Rogers
  • Illustrator : Jonathan Nelson
  • Genre : Picture Book
  • Book type : Fiction
  • Publisher : Heartdrum
  • Publication date : September 19, 2023
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 4 - 8
  • Number of pages : 32
  • Available on : Hardback
  • Last updated : April 19, 2026

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